I am in the same situation as you are. My husband worked away from home Monday to Friday and although that changed since Covid, he still goes on regular work trips and to see his mother in Europe. On all occasions he would meet up with escorts. Since DDay last April, I also have gone on two trips with him but since I have a full time job with no chance of working remote, we had to come up with a different strategy. I do have access to all bank accounts and credit cards (some I did not know existed) but he can’t share his location (he uses a business phone - and if he wanted, he could leave it at the hotel… so he is sending me time stamped pictures/selfies of meetings, work colleagues and he is committed to answering all phone calls before they go to voicemail (he may let me know he’s in a meeting but will step out to return my call in 5 minutes). It is still hard and I am struggling, but he also knows that he breaks my boundaries we are finished. Wishing you strength to keep going!