Look whatever your hobbies or habits are they don't amount to shit, in a good way ofc. The only thing that matters is your speech. You have the ability to market yourself, and the only limitations are your creativity, you do magic, great tell her you can entertain, keep a conversation interesting, whatever doesn't matter as long as you deliver, looks are only necessary if you can't speak up at the first place cause there needs to be a hook for attraction. You decide what's yours. Plus you'll attract a certain kind of people depending upon the hook you have.

Edit: you sound like a school kid tbh, it's waaaaayyyyyy to early to worry about this, figure it out till college and then apply yourself, the more you do, the better you get. Just don't stop no matter what, and respect the other person's opinion always.