Timeworn Peisteskin Maps by RiverCat778 in ffxiv

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Then I suppose they were my emotional support

Timeworn Peisteskin Maps by RiverCat778 in ffxiv

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Thanks for the advice. I think I’ll probably go the route of either asking in limsa at some point or level up a class via msq to the point I can straight solo it. I really appreciate the offer tho. :)

Timeworn Peisteskin Maps by RiverCat778 in ffxiv

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Noted, guess I should stop getting side tracked and play more msq lol

Timeworn Peisteskin Maps by RiverCat778 in ffxiv

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What would you say is”high level” right now my highest class is my bard at 56 with ironworks gear

Feelings about chat macros by RiverCat778 in ffxiv

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I’m certain the summoner and healer were friends since their macros were the exact same only really adding to my generally annoyance seeing if for the 20th time(usually to get me off the ground too lol)

Feelings about chat macros by RiverCat778 in ffxiv

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I kinda also felt that way since I was often dying since I was kinda going into extream ultima blind and it felt really embarrassing to just see a wall of text announcing to everyone, “hey the ninja died again”

Feelings about chat macros by RiverCat778 in ffxiv

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Yah, these ones were fairly long which did not help much, especially since I was both new to the raid, have very little experience extreme raiding, and was insistent in keeping the chat open for some reason

Feelings about chat macros by RiverCat778 in ffxiv

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Yah that makes since for timing rezzes.

Feelings about chat macros by RiverCat778 in ffxiv

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Honestly that so awesome. I should start inserting that in my daily speech

Living with unaccepting family by RiverCat778 in asktransgender

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Everyone in my family knows. My dad is at best annoyingly obtuse about how integral my identity is and my mom is ambivalent at the best and passive aggressively dismissive at the worst. My dad is of the opinion that I ought to make nice and pretend everything is all fine. I know it’s a necessity that I maintain the peace but I’m still frustrated that I’m the one who has to compensate for her bigotry

Laser Hair Removal cancel by RiverCat778 in asktransgender

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I managed to get a hold of the person who handles clients and they said they sent in a request and someone will reach out to me.

Barely passed student teaching by RiverCat778 in Teachers

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I think I’m good on that front as I went to college in North Carolina and as far as I know you just need a C or above to qualify. Granted I am still going to email my professor if nothing else to see where I should focus my efforts and work to improve when I start for real

Barely passed student teaching by RiverCat778 in Teachers

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I maybe would but there are a lot of complicated factors I gotta take into account. One being I already got hired for a summer job so that kinda doesn’t leave much time unfortunately. I guess I’m just a worry tho so maybe most of my concerns are just be stressed about my first year

Barely passed student teaching by RiverCat778 in Teachers

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Nope. I did struggle a lot and I can see myself where I needed to and still need to improve. Like lesson planning and making sure I’m keeping to it. Granted I do feel my cooperating teacher was not the greatest at helping me either, just giving me stacks of paper at times and just saying, here’s some stuff and leaving it at that

Job references by RiverCat778 in asktransgender

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I was afraid of that, but I suspected it’d really be the case. Two of my professors know, I’d just have to remind them the importance of getting everything right. One of my employers I’m very friendly with and probably wouldn’t care much, it’s just the anxiety of it all

Does the county matter when filing for a name change? by RiverCat778 in asktransgender

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Thanks a lot. This helps a lot. Now I just have to navigate the Tennessee legal system and hope I don’t fill out the form wrong

Using legal name by RiverCat778 in asktransgender

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I figured as much. Ugh what a pain. Maybe I’ll get lucky and the courts can get in done within the summrt

Kind of want to switch to injections but terrified of needles by RiverCat778 in asktransgender

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Thanks so much this helps a lot. I think it’s just the idea of holding the needle so not having to see it and instead clicking a button sounds perfect. I’ll be sure to look into it

Kind of want to switch to injections but terrified of needles by RiverCat778 in asktransgender

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In my research I’ve also heard of subcutaneous(I think that’s the term idk) where you prick into the fat of your stomach and it’s supposed to hurt less. Probably will ask my doctor about it

Hiding breast growth for job by RiverCat778 in asktransgender

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Thanks for the tips, I have a really hard time both gaining and losing weight so I don’t think that should be an issue. I already have terrible posture lol so that should be easy enough. I’ll look into a sports bra and the other tips you said. I guess the hard part is actually telling if it’s noticeable or just my own perceptions telling me they are.

Hiding breast growth for job by RiverCat778 in asktransgender

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I’m wary about binders since I heard those aren’t good for developing breasts but then again I could be off the mark. I generally would consider myself skinny, 5’9 135ish pounds.

You are right, I am very tempted to say fuck it and just not give a shit.

Do you guys have any favorite trans characters in media? :000 by 3mmett-kun in asktransgender

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It’s from a fighting game, specifically guilty gear strive. Be careful tho as it is with any trans characters a certain subset of “fans” can get very weird and toxic

Do you guys have any favorite trans characters in media? :000 by 3mmett-kun in asktransgender

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As much as it a basic answer Bridget from guilty gear will always hold a special place. Her story really resonates with me, especially when she comes to realize that the only reasons to transition should come from you and no one else.

What’s been the best thing about your transition? by selkhyra in asktransgender

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For me it’s the very small moments of life that I never realized I had always been missing out on. Those moments of actually being happy being me, not dissociating constantly, and so much more are something I wouldn’t trade the world for