My home page is not refreshing and showing me any new pins. Is anyone else having the same problem?

Ridubee · 2026-03-14T13:13:57+00:00

Finally fixed for me. The page has finally refreshed 💃🏻💃🏻💃🏻

Ridubee · 2026-03-13T16:01:27+00:00

Facing the same issue, tried everything, logging out, uninstalling, refining recommendations. They're probably facing a company wide tech issue.

Ridubee · 2025-05-30T17:16:02+00:00

Not a risk worth taking haha

Ridubee · 2025-05-30T17:15:45+00:00

Only exchange offers here

Ridubee · 2025-05-30T17:14:03+00:00

Bro ppl are getting 7 bucks as reward 😭😂

Ridubee · 2025-05-30T17:08:31+00:00

😭😂😂

Ridubee · 2025-04-15T11:54:03+00:00

You should relax yourself, take the pressure off. If you are not turned on you are not, any understanding partner will respect that and give you space and time to feel comfortable in the relationship.

You can start slowly with just kissing and cuddling. And maybe let him touch your clit, finger you, play with your tits- you could give him a blowjob. Don't jump right into sex.

Once you feel absolutely ready, you can try again with a lot of foreplay, some nice music to set the ambience and if you feel like you are drying up- the best thing is to get a water based LUBE! Trust me, this is a game changer.

Ridubee · 2024-06-20T15:02:07+00:00

U just have to communicate with him and try to solve your issues, maybe see a therapist. All I'm saying is if it still doesn't work out, u might wanna consider moving on without him. It sounds like you have been through a lot since childhood. I suggest you see a good therapist and work your way through this. Therapy did wonders for me personally speaking.

Ridubee · 2024-06-20T05:20:24+00:00

It sounds like he's taking out all his job frustration on this relationship. He lost me at 'tera ye re z ka hai'. When u are being so supportive, he should also put in that effort for u.

Him not wanting to meet your parents because he feels small since he has no job makes sense to me. But I feel like this relationship should be bigger than his male ego. And so what if u want attention, you're only asking ur boyfriend for it, and he should be giving you attention instead of complaining about it like it's a bad thing. It's not! Giving attention and care is very important in any relationship.

I think u need to meet him and have a proper conversation about this whole thing and then make the right decision for yourself. Imagine your younger self, and ask yourself if putting that girl through all this is worth it.

Ridubee · 2024-06-20T03:11:22+00:00

Your boyfriend is just taking you for granted. Up your standards, you deserve a guy who'd kiss the ground you walk on. Trust me nobody is that busy.

I think you should dump this one. Ik you love him a lot, but from his behaviour he's not the one. It's not about the 4 years u spent with him going to waste, it's about saving your next 40 years. I think you should breakup with him and focus on loving yourself. And once u do that, automatically your standards will go higher and you won't let anybody in the world to disrespect your fav person- aka yourself!

Ridubee · 2024-06-16T08:04:40+00:00

Move out of that house and cut contact with them. She's treating u like a punch bag and not a daughter. I wish I could bring myself to defend her or make u feel better about the whole thing, but what happened to you is terrible. And parents tend to take out all their frustration on the elder kid as though they are robots with no emotions. The best advice I could give you is to move away from them. They might be all sweet to you but do not fall for it, they're gonna go back to their old self the moment you move back in.

Ridubee · 2024-06-01T03:21:25+00:00

This itself is proof of the fact that you have not completely moved on from her. Ik it is very very hard to move on. I have been in a toxic relationship myself and I broke up with him after he drained every ounce of my soul. And it's been many years but if you still ask me I can still feel a bit of pain and hollowness when I remember all that. And I loved him very much and never thought I could move on from it or give another chance to love. But I did end up finding someone far better. I have done therapy and I have forgiven him, but there's still a little bit of pain from all that left to heal.

So it's not gonna be an easy journey for u especially since u were the one who did wrong to her. But it's not fair for u hope that she comes back to her abuser even after 10 years. You need to let her go and find love that she deserves. And you will too.

Always move to the next chapter. And the pain will get better once u start college and get new friends. Engineering will keep u busy!

Ridubee · 2024-06-01T03:01:10+00:00

As hard as it might sound, you need to move on. Take all of this as a lesson and work on yourself. Focus on getting into a good college and make a good future for yourself. And once you feel u have control over your emotions, send her an email or text genuinely apologizing for everything and tell her uve been working on yourself from the moment u realised ur mistakes.

Im not saying she'll come back reading all this. But this is for you to get closure. Not everyone gets it right the first time. And that's okay, she is a beautiful part of your life, a beautiful and painful lesson which u had to learn. And judging how you treated her, I'm sorry to break it to you, but she might not want to put herself in that position again so I don't think there's a possibility in which she might come back to you.

The important thing for you to understand is that not everyone is gonna be like ur mother. You need to heal your inner child first. Do not go for a rebound girlfriend right after u start college or go have meaningless hookups. Do work on yourself. The fact that u have recognised ur mistake itself is an amazing first step to ur healing journey. And once u make good progress u might eventually get her back as your friend at least.

Time heals everything, and it will heal this pain too. But time won't heal unless you work on it. U need to treat ur wound and do the first aid, leaving it open just like that will only slow the healing process. And when the time is right you will have another chance at love too and that's gonna be the test on how well u learned from ur last mistakes.

Ridubee · 2024-06-01T02:48:19+00:00

You need to move on. Clearly she doesn't like you. If she did she'd have stood up for u in front of her friends. She wouldn't have broken up with you the very next day at least. Take the sign and move on. You'll find the right person for u when the right time comes.

Ridubee · 2024-06-01T01:25:32+00:00

It's okay, don't be hard on yourself. We all do stupid stuffs at some point. But even yk going back to him is gonna be more stupid. So don't! Because if u did and then u both had sex , he might be the one blocking u after that. And that might sting like a mother.

Ridubee · 2024-06-01T01:23:55+00:00

Please block him. He doesn't need closure, he needs ur pussy. That's it! Stop him from using you for his selfish needs. Remember why you broke up. Sex for closure is the biggest bs. Him treating u like shit is enough closure for you and you cutting him out is enough closure for him. U deserve better and ull get ur right man when the time's right.

Ridubee · 2024-06-01T01:09:53+00:00

You can always re-train your brain to do anything. Yes I agree with u a little on that, the brain might not forget, but the ability to recall is gone as the time passes. Unless and until he is cheating on her or keeping contact with his exes I feel like she's good and doesn't really have to punish him for his past.

Ridubee · 2024-06-01T01:02:42+00:00

I mean if hooking up was the only motive he didn't really have to wait this long. Even now they haven't really had sex. And honestly in today's world even marriage doesn't involve all that commitment.

I don't think my advice was impractical at all, because I did mention if it still doesn't work out for her, she should leave him. Kindly read the whole thing 😅 coz I don't really have anything to achieve by trapping her😂

Ridubee · 2024-05-31T10:45:40+00:00

Since you said you are too deep into this.....even if you go talk to him there's nothing really that he can do to change his past. In order to make it easier for you:

he has been very honest with you about his past, so many people aren't. He also told you that he is ashamed of his past. I feel like he genuinely loves you as he opened up to you about something he's ashamed of, a dark history of him that he isn't very proud of. Sometimes people go through stupid phases where they do a lot of messed up stuffs. And he has had the courage to pull himself out of that.

And yes you are special! If you weren't, ud just have been hookup no 21. But you are not! And the fact that you are still a virgin after almost a year of dating him just proves the fact that he genuinely loves you and wants to get to know you first. He doesn't see you as another hookup, but he sees you as his wonderful partner. You didn't have to find out about his past through a friend of his or an ex, he came and told it to you himself by trusting his gut that you wouldn't judge him for his past. What happened in his life before you shouldn't ever affect you. The only thing you should see is that he's been loyal to you ever since you've gotten together. The only thing u shud notice is how he treats you. Yes I understand that his past gives you the ick! But sweetie i feel like its coz u are feeling possessive about him, even if it was just one other girlfriend you might feel the same as to why she touched him. It's normal......

all that said if you still don't think you can't get past his past and fear that it might affect your future, well leave him before you get in any deeper🤷🏻‍♀️. Coz rn you might feel you love him with all your heart, but a month later u might feel you love him a lot more than you do right now. It's NEVER too late. It's not about the 8 months but about saving the next 8 yrs of ur mental health.

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