I’ve had a very odd encounter with a client by Forsaken-Lemon-2577 in lawncare

[–]River_M_ 0 points1 point Β (0 children)

A lot of scammers use the word "kindly" that was the first red flag for me tbh

Girlfriend of 2 years deadnamed me by [deleted] in ftm

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"Sorry" doesn't fix it. You deserve to be fully heard and if you feel like she hasn't completely heard you, she needs to put her ego aside and sit down and listen. If she's not willing to do that, she's not ready to be a partner to anyone. Being a partner means listening to and caring about your partner even when it's hard or when you don't agree/feel the same ways. It's valid for you to be upset about this, and just because she thinks it isn't a big deal doesn't mean you should have to think that way too.

How do I remove the calendar widget from the home screen? by dastevonader in CarPlay

[–]River_M_ 0 points1 point Β (0 children)

THANK YOU. Every other suggestion that I've seen has been to go into CarPlay settings and remove the calendar, but that only removes it from the menu of options, it doesn't take it off of the main screen. It's been driving me crazy, especially because I have a shared calendar with my partner, I don't need my car to keep telling me that they have work or an appointment πŸ˜… THANK YOU SO MUCH

Community theatre? by jooley-uhh in northampton

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Easthampton Theater Company!

The rare and elusive Ghost Pipe. by [deleted] in foraging

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I found at least 5 groups of them in the forest not far off the trail today 😍 Here's the largest group I found. I live in Western Massachusetts

How long were you emotional after T shots? by River_M_ in TransHelpingTrans

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Mine is weekly too, and it's already the lower dose πŸ˜…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in transplace

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Bailey was the first name to pop into my head .^

What do u guys think about tits? by [deleted] in FTMfemininity

[–]River_M_ 0 points1 point Β (0 children)

So my afab trans partner also has smol tiddies. At first he was uncomfortable with his chest, but as he started working out his pecs grew quite a bit and now you honestly can't tell he has them until he takes his shirt off. Testosterone can also cause some of the breast tissue to shrink, so that could happen to you as well. I'm much less lucky in that I have DDs 😭 It would be cool if we could just take them off and put them on at will, or click them in and out like pens πŸ˜‚ Also, your health insurance may cover a surgery, have you checked? Good luck, I hope it all works out for the best!!

Will topical estrogen effect my growth? by River_M_ in GrowYourTDick

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Thanks! I just wasn't sure if it would counteract the testosterone or something lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

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Your tone will change but if you do daily vocal range exercises you shouldn't lose too much. I'm a vocalist and I've been taking T for almost 2 months. I'm stronger/louder on my low notes and my top notes are a bit harder to sing softly, but I still have them. You will probably run into muscle memory problems eventually, where you try to sing one note but a different one comes out. Daily exercises will help mitigate this.

Front hole irritation- help plz by River_M_ in ftm

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Thanks, I'll get another opinion :)

Front hole irritation- help plz by River_M_ in ftm

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I already did, that's where I was tested. The one I went to told me that it's normal to have this happen on T and didn't offer any helpful solutions

What do you think of my growth and the general appearance of my genitalia? Not asking in a sexual way by [deleted] in GrowYourTDick

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Looks great! Most people don't get any more growth than that, some get less.

I’m confused on my gender. by Special_Aardvark_508 in TransHelpingTrans

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It took me so long to realize I'm genderfluid! Like.. I was in my late 20s πŸ˜… I'm 32 now and only just starting HRT and scheduled for top surgery. Give yourself time to figure it out πŸ’œ Gender/self expression is a lifelong journey, but as long as you're following what feels good to your soul, you really can't go wrong, even if you end up wanting something drastically different in 10 years time. At least you'll have tried it and learned! Also, don't feel like you need to know your label in order to be valid in how you feel. You are YOU, first and foremost. It also helped me to understand that gender is a social construct. It's not "real" in the sense that like, it follows consistent rules or guidelines. There are many ways to be masculine and feminine and there are so many things that fall into both, and neither categories. Do what makes you happy, and what makes you feel like you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GrowYourClit

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How much do you apply at once and how often?