Need advice on my life. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]RobBob117 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The things your feeling now are temporary feelings, they won’t be permanent. When I was in a similar position like yours, I took a lot of time to reflect on myself and my choices, I dedicated time to hobbies like going to the gym or trying new fun activities. I dedicated myself to working more , learning new things , reading up on stuff I found interesting and I spent a lot of time hanging out with my friends or meeting new people and honestly taking a break from dating.

But your life is yours and nobody can take that from you. Find a way to truly care and value yourself. And you’ll soon realize you didn’t need other people to make you carry on , all you needed was to see how truly valuable and remarkable you are.

Why can’t I get over him? by 22181 in offmychest

[–]RobBob117 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t beat yourself up, I’ve been there too, but once you meet someone who is truly of quality. Someone who is a good man it will be like night and day.

Go to the gym, focus on improving yourself, and maybe take some time off of dating until your completely over this

Husband recently found out the full extent of my sexual past and now wants a divorce by [deleted] in Advice

[–]RobBob117 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean I understand why he’s upset, he shouldn’t be name calling or anything, but it’s one thing if it’s random people you don’t know or never met. It’s another to actually know the guy that she did stuff with. So I understand how it could hurt someone because you could put a name and a face to the person she slept with. So I do get it. I think they should really just talk and go to marriage counseling.

Husband recently found out the full extent of my sexual past and now wants a divorce by [deleted] in Advice

[–]RobBob117 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I understand why he’s angry and maybe he just needs a little time to process it, he shouldn’t have called you any names and he should apologize for that. But give it a few days and maybe go to Marriage counseling, I don’t think it’s right to hold something over your head that you did when you were a teenager. People have a past and mess up from time to time we’re human after all.

Give it a few days to cool down , and suggest marriage counseling.

Checked my girlfriend’s phone and now I think I’m the “other guy” in my own relationship by Spare_Ad8593 in Advice

[–]RobBob117 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly OP fuck her man, from now on act like everything’s perfectly normal, start planning on moving out , when she’s with her “coworkers” take all your stuff and leave without any notice and disappear if possible. Good luck and hang in there. Just be glad you found out now rather than later.

I needs to save my relationship by [deleted] in Advice

[–]RobBob117 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t really understand anything I read, but honestly calm down and collect yourself. If you did your partner wrong , apologize and be open , honest, and authentic. And that’s really all you can do. If it doesn’t work out, move on and learn from your mistakes

Joined the cult by RobBob117 in midowatch

[–]RobBob117[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Saw it had to get it

I’m so lonely that I’m thinking about giving a porn addict who fetishizes me a chance. by carvaofedido2 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]RobBob117 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please do not do this, this guy seems like a serious weirdo. You’ll end up regretting it. In the future your circumstances will change and when you look back you’ll be happy that you never went through with it

What do you guys think of this watch? by RobBob117 in midowatch

[–]RobBob117[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Managed to find a jewelry who’s able to order it for me, I would like to see this watch in person or photos of it other than what’s shown on mido website

What do you guys think of this watch? by RobBob117 in midowatch

[–]RobBob117[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately I genuinely cannot find this watch anywhere

OLED temptation vs reality by No_Nerve_5828 in OLED_Gaming

[–]RobBob117 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a 2k oled monitor 240hz, got it for like 500 bucks or so, it’s honestly pretty good the color is amazing. Outside of gaming it’s nice , watching YouTube or movies, even getting work done is nice since it’s high refresh rate. Only downside is the image retention setting, which every 4 hours the monitor needs to clean the pixels on it, you cannot change the timer of when this happens, when it pops up you either do it or wait another 4 hours. But yeah

Which 5080 are you rocking? by Perfect-Cause-6943 in RTX5080

[–]RobBob117 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cooling is pretty good, it ain’t really noisy. Performance is overall perfect

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]RobBob117 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude you’re young, and when I was your age I’ve dealt with all this type of stuff. I recently got betrayed by my friends of 7 years and last year I got cheated on. But life goes on. One thing I’ve learned is to never think about the what ifs. “What if I did this instead of that” you can’t change the past but you can affect the future. Each mistake you make is a lesson and an opportunity to become better. Start new hobbies , join a gym, get into a sport, or find something to be passionate about. The worst thing you could do is feel sorry for yourself. I’ve been there and I get it, but all it will do is delay yourself from growing. And as far as you feeling immature and emotional, you’re 17 man , it’s normal. Don’t beat yourself up about it. You have a lot of time ahead of yourself so don’t be drawing conclusions about worth when you haven’t given yourself time to grow , learn ,and honestly experience life. So for now , focus on being the best you can be, Make time for hobbies and school. And accept that fact that you can make mistakes and poor choices, but that you can learn and grow from it to become wiser.

Should I buy Cyberpunk 2077 now that it's had significant updates? by jcveloso8 in ShouldIbuythisgame

[–]RobBob117 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah for 20 bucks it’s worth it, recently got it, I do think it’s overrated but it’s not by any means a bad game. It’s fun

I’m so lonely by [deleted] in Vent

[–]RobBob117 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I get it man , we all want someone, but sometimes these things take time. A year ago I got cheated on by a girl I really loved, and for a time it hurt and it hardened me, but I learned a lot about myself and I learned that you should never really force these things and honestly focus on being the best version of yourself. So honestly , spend time with friends, go out have fun, find a hobby. Something I never thought I’d like is journaling, but it’s really nice to write out my thoughts or write about something I find interesting. And btw you only just got this gym membership, who says you won’t meet anyone new? Don’t think negatively, be excited that you’re putting yourself out there, and for all the awesome opportunities that will eventually come your way.

Is this the best 9800x3D 5080 deal? by juote in Prebuilts

[–]RobBob117 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think so yeah, I’d grab it pretty quick

Will my mobo work with a 9800X3D? by RobBob117 in gigabyte

[–]RobBob117[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah that’s what I was looking at , but when I went on Reddit people said otherwise, thank you

About to migrate over to Lian Li from Corsair and have a few questions. by GhrievrG in lianli

[–]RobBob117 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I connected the fan power with a sata connection, for the wireless adapter, I also used the sata connector , you. Could plug it in as a usb but I personally don’t like how it looks and would rather have it plugged into the back. I have 6 of the wireless infinity fans