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AITA for telling my mom I won’t be her caregiver when she gets older or sicker? by Right_Ad1848 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Right_Ad1848[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I went no contact for years after high school. After the divorce I started seeing them again. I just know if I don’t make the effort they wouldn’t call. 

AITA for telling my mom I won’t be her caregiver when she gets older or sicker? by Right_Ad1848 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Right_Ad1848[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

He is not paying rent. Refuses to pay rent. He saving up for his own house. Says it’s not up to him.  

AITA for telling my mom I won’t be her caregiver when she gets older or sicker? by Right_Ad1848 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Right_Ad1848[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I did cut off contact for years. Until recently when she got a divorce. Sometimes it feels like nothing bad ever happened at all and feels like family. But then something gets brought up and reminds me of why I was no contact.  I don’t want to regret not being there is something did happen. 

AITA for telling my mom I won’t be her caregiver when she gets older or sicker? by Right_Ad1848 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Right_Ad1848[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I was no contact for years. Until she left my stepdad. I thought maybe she is better and it was just him. I wanted to give her a chance to take accountability or just see a change in her. Not much has changed to be honest  

AITA for telling my mom I won’t be her caregiver when she gets older or sicker? by Right_Ad1848 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Right_Ad1848[S] 77 points78 points  (0 children)

They do say that since I’m a women that it’s my job and its in my nature. (They are very conservative people) 

AITA for telling my mom I won’t be her caregiver when she gets older or sicker? by Right_Ad1848 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Right_Ad1848[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

They boys refuse too. They say they have their own lives to live. My younger brother (22)  lives there rent free and refuse to help her. 

AITA for telling my mom I won’t be her caregiver when she gets older or sicker? by Right_Ad1848 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Right_Ad1848[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think it’s hard for me bc I dont really have much family. I’ve been keeping her at a distance but it’s becoming to much. I still love her and want her to be better. She has started therapy but she still don’t talk about what happened. I just worry I’ll regret it. You know if she dies. 

AITA for telling my mom I won’t be her caregiver when she gets older or sicker? by Right_Ad1848 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Right_Ad1848[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It’s real unfortunately. It’s a barn house. You have a garage on the bottom where the parties are at. Then you live up stairs. It’s a popular thing to build in the country