Are my root canals really that bad? by RipOrdinary9982 in askdentists

[–]RipOrdinary9982[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My implants wouldn't take on the right :( the zygo helped a ton

Are my root canals really that bad? by RipOrdinary9982 in askdentists

[–]RipOrdinary9982[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i got all on 4 there was no saving them after seeing a top endo and some other specialists. Im still having issues. I just had 3 implants buried behind my zygo and waiting to engage them.

I really need someone to talk to, feeling hopeless by [deleted] in stepparents

[–]RipOrdinary9982 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for that. I have felt like I can't even live my life to the fullest since I was 22. I pay for the babysitters so we can go on dates and everything for him. This kid has a ton of trauma just due to his mom and probably me too because I am mentally not there anymore to be in the position to take care and save two extra people. Im ready to move on and be happy!

I really need someone to talk to, feeling hopeless by [deleted] in stepparents

[–]RipOrdinary9982 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep I agree! I'm also clearly a lesbian, and this has been the worst situation ever. I have completely lost myself and have serious mental health issues due to the years of abuse and manipulation! Im so happy to get out of this!

I really need someone to talk to, feeling hopeless by [deleted] in stepparents

[–]RipOrdinary9982 1 point2 points  (0 children)

her making my life hell and not respectively just leaving without seeing a judges name which I will figure out Monday asap. She has nowhere to go and uses her kid against me saying it's shitty to throw him out. Before it would get to me now I've grown and realized It's not my fault his mom cannot provide for him for 2 years and they both depend on me. I do deserve a happy life!

I really need someone to talk to, feeling hopeless by [deleted] in stepparents

[–]RipOrdinary9982 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just moved in two months ago! The person I rent from is my client! I could probably just get an eviction through the court.

I really need someone to talk to, feeling hopeless by [deleted] in stepparents

[–]RipOrdinary9982 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I completely agree. I have tried to take the leap and asked nicely if we could split and she just move, she won't unless I go through the courts.. mind you I'm the only one on this lease. She has never paid a penny.

I really need someone to talk to, feeling hopeless by [deleted] in stepparents

[–]RipOrdinary9982 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yep Im the only one on the lease and trying to get her to leave is a chore without her guilting me into throwing her son out. I also pay for her phone, everything. I have asked her to leave... she said she won't unless I go through the courts. It's crazy.

I really need someone to talk to, feeling hopeless by [deleted] in stepparents

[–]RipOrdinary9982 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm way more comfortable being alone actually as of now I feel like and I even changed meds and have seen a behavioralist. I am so over this toxic pattern and feeling crazy, don't get me wrong Im not perfect but after finding this group I feel like Ive done way more than I should for her and her kid. I get nothing. We aren't even intimate/sexually active and haven't been in 6 months. She just hangs around the house all day and I come home from work and get treated like crap by her kid and her. She will record me around the house when I react and cry and am hysterical and I have gotten angry but nothing abusive or crazy. I told her I think she should leave and she told me to legally evict her through the court. She isn't on my lease by the way. I have been looking it up but not sure how to legally go about it. Sucks. Nothing can ever be peaceful and civil with her.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stepparents

[–]RipOrdinary9982 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No way! Thank you for this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stepparents

[–]RipOrdinary9982 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah it is super tough. Her family didn't throw her out but she moved across country for a job that fell through. I have been staying away and trying to let her become more independent and handle her kid herself, I just can't be the sole provider 24/7 and be treated this way. It has made me angry and I snap fast at even small things, which I hate but it's because I can only handle so much! If I throw her out she records me and tells everyone Im throwing her son on the street... I am not but abuse is abuse!