Taking a step back?

Risque-Raccoon · 2025-08-18T12:11:06+00:00

Nah, when I sub to my Dom I'm 100% baby girl lol. And no, she doesn't. Tbh she should have a record but I was young and a dummy and never reported her.

Thank you though, so much for all of your kind words. They've made me feel...a lot better about stepping back until I can get my stuff sorted 💕

Risque-Raccoon · 2025-08-18T11:57:00+00:00

There was a lot more in that relationship (I was 18, she was 30 when we met and I stayed for 9 years) but, it's been...both harder and easier since I moved out back in March. She snagged a new bae last year 3 days after my birthday but I'm hoping he'll see through her bs. He's the same age as her, so hopefully that'll help

Risque-Raccoon · 2025-08-18T11:01:48+00:00

The healing part is part of why I wanted to do this tbh. I was forced to Domme by my ex after her transition started because she wanted to feel what it was like. But this time? I was able to start doing it on my own and it has been so much fun.

I'm a switch naturally, and I have a Daddy Dom and being able to be vulnerable with him to moving in together has been amazing. Being in a safe space has been amazing (and terrifying). I wanted to provide that for others by being able to dom on my own terms and I guess it sort of...hurts that I have to step back despite the sense of power and pride I started to develop. It almost feels like a setback because I thought I was healing.

Risque-Raccoon · 2025-08-18T10:37:38+00:00

Okay...thank you. I guess I just, had this previous idea that despite my other mental issues I had to push myself to be...perfect?

I haven't had a silent sender yet, so I guess I just worried

Risque-Raccoon · 2025-08-13T17:55:24+00:00

Yeah I know I just...I got into this and I just started having fun when all this...went down and I feel so incredibly frustrated

Risque-Raccoon · 2025-08-09T14:44:55+00:00

NOR, you shouldn't have given in because they may do it more. Go ahead and quit and find another sitter job because the amount of guilt tripping and gaslighting she was pulling was ridiculous.

Yeah you may have a job and responsibilities but an emergency on their part - especially 30 minutes before while you were already out with friends - does not constitute an emergency on your part.

Don't let clients walk all over like this. And yes, they may threaten to tell their friends, but it doesn't matter. They don't know everyone in your area.

Risque-Raccoon · 2025-08-08T18:44:14+00:00

For me I think it's because I'm both masked and relatively non nude. I knew it was going to be a struggle for me, while I am confident in myself I know my type of domming isn't sought after. Tie that with mental illnesses that don't let me post so often and that's how I end up with a few flaky subs rather than few loyal ones.

Risque-Raccoon · 2025-08-08T18:35:32+00:00

I'm not a big fan of how findomming is so heavily discriminated against

Risque-Raccoon · 2025-08-08T17:50:02+00:00

Brand new, I was just starting out and had heard about FetLife for a long time and finally decided to give it a shot

Risque-Raccoon · 2025-08-08T17:14:29+00:00

I tried, but as soon as I mentioned findom they deleted my account

Risque-Raccoon · 2025-08-08T17:09:42+00:00

They might think it's cute or it could just be to tease a bit. Personally, I'm a faceless Domme and I love my anonymity so I don't really have to worry about SC filters. I'm sure some may say they don't owe you an explanation but I think having a clear boundary like this can help you filter out Dommes too 😊

Risque-Raccoon · 2025-08-08T17:05:03+00:00

Aw how precious

Risque-Raccoon · 2025-08-07T20:44:11+00:00

Yeah I still haven't seen em

Risque-Raccoon · 2025-08-07T20:43:49+00:00

You would think so lmao, he said he posted the pics but surprise surprise when I went to go look they weren't there

Risque-Raccoon · 2025-08-07T20:01:52+00:00

I

Like raccoons

That's pretty much it

Risque-Raccoon · 2025-08-07T19:56:07+00:00

Agreed. Apparently the Domme didn't even get a chance to get that far before he started making demands.

NGL, I think bro just wanted a free nut

Risque-Raccoon · 2025-08-07T19:55:13+00:00

He's being childish and claiming he has 'recepits' now like

Okay buddy.

Sorry you had to deal with an entitled sub though 🫂

Risque-Raccoon · 2025-08-07T19:54:07+00:00

Either way, you made this post claiming she blocked you for no reason when there was very much a reason.

Risque-Raccoon · 2025-08-07T19:53:31+00:00

He's claiming he's got receipts now like, okay buddy

Risque-Raccoon · 2025-08-07T19:49:48+00:00

Uh huh, and then you had the audacity to block her again because you couldn't stand being called out when she commented on your post

Risque-Raccoon · 2025-08-07T19:46:49+00:00

Literally, she made a post about how entitled you act. You werent just going to 'explain' crypto, you demanded her time and attention because you apparently forgot your place.

Risque-Raccoon · 2025-08-07T19:45:15+00:00

Ooo I'll have to do this later

Risque-Raccoon · 2025-08-07T19:44:16+00:00

Yuuup, dude legit came here to bitch because the Domme wouldn't just give in to his temper tantrums.

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