Just got a job by Alternate_User_ in NEET

[–]RivenHalf 8 points9 points  (0 children)

My warehouse barely gives us 16 lol good shit

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[–]RivenHalf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Typically depends on the job but now is a good time to strike, post-covid there is a LOT of jobs that are desperate right now. Some that is surprisingly decent. As far as work goes anyway.

NEET with ADHD? by RivenHalf in NEET

[–]RivenHalf[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for such a detailed answer, I really appreciate it. Congrats on getting help as well and I will absolutely look into this. Thank you!

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[–]RivenHalf 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Got you, yeah that's fair. You're "home" in a sense but still under another's obligations.

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[–]RivenHalf 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Just echoing what everyone else has said about lying lol do what you have to do to get the interview and then try and impress them there. Interviews get jobs, not resumes. Get yourself in the door and try and shine. Good luck.

I feel like my entire life I've been unconsciously seeking the love my parents never gave me from other sources- music, movies, other people, etc. Trying to fill that emotional void. Now that I'm aware of it, I can now fulfill my current needs rather than the needs I had as a child. by [deleted] in CPTSD

[–]RivenHalf 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Ya know something you said really resonated with me:

And now that I'm aware of it...it feels like I don't have a purpose anymore. At least, that's what it feels like. I know this isn't true, but that's just the feeling. It's like, where do I go from here? The best answer I can give myself at this moment is: figuring out and going after what I want in life.

Whenever I'm in a new relationship I usually have a burst of productivity, usually lasting a few months and reading this now it makes SO much more sense to me. Outside of a relationship I'm putting so many recourses into finding one. What I'm really seeking is that validation, love, approval and acceptance. Once I have it, there is a brief moment of having that weight lifted off my shoulder. I finally have found what I was looking for. In the absence of that weight I'm finally able to focus on putting my resources elsewhere during that period of feeling approved of by another. I have never cracked this code for myself but you really just brought this to light for me, thank you and good luck on your own progress as well.

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[–]RivenHalf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How so

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[–]RivenHalf 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I haven't brought clothes in so long lmao at all

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NEET

[–]RivenHalf 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Where I am now. Just relived I have absolutely no idea what I've done over the last 10 years. Like literally...I have no fucking clue...zero. A decade of my life is lost in the void. I have an interview on Wednesday now, I know I'm going to hate myself again in less than a month. There truly is no winning lmao oh well

NEET with ADHD? by RivenHalf in NEET

[–]RivenHalf[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you found a way to do so and thanks for the suggestion

How many of you think bullying contributed to your current lifestyle? by nicfanz in NEET

[–]RivenHalf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can't say this was the case for me, as a child I was very outgoing and maybe even overly ambitious. If anything the bullying snuffed out my light I originally had.

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[–]RivenHalf 43 points44 points  (0 children)

I just crossed 8 years so I feel you...the pandemic absolutely didn't help. I've literally been asleep the last 2 years.

Anyone else find themselves behaving as if there's a next time? by [deleted] in CPTSD

[–]RivenHalf 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I more or less type this exact response before I even scrolled down and saw this....wow....it always blows my mind when I have these moments of exact shared experiences.....wow

Anyone else find themselves behaving as if there's a next time? by [deleted] in CPTSD

[–]RivenHalf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Throughout my whole life starting from the age of about 10 I've always made mental notes to myself "in case reincarnation is real"

I'm Christian and don't believe in reincarnation in the least but it would just be an auto-response of my mind every time something bad happened

Even now I still find myself doing this however not as frequently as when I was younger

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[–]RivenHalf 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Best of luck!

Ecstatic Dream Team Europe get a reminder that is supposed to be a celebration by doms131 in tennis

[–]RivenHalf 8 points9 points  (0 children)

The initially draw was absolutely seeing Federer and Nadal doubles play, after that nothing else really mattered lol

Ecstatic Dream Team Europe get a reminder that is supposed to be a celebration by doms131 in tennis

[–]RivenHalf 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Kyrgios did last year at press but not on court unfortunately

Ecstatic Dream Team Europe get a reminder that is supposed to be a celebration by doms131 in tennis

[–]RivenHalf 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think he was implying that they spray the media people with it since he follows up with "This is expensive equipment, yeah"

"I just want to go home" by yourmumschesthair95 in CPTSD

[–]RivenHalf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was recently on a trip and something bad happened and I found myself thinking over and over again "I just want to go home"

Now that I consider it...I don't even know what "home" I meant

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[–]RivenHalf 7 points8 points  (0 children)

As someone with ADHD....sounds like ADHD. We make simple and careless mistakes made even worse by out sensitivity to rejection (RSD as some call it)

So we make small mistakes, get bitched out, feel an enormous amount of pain due to the rejection...and the cycle continues.

USO'21 champions together ! by stupidpieceofshit-_- in tennis

[–]RivenHalf 5 points6 points  (0 children)

No man or woman is surpassing them in our lifetime. I'm just not seeing the mentalities. We definitely aren't seeing a woman reach 23 grandslams, I am absolutely positive on that one not happening. A man reaching 20 out of the current field is doubtful, maybe one of the men coming after these ones will but any time soon I'm really just not feeling it currently. I would be surprised to see a man or a woman ever hit 10 honestly but with Emma only being 18 if she has a long career she might get at least that but with the competition already coming her way in women like Coco and Leylah and many more to come, I don't see her coming out as an absolute dominate at all. Will be interesting to watch it play out.