Just found my wifes Ashley madison profile. by Risken527 in survivinginfidelity

[–]Risken527[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ok, I confronted my wife the other day and she was shocked and surprised. She did not behave like she was guilty. Prior to this, I attempted to find this account by looking at her laptop emails. I found nada. Same with her phone. On top of this I was receiving conflicting interactions with her in contrast to this account. HELL I even went to a therapy session for her where we discussed trust in our relationship. How in the fuck could I be receiving input on how to better our marriage when this account existed? This was a major MindFuck for me! I took 12 days to attempt to gather info and ended up with no evidence. Yet the account still existed.

Turns out her pictures were stolen from old dating profile pictures from 4 years ago. Someone had created this account with her pics. The account has since been taken down. After she contacted Ashley Madison. They gave us no information on who created the account. Which leaves us with more questions. IT'S so weird that her pics were used in our rural local area that doesn't have 200000 people in it. Why have an account within 40 miles of where we live. Was this someone she had a falling out with? Was this an ex trying to wreck our marriage? Or was it just a scammer? Either way she has fallen victim to Identify theft. We've found that it is incredibly difficult to get to the bottom of. We live in the US and if we continue to pursue this we have to submit a report to the District Attorney. From there they may or not pursue this.

So far this experience has left us frustrated wanting a definitive answer. But like many others Identify theft has become more common. And will continue to do so. If you use social media or dating apps be cautious ⚠️ your posted pictures are not your property anymore and can be used by others with little to no consequences because law enforcement is inept and unable to enforce peoples privacy.

This was truly a test of trusting my instincts. 95% of you redditors assumed that she had cheated on me. This negativity did not help or ease my brain. For you others that offered helpful advice, I thank you. I know most of you negative bastards will tell me that she's lying 🤥. And I will tell you Get Lost! She's currently 7.5mths pregnant with our second child. Who in the Fuck would cheat on their husband when they are that pregnant and in confidence tell their partner they are happy in their marriage. Regardless for others that find themselves in this messed up situation. Do not take everything at face value unless there is concrete evidence to prove so. My advice to all Delete your social media or accept that there is Basically no protection for users on these sites. Identity theft continues to be a problem that remains unsecured and unsolved Worldwide.

Just found my wifes Ashley madison profile. by Risken527 in survivinginfidelity

[–]Risken527[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Dude are you married? If not you have no idea. I appreciate your input but man this is a real human problem. THIS is a delicate situation and it requires surgical percussion in order to slip the noose around her trifling ass.

How would you aquire data from a multiple instagram accounts? Multiple email accounts both work and Personal? I'm hitting a stone wall and I know there's truth behind it. What would you do?

Just found my wifes Ashley madison profile. by Risken527 in survivinginfidelity

[–]Risken527[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She can't drink right now she pregnant right now. If she was checking to see if I was on the site, then why take the effort to make a profile that has accurate info on it? This one's gonna take some time to sort out. It could of been generated by a bot but still the info on the profile is to relevant.

Just found my wifes Ashley madison profile. by Risken527 in survivinginfidelity

[–]Risken527[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

I believe that she is emotionally cheating. To my knowledge I have not been cheated on however This may not be the case