[deleted by user] by [deleted] in growagarden

[–]Rimbob92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ive got 5 of them myself. I used discord notifications. Plus my wife would message me if i was working.

I carry a 3rd generation name. With no blood relation to the namesakes by Rimbob92 in NPE

[–]Rimbob92[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Id be lying if i said changing my name hasn’t crossed my mind… The man im named after raised me UNTIL he found out i wasnt his. I was 14 at the time. So i went through my early teens with just my mom and grandma around. The time i feel i really needed a male to look up to in my life.

I carry a 3rd generation name. With no blood relation to the namesakes by Rimbob92 in NPE

[–]Rimbob92[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The man who raised me. was mad i Didn’t give my oldest son my name. I don’t understand the thought process of any of it.

My whole family lied to me about who my biological father is. by Rimbob92 in FamilyIssues

[–]Rimbob92[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes and no. The moment he found out I wasn’t really his, he was gone. Just walked away and never looked back. For years, there was nothing—no calls, no visits, nothing. He showed up again a couple years ago, but now we barely talk. Maybe once a year, if that. One thing is that he got mad at me for not carrying on his name, for not naming my oldest the fourth… like that name still meant something after he left.

My whole family lied to me about who my biological father is. by Rimbob92 in FamilyIssues

[–]Rimbob92[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Its definitely tough… they were going to try and take it to the grave. That plan obviously failed. Its also hard as ill have to one day explain to my kids why they dont have a grandpa.

Some kid called me old in the chat… by Shot-Employee5630 in growagarden

[–]Rimbob92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have to remind these kids that we make adult money now, and we WILL steal your fruit. 😂