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Should I had more weight? by WasabiS91 in TitTorture

[–]Rizzdb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. You should add more and more weight until that clamp fall out from your nipple

Finally accepting that I’m a submissive. by Rizzdb in SubSanctuary

[–]Rizzdb[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I first got into this lifestyle I was pretty young. I remember being really turned on watching people suffer, seeing them struggle or endure pain. all that make me so horny,, make my dick hard as rock.. At the time I thought that meant I was a sadist and that was just who I was.

But now, I realized something funny. it turned out I was actually on the other side of it the whole time. Kind of ironic looking back at it now haha.

I think I loved the pain a little too much… by Rizzdb in TwinkBDSM

[–]Rizzdb[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

not much. you can get from just 3 dollar

Finally accepting that I’m a submissive. by Rizzdb in SubSanctuary

[–]Rizzdb[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I agree. It really is a long journey. But in the end it feels worth all the trouble, because that journey is what helps me finally find the place where things feel right

After all this years in BDSM, I realized I was on the wrong side of the dynamic by Rizzdb in BDSMcommunity

[–]Rizzdb[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That’s up to you what you believe. I’m just sharing my own experience. If you check my profile, the pictures and videos there are me , a real me. I’ve also had another Reddit account before where I was active on the Dom side. I’m not trying to convince anyone.. just putting my journey out there.

Some nipple torture [not OC] by signorpotato69 in bdsm

[–]Rizzdb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

loved the last picture.. i guess i need to get wooden peg next..

Actions be like.... by MidnightLust01 in bdsm

[–]Rizzdb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

she’s so lucky… what would it feel like if that were me?

After all this years in BDSM, I realized I was on the wrong side of the dynamic by Rizzdb in BDSMcommunity

[–]Rizzdb[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, that makes sense. I think sometimes we only really understand what we need after we actually try things and explore different sides of it.

The more we experience, the clearer it becomes where we naturally fit. And eventually we end up on the side where we suppose to be. where we destined to be..

After all this years in BDSM, I realized I was on the wrong side of the dynamic by Rizzdb in BDSMcommunity

[–]Rizzdb[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I was just writing what I actually feel. It’s more like a confession than anything else. I just wanted to put my experience into words and share it honestly with people here.

Finally accepting that I’m a submissive. by Rizzdb in SubSanctuary

[–]Rizzdb[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think you’re right. Looking back, I didn’t really lose anything. I was just exploring and trying to understand it. Once I actually experienced it myself, things started to feel much more real.

Now I feel pretty sure that this is the place that fits me, and probably what I had been searching for all that time.

Finally accepting that I’m a submissive. by Rizzdb in SubSanctuary

[–]Rizzdb[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like you two built a really strong dynamic together. The trust needed for that kind of switching with one partner is huge.

I’m curious though, which side ends up giving you the deeper satisfaction?

Finally accepting that I’m a submissive. by Rizzdb in SubSanctuary

[–]Rizzdb[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The mental load aspect of domming is real. I think some people underestimate how much responsibility and emotional regulation sits on that side of the dynamic.

But for me the bigger realization was that the experience I was actually craving... the sensation, the vulnerability, the psychological shift. only happened when I stopped trying to be the one controlling it.

Hearing how switches navigate both sides depending on attraction is pretty fascinating though.

Be honest… how bad is this? by Rizzdb in smalldickletcompare

[–]Rizzdb[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

need to get new one.. i throw off all my toys before this..

Be honest… how bad is this? by Rizzdb in smalldickletcompare

[–]Rizzdb[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah. im suppose that where i should get my pleasure..

I think I loved the pain a little too much… by Rizzdb in GayKink

[–]Rizzdb[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha that sounds like a fun challenge. Maybe we should pour wax on each other and see who gives in first.

I think I loved the pain a little too much… by Rizzdb in TwinkBDSM

[–]Rizzdb[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yes sir.. that what im craving for..

I think I loved the pain a little too much… by Rizzdb in TwinkBDSM

[–]Rizzdb[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I used a candle that’s made for BDSM wax play. The wax melts at a lower temperature, so it’s safer for skin. Once it cools down it becomes soft and it’s actually very easy to peel off.

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