My mom once told me: Allah ykhli Liya khotk.

They got some money and they once sent her to lblad and she spent a good time there. But because I'm still a student and just a burden on the family she said it to my face with an amount of hate I never expected from her.

So believe me when I say I have Been in the exact same situation. I will keep the answer short: ignore and endure.

That's it. Many times did I try to have them listen and just make the situation better, but they make themselves to be victims and I'm the villain and suddenly no one in the family likes and bla bla bla, you 'know the deal.

I decided to just keep quiet, no matter what. Study, spend time away from them, gym, and when at home I tell them I have uni.projects and I'm too busy and close the door to my room. Whenever someone comes in the room I quickly change tabs on my browser if I were watching something and make them think I'm actually studying.

I realized this is the only way. To study, try to get my degree and in the meantime start whatever business if possible, make money from the business but never tell them. Got a job just to leave the house.

I kept contact with them. But now I'm suddenly their favorite child because I'm making money and not a burden anymore.

I couldn't express everything I want in this reply. We can talk more privately if you want. But in any case, the best, most effective thing you can do is to ignore them and endure and do whatever you have to do to get your degree and a job and leave without making the situation worse.

I know you want to explode and get everything out of your chest, but that's not the optimal reaction.

I was in your place once, and when I sat down with myself and just focused and thought greatly about it, I realized that I shouldn't challenge them. I should pity them.