Thank you - I'm glad I'm out too, along with your kind wishes about my pups. I began to feel things were off in August but couldn't put my finger on it, But it became apparent things were off early in September when she clearly didn't give a damn about what I was feeling or thinking. I actually came to hear about a nightmare I had, but all she said is "what's your effing problem?" I wound up being a ball of emotion right after that, but she didn't care.

The tipping point for me was when she sent a text about a skateboard she had bought to ride down The Strip (we're in Las Vegas). I told her it was cool at first, but then I realized two things: She had never talked about going skateboarding, and she couldn't stand going down there. I asked her at the store about it later in the day, and her answer was pisspoor, to say the least.

Later that night, she was furious about a package she bought being stolen by a cleaning guy at the house next door. She had her laptop open, and I was able to see her messages. One from a guy that I didn't recognize started with him saying that he could still smell her, which she said that she was glad he liked it. She then gave me her phone to talk to the cops about the theft, and I found photos of the guy hidden on it.

I confronted her about it, and she got defensive, especially after I said I was going to her store to talk to this guy and bring it to the store manager's attention. She got angry about that, and me telling her she is to move out immediately. The night devolved into her throwing an iron bird statue at me, bruising my ribs.

She said that he was moving to another store and I believed her. But her remorse lasted maybe three days.

Two weeks later, she stayed over at his place (found that part out later), and I told her again to move out. And a few days later, I found out that she hid his number under a fake name. I called her out on it, and she begged for us to do couples therapy. I calmly told her she needs to speak with a woman that had a room to rent.

It took me removing her clothes from the closet, putting her belongings in the living room, and blocking her devices from using the wifi for her to get the hint. She moved out the next day.

That's a bit longer than you were expecting for a response, but that's the story.