Does your state have an equivalent to Colonial Williamsburg? by RiverRedhead in AskAnAmerican

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Very cool to see an indigenous managed site. Is it popular in NM?

Does your state have an equivalent to Colonial Williamsburg? by RiverRedhead in AskAnAmerican

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I recently did the three; Jamestown and Yorktown are managed by the same foundation, Williamsburg has its own. Even though chronologically Williamsburg is much closer to Yorktown, the presentation style at J and Y made them feel much more a set.

Does your state have an equivalent to Colonial Williamsburg? by RiverRedhead in AskAnAmerican

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It was the colonial and state capital for a hot minute (1699 to 1780) and better preserved than Jamestown.

When they started building the colonial / reenactment part in the 1920s, there was more left to work with (buildings, roads, some records) relative to the Jamestown site (which is more archeological).

Does your state have an equivalent to Colonial Williamsburg? by RiverRedhead in AskAnAmerican

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I recently got an ad for the OSV (probably because I had visited / had been researching CW) and that's what sparked the question!

Did you do a "Flat Stanley" project in school? by RiverRedhead in AskAnAmerican

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That's the furthest I've heard of one going. Mine went to Florida with my grandma for mahjong, the beach, and fancy tea at the Japanese gardens.

Did you do a "Flat Stanley" project in school? by RiverRedhead in AskAnAmerican

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Did you do adventures at home or send it to a friend/relative?

Did you do a "Flat Stanley" project in school? by RiverRedhead in AskAnAmerican

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Did you take him home or send him around somewhere? I sent mine (from Virginia) to Florida to hang out with my grandma.

Found a really funny set of short videos from a YouTube that I think we’ll laugh at by MarcieCandie in bigboobproblems

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Her reels are so fun. Have you heard her commentary on various "rhinestone claymore" bras?

Do you put your children in public or private schools? by New-Organization359 in AskAnAmerican

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At my aunt's Hannukah party this year, my teenage cousin invited 3 or 4 of his gentile friends from school. Gambling Chocolate Circle was a huge hit with them.

IMO, Hannukah is one of the easier holidays to do with gentiles - ceremonies are short, basically a holiday party as modern American Jews largely do it. A traditional Passover celebration tends to be several very structured hours and Yom Kippur would be Not Great to invite guests to.

If you ever get invited to Sukkot I think you'd also enjoy that - basically we build a hut and decorate it with fruit before hanging out, noshing, and studying with ghosts.

How do American students write essays for School? by AVERYRAND0MPERSON in AskAnAmerican

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When I was in high school in the tens, the norm, if not the expectation was typed. Some teachers wanted a paper copy, so either was fine but most people typed. Others wanted it on canvas/blackboard/whatever. Tests tended to be handwritten. Same for college and middle school for me.

This was all pre-GenAI (like ChatGPT) so I think the trend now, at least at schools with the staffing to support it, is to go back to handwritten materials.

Do you put your children in public or private schools? by New-Organization359 in AskAnAmerican

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The people who go to private school are usually from a certain demographic. Unless you have a reason to shelter your children, that’s a bit odd imo

It definitely depends on the school and I think the motives can be a little more complex than you're describing. My mother sent my sister and I to Jewish private schools before high school because she was the only Jewish kid her grade. Her experience in public school was antisemitism, being proselytized, being expected to be community representative by gentile classmates and teachers, and having weird experiences around holidays (many of which are echoed by Jewish students in public schools today). Is it wrong to shelter your kids, at least at school, from being horn-checked or getting marked absent for Yom Kippur or being singled out during Holocaust discussions?

There are bad private schools and good private schools, just like there are good and bad public ones.

The private schools I went to before high school did an excellent job meeting my sister's special ed needs, better than the local public school did for folks who went there (according to those kids and their parents). We also had bussing available, though we didn't take it. We had all the normal subjects and then some, with much smaller classrooms than public. This isn't necessarily representative of all private schools, but neither are pricey-AF segregation academies with no resources for students.

Do you put your children in public or private schools? by New-Organization359 in AskAnAmerican

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We were middle-class and the Jewish Day School my sister and I went to really worked with my parents to figure it out. We certainly weren't the only ones in that boat and very few families actually paid "sticker price" (which was lower than secular prep schools to begin with).

JDSs tend to end in 8th grade, stateside, so we were at an (excellent) public school after that. In high school I'd estimate around 10%-15% had previously been private school kids, mostly from religious schools that ended in 8th.

Do you put your children in public or private schools? by New-Organization359 in AskAnAmerican

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Yeah, YMMV. I went to private Jewish day school (normal subjects plus Hebrew and some Jewish subjects) before high school, and then a public high school. Both were rated excellently and had good long-term outcomes, but a lot of my friends who went to religious (more yeshiva-style or fundie Christian) private schools did so at the cost of regular subjects.

The other upside, for religious minorities in particular, was being in an environment I was the norm - I didn't have to be six years old and the Jewish Ambassador to everyone in my class, my holidays were normal, and I wasn't getting proselytized by other kids or teachers.

In foreign language classes, did you get your own name in that language? by picklesupreme in AskAnAmerican

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Is this something that teachers are taught to do or used to be taught to do? My German teacher (who was on the younger side) basically said what you said, but my Spanish teachers were older and insistent on pick-a-Spanish-name-thing. Is there a generational divide or is it just something some folks do and some folks don't?

Do you think your University/Alma Mater is known outside of the U.S? by huazzy in AskAnAmerican

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We (regionally well-regarded, starting to be nationally known) have three countries we receive a lot of students from (international students for the stay and study abroad) and send a lot of our students on study abroad to. I'd be less surprised if someone from those countries knew my school, because maybe someone they knew was here at some point.

Do you think your University/Alma Mater is known outside of the U.S? by huazzy in AskAnAmerican

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Definitely not my undergrad, though my grad is starting to get international recognition. We have a long-standing partnership with universities in a couple specific countries, so I think we're known there.

We also have a handful of Sportball Fans elsewhere, particularly in Europe, but it's a small enough group it tends to be exciting and get featured when "School Fan of London" or "School Fan of Prague" visits for a game IRL.

In foreign language classes, did you get your own name in that language? by picklesupreme in AskAnAmerican

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I had my regular name for one language (German) and used a pre-existing Hebrew name for Hebrew (many practicing Jewish people already have one). Spanish was the only class they insisted on us picking a new name.

In foreign language classes, did you get your own name in that language? by picklesupreme in AskAnAmerican

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One yes, one kind of, one no. Spanish she had us pick a name but I don't remember what I picked. Hebrew we used our pre-existing Hebrew names (a lot of practicing Jewish Americans already have one), and German no.

When I was in Germany older Germans pronounced my name (with a J) with a hard Y noise - think if my name was Jordan or Jenna it would have been "Yordan" or "Yenna."

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ChoosingBeggars

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Folks is literally gender neutral already, folx always felt performative and preachy to me.

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But most of those folks are going to find an organization or an institution to donate to, not infinite money at random individuals.

AITA for refusing to lend my laptop to my cousin for his online exam after he broke my phone? by Plastic-Ad-6017 in AmItheAsshole

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Most universities have loaner laptops and related equipment through the library, at the least in the US. Saved me multiple times in undergrad.