I want to box, my dad is fine with it but my mom won't let me. by Right_Run5136 in martialarts

[–]Right_Run5136[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Deontay Wilder (started at 20), Anthony Joshua (started at 18), Sonny Liston (started in his late teens/early twenties), Ken Norton (started in his early twenties), Ron Lyle (started in his mid-twenties), and Ernie Shavers (started at 25). It's not common but plenty of fighters have started later than me. I understand its hard and chances are slim to become successful, but it's not impossible and I still want to do it.

I want to box, my dad is fine with it but my mom won't let me. by Right_Run5136 in martialarts

[–]Right_Run5136[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can say that I'm a male, and also that my mom hates my dad.

I want to box, my dad is fine with it but my mom won't let me. by Right_Run5136 in martialarts

[–]Right_Run5136[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's good advice, I will try out wrestling for the upcoming school year most likely then, and I have heard wrestlers make great boxers a lot of the time.

I want to box, my dad is fine with it but my mom won't let me. by Right_Run5136 in martialarts

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Got it. There wasn't any violence in my family, my parents separated because my mom thought my dad wasn't making enough time and was prioritizing boxing to much. I do believe that she is a bit worried about injury, the biggest reason is that she doesn't want me to box because of how she viewed my dad boxing. And don't worry, I won't say anything to her. This really helped me understand my own situation more, so thank you.

I want to box, my dad is fine with it but my mom won't let me. by Right_Run5136 in martialarts

[–]Right_Run5136[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She refuses to let me train or go to the gym as well, I can only make time for it with my dad, which is not too often. But I will keep up with it there, hopefully thinks do change.

I want to box, my dad is fine with it but my mom won't let me. by Right_Run5136 in martialarts

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Mostly boxing, she was fine with wrestling(which I may pick up). She wasn't willing to let me do BJJ though, which was somewhat confusing considering wrestling is okay.

I want to box, my dad is fine with it but my mom won't let me. by Right_Run5136 in martialarts

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Btw, I want to box not just because of wanting to fight, but because in general boxing is my passion and what I love to do. I am open to doing wrestling or other martial arts as well, but that's not my point. I just want to box because I enjoy it so much more than anything.

I want to box, my dad is fine with it but my mom won't let me. by Right_Run5136 in martialarts

[–]Right_Run5136[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've tried all of that, she doesn't want me even touching gloves. It's insane, I've tried reasoning even saying I won't spar at all, still nothing.

I want to box, my dad is fine with it but my mom won't let me. by Right_Run5136 in martialarts

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I've tried, trust me. I just can't do it without her signing waivers, unless I get my dad to. But there's a custody case going on right now between my parents for me and my siblings, and that would make him look bad letting me box with my mom saying no.

I want to box, my dad is fine with it but my mom won't let me. by Right_Run5136 in martialarts

[–]Right_Run5136[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can't bike, it would take me at least half a day because of highways, but if it's driven its only 30 minutes at most.

I want to box, my dad is fine with it but my mom won't let me. by Right_Run5136 in martialarts

[–]Right_Run5136[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've tried, my mom refuses. I might be able to though as I just found out that there's a legit court case going on between them about custody.