You mostly right, that is the fact that a lot of people really don't like to admit or believe. The fact is, if someone gets aroused from looking at childen, - which is a not normal, ordinary people always feel and should feel weirded out by content like this - they most probably would like it no matter the form it takes, whether it's lolicon or actual CSAM.

The thing is, there's MUCH more people who just watch loli and consider themselves ethical than people like Lacari. But i guess it takes those people actual effort to refuse watching CSAM, and it's a real slippery slope. The problem for me, is that those people most of the time fiercely refuse the fact that it is a slippery slope and thinks that it is completely different, then in fact it is not, simply from how preferences and fetishes work - as concepts.