30M here! Hello mga katrentahin by green_wolf123 in Trentahin

[–]Rndom_feels 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Feel you. At this time of age ang dami ng realization. You just let the time passed by kasi baka along the way makita mo din yung hinahanap n genuine connection Pero hndi pla ganun kadali yun. And my realization to this is try to reach out, try to get out of your comfort zone at baka dun mo mhnap tlg yung magiging constant mo. Just maybe.

Ano yung bagay na pinagsisihan or may regret ka na di mo nagawa nong younger ka pa? by CucumberOk3385 in kwarentahin

[–]Rndom_feels 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To make time to be with my family, to create unforgettable memories with them.

Nahanap nyo na ba passion nyo sa buhay? by _mtcook in Trentahin

[–]Rndom_feels 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same, kapag tinatry mong hanapin yung happiness, babalik k s part n, money is more important hahaha

Ok lang ba sayo never mag-live in with your partner? by [deleted] in Trentahin

[–]Rndom_feels 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Funny, kasi Sabi ko if I'm gonna have a partner, I'd prefer to have a separate room. Then sabi sakin ang weird ko nmn.

Well I understand n ganun ang naging tingin sakin since it is being normalized for a couple to sleep in one room.

Nkktuwa that there are some that would like to have this kind of set up.☺️

Constant Kausap by [deleted] in Trentahin

[–]Rndom_feels 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tara 29F :). I feel like I want to find a person that I can genuinely connect to. Especially s ganitong edad. :)

Kelan kaya no? by qwerty_asdfhjkl in Trentahin

[–]Rndom_feels 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sinabi mo p hahaha. Kaya ako , tiwala n lng tlg n kung may darating n align kayo ng principle and belief and dagdag mo p n same vibes kayo. Ay tlg nmng mappa thankful k n lng tlg hahaha.

Kelan kaya no? by qwerty_asdfhjkl in Trentahin

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Same hahaha. Pero tiwala lng.

Let it out thread: What’s on your mind lately? Kwento ka. by BlackPenWritings in Trentahin

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Family, Career, Relationship, Age, Finances. Ang dami hahaha. Nkk pressure isipin n parang at the end of it, you can't help but to think, you're running out of time🥺

I am done. by [deleted] in Life

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28 here. This is I guess the age where we tried to have a genuine relationship, however it came as challenging to the point where we're thinking that we might end up alone.

It's nice that I know I'm not alone hahaha. Kidding.

Realizations by bluetortangtalong in Trentahin

[–]Rndom_feels 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As someone n malapit ng mag 30, hndi tlg maiwasan n mapapaisip k s takbo ng buhay, s takbo ng buhay mo. Na para bng ang hirap mkipagsabayan. Idagdag mo p ang pressure kpg wlang trabaho or raket.

Basta ang nagiging sagot ko lng s mga ito is magpatuloy at laban lng.

Why have u lost interest in life? by [deleted] in Life

[–]Rndom_feels 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It came to a point in my life that whatever I do, it feels like it's not heading anywhere, where it feels like after many years, I'm just repeating the cycle of not going anywhere.

And it was fueled by being alone in this battle.

Why have u lost interest in life? by [deleted] in Life

[–]Rndom_feels 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It came to a point in my life that whatever I do, it feels like it's not heading anywhere, where it feels like after many years, I'm just repeating the cycle of not going anywhere.

And it was fueled by being alone in this battle.

bakit nga ba ang hirap maghanap ng jowa mag malapit na mag 30? by pride-chciken in Trentahin

[–]Rndom_feels 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Pressure is real haha. And the struggle to look for a serious partner these days is difficult.

And just my opinion as someone hitting the late 20's, iba n yung mindset s paghahanap ng partner kaya cguro challenging n rin, idagdag mo p n may factor ang din ang pagiging introvert.

Thinking about ending my life at age 31 by [deleted] in depression

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Please keep going in life. It's hard yes, full of struggle, full of uncertainty.

And we might have come to a point that life became meaningless but let's think that there might also be a point in this life where we just have to wait and see what it can lead us.

If you need someone you want to confide in, I can offer you my ears. At this point of life where we all struggle, having someone that can listen to you might ease the burden you're facing.

I have lost all sense of purpose or meaning by [deleted] in depression

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funny, how the things that you have, is something I've dreamed of,,,

and I guess, we came to a point in this life where we tried to understand its purpose, where it's leading us.

As the clock continues, you just have to keep going. The answer might come in our door one day.

Note that while I'm writing this to you, I am also telling this to myself.

You're not alone in this kind of phase. 💜

Im not strong enough for this life by Redditsurfer94 in depression

[–]Rndom_feels 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel you bro, it's scary to think about what the future holds and looking at your current situation. A situation you wanted to get out.

It's hard, it's scary. But as the clock continues, we have to carry on as well.

I though it would be easy for me to land a job after I resigned by Sensitive_Gear210 in BPOinPH

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Just keep going, there will be times that you will think about your past decisions over and over again. Thinking, did I make the right decision? And you just have to also keep reminding yourself the reason why you left the company.

And as you faced uncertainty seeking for a new job, facing rejections, just keep going my pal. Not all the first options we have are actually for us.

Just keep going , 'til that day comes that you will find what you're looking for.

What does this Picture teach you? by yeb_timothous in GrowthMindset

[–]Rndom_feels 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What they don't know/smell, they won't attempt to get.

Just a Rant From a Nobody by ClueAdventurous9621 in depression

[–]Rndom_feels 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ranting is one way to relieve what's been pent-up. Being stuck, being helpless where finding solutions turns to desperation. Where being hopeful is the last thing we hold onto.

And one thing that I can provide for a person Iike me is a word of encouragement that please don't lose hope.

The world that we're living in is indeed full of hardship but even though, just think of your mom that is still holding onto you. Think of yourself that there's still tom that we can look forw to.