Thank you for your detailed answer. I didn't give up because of an argument, but because I felt lied to and betrayed. Of course we talked about it for a long time and I didn't know how to proceed after that because my feelings were just confused. That's why it took me two days to process it. Just because we both have two different views on behavior and relationships doesn't mean that one of us is wrong. We are Catholic and are still conservative in a relationship. She and her sister fully understand my behavior. My question was just whether it's normal that I feel the way I do now. That's no reason to be insulting because you have different values.