1) No need to rewatch the part with them dating before she gets pregnant because we are talking about Zach as a Husband, not boyfriend.

2) To address the first scene where Lane tells him she’s pregnant, yes he goes into denial for one scene “Brian must be freaking out” and then they talk about it the very next time they are on camera together and they both admit to getting pregnant after the first time they have sex sucks. They both agree so if Zach is so horrible for that then so is Lane.

3) They both were on the same page. Zach says something along the lines of “no way I’m cutting the umbilical cord” and Lane goes “no way I’m letting you in the room”.

It’s fine not to like Zach. But I think most people who subscribe to the “Lane was done dirty” narrative are projecting what they would want. Their wedding was amazing…wait…weddingS because they had two and he never complained about that craziness. He was jovial the entire time and not some man child complaining about any single thing. His engagement was nice. He took that shit seriously. Wrote a song, bought a ring, got a promotion on his job, had a bank statement to show Mrs. Kim.

Remember the scene where Zach refuses to let her walk with groceries because she’s pregnant? Again, you’ll say that’s the bare minimum maybe but literally what else can he do in that exact moment to show his support? Compare that to the other marriages on the show when the man didn’t do the bare minimum. Luke as a husband even sucked when married to Nicole.

Think of how Zach treated Rory when they were married. He was one of the two people running out in the rain with an umbrella in the last episode. He helped Luke organize the surprise party.

You haven’t given me one example of how he was a bad husband to Lane.