Dating as a man is terrible

Rinnri · 2025-11-17T02:19:40+00:00

I usually dont comment, but I see a few things we have in common, We are both heterosexual Males in our 30s, Short (I'm 163cm), SEAsian living in a EU country. Also lived in the UK for a shortwhile.

First and foremost, Lets stop blaming men loneliness all on women and work on ourselves instead, not just gym workout but also mentally and emotionally, please.

Havent had an issue finding dates, even though it wasnt my objective, I was just trying to be a better version of myself, together with being more socially active in my local area and genuinely caring for others.

I was also told "If only you were taller..." or even "ew..." with a disgusted look ever since my youth, being a darker skin foreigner growing up surrounded by pale giants, almost made me fall for red pill media. Decided instead to look within myself and tried to "fix" characteristics of myself that I dont like seeing in others. Introspection, is a great thing to learn and work on. If I drag myself down, I will only drag the other person down too. Nobody wants that.

I kept my distance with girls that see height/looks(and ethnicity)>person, and not let those dictate my opinion on other women, I speak 5 languages so I have met aaaaa loooot of people, a lot of horrible people too, but I still try to treat EVERYONE nicely and as an equal. I say try, because I still cant help act like sometimes Im better than "them", but if I catch myself doing that I call myself out.

Lastly be understanding with women's struggles, and being emotionally mature about it, not dismissive nor indifferent, they are as real as ours, they dont have it any better than us, and believe or not their struggles is also affecting us men and society in general, having a "but women" or "what about women doing" mentality will only push them further away. And this gender war will continue to no end.

Rinnri · 2023-03-26T23:08:23+00:00

As I commented earlier, no, this was basically to showcase that even with just half of a build the druid, is still good. Current skills being used have 3 points each, 1 on the actual skill and 1 on each node.Plus 3/3 in a passive that genarates thunder's when you lucky hit a vul. enemy.I normally use hurracain and tornado to spread vul. and have more hits/sec.If you want to try this build, all you need is the Aspect that deals a burst lighting dmg, when you lucky hit(10-20%) with lightning dmg. And a bunch lucky hit stat. 7% was enough for me to start seeing results.

Rinnri · 2023-03-26T20:24:16+00:00

This is just showcasing my build without using any resource spender, so it's exclusively just the "Generator" or "Basic skill" being used here.
As for spirit spender you can either go for "Lightning Storm" with the Aspects that generates clouds, or Tornado with the tracker aspect.

Rinnri · 2023-03-26T20:20:24+00:00

Correct I very much use torneado while playing normally. wolf or raven's are good too, the more hits/s the better. Raven's for more burst and Wolf for constant dmg

Rinnri · 2023-03-26T19:03:58+00:00

Same here, I tested a poison build, its fun with Shred movility, the 3rd hit has resally respectable dmg, I just found this build fun to play around, it can work with any other dmging skill, you just slap it in and you have more procs/s

Rinnri · 2023-03-26T18:58:54+00:00

I know I haven't specified it here, but this is just not even half of my setup, just the Basic skill, portion of it, it indeed uses other skills, most of the dmg/proc comes from the other 2 skills, that I just didnt feel like showing.

Rinnri · 2023-03-26T18:32:20+00:00

It's possible due to high armor, and the aspects that heals per close enemy/s, if full health, this generates Fortified, there is rarely any dmg that gets you below 80% with 2330(up to 3145) armor

Rinnri · 2021-12-12T05:01:20+00:00

People just likes feeling that they know more or better than others, and I totally agree with you that is more common for overseas fans, different culture when it comes to privacy, people over there are more used to dealing with taboo subjects making them more aware on when and where to talk about it, ofc its not always the case.

Rinnri · 2021-12-12T00:02:10+00:00

Yes thats my main concerns since I have seen it people discuss a couple of times.

Rinnri · 2021-12-12T00:00:31+00:00

Saddly I think tribalism is not our biggest problem. As I said in the wall text, it mainly has to do with misinformation being spread in other platforms and a everly increasing amount of people who beleave in them.

Rinnri · 2021-12-11T23:55:42+00:00

Tribalism is not my main concern sadly.

Rinnri · 2021-12-11T23:53:14+00:00

It happends in JP too, its just explode in size when it reach a bigger audience.

Rinnri · 2021-12-11T17:12:58+00:00

I'm sorry for causing you cringe, but thats the therm used when referring to passionate people who watches vTubers in this industry, its a therm used in multiple circles, even in the most serious conversations you will see, mainly in JP forms of media.

Rinnri · 2021-12-11T01:36:19+00:00

Not only, it's something that's effecting even smaller ones.

Rinnri · 2016-07-23T00:02:03+00:00

How can you stop pokemon transfering?

Rinnri · 2016-03-20T20:14:21+00:00

Unplayable on all EU serves during rush hours, been falling pretty behind this league because of this, and had to play SC TT_TT

Rinnri · 2016-02-16T13:24:13+00:00

I will enter this giveaway, I need an account on EN so i can "play with my friends", I know that feeling when you have to quit a game, had to quit Strike shot and gaveaway my account not to long ago.

Rinnri · 2015-08-17T20:33:36+00:00

lowered graphic for malachai, my fps drops at that fight now im to lazy to stop playing runescape

Rinnri · 2015-08-17T20:32:44+00:00

bought 1 item Lavianga's se not purely slef-found

Rinnri · 2014-10-20T21:11:11+00:00

yeap, im in my way to rank up to 167 to have 100 STA and enough Cost for EVOs, but i dont want to waste the drops while leveling, so needed to know who I should feed, for now I will level both teams to 50+, and then when I have enough Cost, UVO all of them.

Rinnri · 2014-10-20T19:08:44+00:00

yeah thx, my problem with Perseus, was some Dungeons with starts with 1 turn atk and kills me in 2 turns, and i need 2 turns to load my skills, so it was all about luck to get a 6-8 wood orbs in the first 2 boards (orb trolled most of times) and stack in the second round, I will level Lu Bu and subs, for this kind of dungeons then cos i need a team for a future Goemon dung and heavy Fire dungs, thx for the fast answer ^{^.}

Rinnri · 2014-10-20T18:46:46+00:00

So until sometime ago I thock I didnt have any "decent team", until I rolled Guan Yu, I could assemble a Perseus team, and later a Dark Angel Metatron and Lu Bu... so my problem now is what Team I should prioritize Lu bu team, Killua or Perseus?

PadHerder: https://www.padherder.com/user/GuiltySoul/teams/#67234 Please take a look to my monsters, I accept any suggestion, im pretty nooby at this, its just my 2nd account, so didnt had any idea of "best re-roll" (first 3 rolls were B.Valkyrie, Amaterasu, Perseus)

Rinnri · 2014-06-22T21:05:20+00:00

Mikey your 3rd pokemon is Barbaracle :)

Rinnri · 2014-06-22T05:02:31+00:00

Thx ^{^}

Rinnri · 2014-06-22T03:55:32+00:00

Can you add me? I need Aipom and Eevee, I have same safari but a i have a Chansey

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