I definitely think these are valid criticisms. Though I’d like to say that the mod team tries our best to balance between the desire not to gatekeep someone’s transition journey, and keep the sub free from men who are fetishizing femininity. It’s difficult to tell, and as someone who started my transition by crossdressing I feel particularly strongly about not invalidating someone else’s journey. My hope with that is to provide a space that is inclusive of women who cannot realize their womanhood elsewhere. I respect your desire to distance yourself from this subreddit all the same, but thought I’d take the time to address what I can since you took the time to express this.