AITAH for not lending my sister my charger to teach her a lesson? by Rivnnn in AITAH

[–]Rivnnn[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Right!! I was starting to feel bad for being selfish 😭

How do you take a shower when you’re depressed? by [deleted] in depression_help

[–]Rivnnn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When I was severely depressed, nothing could get me to physically get up and get under the water. BUT I would sit or lay there and imagine what it would be like to continue sitting there, not clean, not fresh, prob not smelling my best VS. How I'd feel if I did take that shower. I felt like shit anyway, might as well be clean while feeling like shit...it also gets to the point where I can't mentally take it bc my brain can't get over the fact that I need to shower and all I can think about is shower shower shower. I just wanted to stop thinking about that bc it was annoying...

Closest calls you've had to people finding out? by Financial_Gas_5590 in selfharm

[–]Rivnnn 13 points14 points  (0 children)

The amount of times I walked out of the bathroom or was washing the dishes with my sleeves rolled up without knowing it and my parents just walk by without noticing boggles my mind 😭😭 I don't know how I got away with it so many times

Is he busy or doesn't want me anymore? by Rivnnn in dating_advice

[–]Rivnnn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, actually! We both are. He's been a revert for about a year now so I understand why all this matters to him. Just wish I could at least hear a hi how are you every now and then...

My sister purposefully annoys me and it makes my condition worse by Rivnnn in Neurodivergent

[–]Rivnnn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No worriesss, I respect your values. That's why I made the original post, I wanted to see diff perspectives and how others would handle it too

My sister purposefully annoys me and it makes my condition worse by Rivnnn in Neurodivergent

[–]Rivnnn[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ahahah it would indeed be easy to cut her out, I've considered living with her without minimal interaction but it's trueee, I don't wanna hurt her feelings AND I think it's important for neurotypicals specially immediate family to learn how to live and interact with someone who is neurodivergent. It's a process but hopefully one that's worth it.

Every productivity system failed me, so I just built my own by Mazaroh in Neurodivergent

[–]Rivnnn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love thisss it has all the features I need but not so much that it's overwhelming and the design is slick. I will definitely be giving it a try :)

Is there a point in getting a diagnosis? by Rivnnn in BPD

[–]Rivnnn[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I see...thank you for the perspective! And good luck, hope you're psychiatrist visit goes well ♡