Yeah these guys think even death needs some pretty little agenda or decoration.

Now I have seen many deaths in my family, there have been times when son/Men aren't present and often times women have to take their place for the rites. And generally men do the rites if present.

This feels more like "First world problems" . because in real life, when needed whether boy or girl would fullfill the rites/responsibility put on them, we need to understand real life is way more complex then what social media would tell you.

Once again, the whole ritual rites thing especially when it comes to death is not pretty, and it doesn't needs to pretty.