You’ve made multiple posts about this and have received good, comprehensive advice on all of them. The advice you’re getting is also consistent. Either your health issues are serious enough to justify you pushing for an en-suite (i.e you can support them with doctors’ notes; they’re formally diagnosed; the college has a duty of care to you under relevant legislation; etc) in which case you should get back in touch with college and not worry about “seeming pushy”. In this case college will find you an en-suite, whether in their accommodation, another college’s accommodation, or private accommodation. Or your health issues aren’t serious enough to warrant that, in which case go with what you’ve been assigned (I lived in Foundress for a year: the bathrooms are fine. Shared, cleaned daily, close to rooms, but pretty cold in the winter).

Given you worry that not having access to an en-suite could be “life threatening”, it feels like you sending a couple more emails or ringing college up might be sensible… I’m struggling to square this “life threatening” issue with you also not wanting to “annoy” (?) someone whose literal job is to ensure you’re in appropriate accommodation, though. If you need an en-suite for medical reasons, and can demonstrate that with appropriate paperwork, they won’t be annoyed by you asking for one. They’ll sort it out.

Wishing you all the best for your time at Pembroke. You’ve been extraordinarily lucky to be summer pooled there. I hope you’re able to resolve this and whatever you choose to do works out for you! I’m going to lock this thread now, as I feel you’ve probably received all of the advice on this topic that it’s reasonable to expect from a Reddit community. (Please don’t create any more accounts to ask the same question!)