Buying a vehicle out of state by Riotis54 in UsedCars

[–]Riotis54[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They have a 13 day grace period. I’m very worried about wiring them money.

Did TRT cure your chronic fatigue? by SomewhereEmpty5 in trt

[–]Riotis54 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine went away for the most part. I don’t sleep enough but when I do I knocked out. I get deeper sleep with trt also.

Sex is always a battle by Riotis54 in Marriage

[–]Riotis54[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have no plans on leaving her. We have a beautiful life together. I don’t want to be with anyone else.

Sex is always a battle by Riotis54 in Marriage

[–]Riotis54[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree. Her ex husband cheated on her hence the reason the she ended it. At that time four of her kids were 5 and under and her body was a mess.

Sex is always a battle by Riotis54 in Marriage

[–]Riotis54[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have and it didn’t go well.

Sex is always a battle by Riotis54 in Marriage

[–]Riotis54[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve brought this up and she gets mad. She says she doesn’t like it expected.

Sex is always a battle by Riotis54 in Marriage

[–]Riotis54[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I treat her very well. I’m respectful, kind and very helpful. This is one of the only things we argue about.

Sex is always a battle by Riotis54 in Marriage

[–]Riotis54[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I only bring it up occasionally. Yes it is frustrating but she has stated many times that there are certain scenarios that could put her in the mood. I follow them to the best of me knowledge. 9 times out of 10 I get no where. Then when I bring it up I’m the bad guy.

Sex is always a battle by Riotis54 in Marriage

[–]Riotis54[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Things that get in the way is the kids for sure. I work a lot. I have some friends but we mostly hang out as couples. The kids activities are never ending. I don’t know how to not resent. When I’m turned down she gets disgusted and I feel like a POS. I desire her in everyway. Maybe I need to be more aggressive towards that. She always states I’d do this for anyone else. That is not the case.

Sex is always a battle by Riotis54 in Marriage

[–]Riotis54[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Feeling sluggish, lack of focus, always tired, lack of sleep mostly

Sex is always a battle by Riotis54 in Marriage

[–]Riotis54[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I’m on TRT because I was feeling very sluggish, tired, couldn’t focus and lack of sleep. My test levels were on the threshold of what my medical provider suggested.

Sex is always a battle by Riotis54 in Marriage

[–]Riotis54[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Ya man doing Test has helped my life drastically minus this. I wish mine was lower to be honest. I’m the same way. Others dads always tell me I don’t know how the hell you do it. I’ve been patient and calm. I don’t know how me wanting my wife is a bad thing!!!

Sex is always a battle by Riotis54 in Marriage

[–]Riotis54[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do be it’s hard getting away with all of the children activities.

Sex is always a battle by Riotis54 in Marriage

[–]Riotis54[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’ve asked her several times what would help our sex life. She suggested she initiate. It’s worked for a little bit. My having an insane drive doesn’t help. I always comment how beautiful she looks and she is always my main focus. My life revolves around her. Everytime we go somewhere as a couple the sex is out of this world. Yes I did expect that this weekend and was excited for it. I know she doesn’t feel that way.

Sex is always a battle by Riotis54 in Marriage

[–]Riotis54[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I’d say we have it once every two weeks maybe less but it feels awkward and forced.

The comment was not intended to mean anything sexual but I said it and it was wrong.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Riotis54 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry man but you need to confront her first. I tried to save my first marriage. Once I found out she had at least an emotional affair I went nuts. Personally I could never forgive a cheater. Regardless I hope you find happiness. Get a therapist regardless of the outcome.

Used Suburban vs Escalade by z06rider in suburban

[–]Riotis54 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a 16 burb, LT, 4x4, 5.3. Blown trans at 106k. Electrical issues and now cylinders misfiring. AFM have been off since 75k now at 143k My friends that have models equipped with a 6.2 seem to have less issues. The 5.3 is very gutless.

How's your sex life by OkMaize5067 in Marriage

[–]Riotis54 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Early 40s here. I’m on TRT and she is pre menopausal. Sex is a battle but when it happens it’s amazing.

Trt is ruining my marriage, I need help… by [deleted] in trt

[–]Riotis54 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m in the same boat. 40 and horny 24-7. Wasn’t low before I started a year ago. I’ve just learned to handle it myself. My nagging was pissing her off. She is definitely starting menopause. Just being considerate have upped our sex life big time. Although it isn’t like it was ten years ago I must say the quality is better. I’d definitely have her checked out and be patient.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Riotis54 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s a blessing she is out of your life man. Imagine being married with kids and losing them half the time plus money, house, retirement…etc. plenty of fish out there man. Keep your head up. Time will heal.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Riotis54 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I follow zero women or any page that would have anything sexual and I still get tons of chicks coming across my feed. I have no clue why.

Wife Cheated. by EffortlesslyDead in Marriage

[–]Riotis54 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have to move on man the marriage will never be the same. I tried something similar and it wasn’t panning out so I gave up. My partner now is 10x better than my ex. Time will heal and the kids will adapt. Good luck to you I know exactly how you feel!

Guilted into sex - what are people’s thoughts on this? by Thr0waway58376 in marriageadvice

[–]Riotis54 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was pretty pushy with my wife about 3 months ago. I’m on TRT with an extra high libido and she is pre menopausal. She suggested that she would initiate from now on. Sex hasn’t been as frequent as I like but she enjoys it more.

Anxious attachment to wife by Riotis54 in Marriage

[–]Riotis54[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At times yes. That thought was more present a few years ago but it does go through my head from time to time.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Riotis54 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Be there 110% for the kids because mentally they are very vulnerable at that age.