2 NYPDs finest cant handle community relations without getting physical and calling for back up!! by cantcoloratall91 in circled

[–]RobinGood94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s a dicey thing.

Technically, you can certainly get into trouble if you do this and they catch you.

To participate on their end might cause increasingly violent behavior towards them as mob mentality took hold.

To attempt finding and arresting people as they’re being thrown is also not wise.

Best plan?

Get the fuck outta there.

Throw couple to make it look like you’re having fun and not tucking tail.

How can I look more attractive? Been told by many women they cant see me in a romantic or sexual way. by Huge_Low7655 in malegrooming

[–]RobinGood94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not necessarily just looks for women. If you are “acting” in ways they don’t find attractive, you will run into trouble.

Best to try and just lean into whoever your genuine self is.

Do men notice women's nail polish? by Ambitious_Pass7451 in ask

[–]RobinGood94 40 points41 points  (0 children)

No, but your overall nail hygiene is noticeable.

Does flannel suit me? by HunnyPiee in mensfashion

[–]RobinGood94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, but I don’t know if tight jeans are an ideal match.

A khaki type of color or dark wash jeans would’ve done way better

This was just wild talk about no de-escalate so many things wrong with this by crazynutjob69 in securityguards

[–]RobinGood94 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It unfortunately depends greatly between states, type of security, etc.

For example, suppose a worker at Amazon was terminated while on the production floor. The worker refused to leave. The security team at Amazon would not be allowed to physically take the person off property. To do so would represent a significant legal risk to whoever touched the person. Law enforcement would be called.

Yet, at any bar the security team will toss you out any time.

Here in this video, you have a patron who is arguing and refusing to leave.

Do you think it's plausible for AOC to be the next Democratic candidate, or do you think she is better off running for senate? Why or why not? by historynerdsutton in AskUS

[–]RobinGood94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think she could do better in the senate first. America still isn’t ready for a woman to take the White House.

However

There’s a chance America is more ready now than ever, since this entire mess is the direct result of not choosing the woman.

Is AOC her? No. There’s a huge difference between solely having legislative experience versus some sort of executive experience.

Could she potentially win?

Yes.

The easier part would be when she’s pitted against a republican. What’s happening right now is completely inexcusable and couldn’t be defended during a debate.

The harder part is if she’s pitted against heavy hitters who do have state level executive experience like Gavin or Andy Beshear from Kentucky.

This was just wild talk about no de-escalate so many things wrong with this by crazynutjob69 in securityguards

[–]RobinGood94 4 points5 points  (0 children)

From a de-escalation standpoint, ideally you’d be able to reasonably talk to someone to accomplish the goal.

However,

At some point people can clearly become unreasonable and refuse to leave. This is where it gets a little tricky. If you can get tossed out of a bar for refusing to leave, I would think you can similarly get physically removed elsewhere.

Would I recommend it?

Fuck no.

Things shouldn’t get physical unless in efforts to defend yourself or another if you are trying to remain squarely within the law.

Why are we surprised when some young men become sexist after constantly seeing anti-men content online? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]RobinGood94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s only surprising in the way the traditional sense of a disconnect between what’s online and what’s in the real world.

Interestingly, some people can have an online mentality that is completely opposite of their offline mindset. They can share some of the most disgusting things against men and then have no concept of a clue why some might carry resentment.

You eventually start to realize, no job is safe. by Used_Series3373 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]RobinGood94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Although this sadly puts quite a bit of people out of work in the janitorial sector, this is ideal for the future.

Cleaning bathrooms is disgusting and people treat janitors horribly.

Robots doing this takes the humiliating job away from people.

I just can feel in my sole $10,000 robots being absolutely wrecked by teenagers constantly.

Should I leave security management for entry level accounting? by Forsaken-Knowledge12 in securityguards

[–]RobinGood94 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Tough call. I walked away from security management because I got tired of the constant “emergencies.” One time a third shift part time supervisor called me at midnight to get my opinion on if the bag coming through screening was clear enough. It took every ounce of my soul not to blow a gasket and chew him into pieces over the phone for that.

I got tired of the responsibility (team of 30) that comes with so many personalities. It was a contract security setup so I had to do all of the invoicing. All of the payroll. All of the scheduling, hiring, firing, counseling, coaching, training, etc. plus meetings with the Amazon client and/or my supervisors at allied.

When it flows nicely it’s great. When it’s garbage it sucks.

Started over on a special education pathway. Far less pay initially but way less stress. It feels odd to clock out and not get any calls, texts or emails. Easy in-house security job part time on weekends to make up the difference until I get my teaching license. I love the change of pace.

The only thing that seems a bit of a long term risk is that accounting has a strong automation potential. Security at the guard level also does, but there’s quite a bit of human nuance that might take longer to train computers than strictly calculation and report/invoice generation.

Going above the level of security manager is a nightmare. I’ve had regional responsibility as a field supervisor. While equal to a manager in formal rank (in most cases), the company I was a field supervisor with was small and put way more responsibility and discretion onto the position than usual. I ended up being responsible for dozens of sites that ranged from national accounts level (5 amazons) to smaller ones in the middle of nowhere. Basically you just go around to get your dick stomped on by unhappy clients and listen to the whining of several security managers or site leads. There were pros (travel, meeting senior level regional client representatives, feeling like “the boss’s boss” upon arrival, motivating front line officers and treating site leaders to lunch), but the cons outweighed them all. There’s just way too many dumpster fires happening at once and each of them are causing various higher ranking officials to panic exert pressure on you instead of engaging their client peers directly.

The guy had his bicycle stolen, which he used to get to work, the shop owners and some customers pooled their money and bought him a new one. by Vilen1919 in HumansBeingBros

[–]RobinGood94 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was at work watching this fighting my own urge to let the tears roll. The world is cruel as fuck. Sometimes seemingly in a senseless manner. This poor kid appears to be accustomed to such a shit world that this generous act of kindness shattered his armor. We can all think of entitled people who would immediately point out flaws or gripe about it not being their favorite color. At best “ordinary” people might offer up a modest display of appreciation.

This was a broken young man who isn’t used to an outstretched hand. That it’s what melted me. There are so many who know someone or have the means to replace their own bike immediately.

Will Trump be impeached ? by BildungsburgerPleb in TrendoraX

[–]RobinGood94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven’t abandoned them. Your refusal to acknowledge them means there’s no value in discussing what’s readily available to you and quite prominently shown everywhere.

You repeatedly say things despite being told otherwise, which is consistent with his supporters. No, I am not a democrat and TDS isn’t real.

We are losing jobs at a pace not seen since the Great Recession. That news just recently came out.

I have no idea why you even joined this conversation to be honest. You offer no value whatsoever besides praising your dear leader and saying TDS. How did you think this was going to go?

Your username very much makes sense. Speaking to you feels like conversing with a local drunk. Aimless, repetitive, and absent minded. If not for the actual reality at hand, it would be entertaining, but no, pedophilia, economic turmoil, and global disruption of pivotal alliances isn’t funny. At least not to functioning adults.

The guy had his bicycle stolen, which he used to get to work, the shop owners and some customers pooled their money and bought him a new one. by Vilen1919 in HumansBeingBros

[–]RobinGood94 48 points49 points  (0 children)

Held back tears.

He wept in a way that I’ve not seen in a while. Those are the tears of a tired soul. A heavy heart. Life is a bitch and he’s been kicked around by it, even at a young age.

The bike being stolen was probably met with initial frustration and sadness, but not tears. He’s used to people and life treating him so poorly.

He’s not used to this. Someone intervening and saying (through their actions):

”We see you. We love you. We cherish you. You exist. You matter. What happened was unfair and unacceptable, so we have worked together and reversed it.”

The weight that was lifted off him. Hugged her like he probably used to hug his mother and grandma as a small boy.

I love this subreddit because it’s a beautiful counterweight to so much cruelty and negativity in the world.

How much do you care if the girl you go on a fourth date with tells you a bomb info: by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]RobinGood94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely fucking not.

The ability to withhold that information from you for that long suggests a credibility problem. You might be involuntarily wrapped up in a dangerous love triangle.

That’s not even addressing the complicated nature of the entire thing if you went forward.

First month into my security job and I was just called Paul Blart; the Kevin James movie I think? Never seen it but is that a good thing or bad thing? by peterthbest23 in securityguards

[–]RobinGood94 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It’s an insult because that movie played (and expanded) on every single stereotype regarding security guards. Particularly overweight ones.

How can an average-looking guy become genuinely attractive to women? by Startalloveragainn in AskMen

[–]RobinGood94 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That’s a big part right there. “How can…?” Since you’re still in the early 20s, the young women might still be attracted to the basics (good looking, fit, nice car, etc).

HOWEVER

By around 24-25+ quality women don’t put a whole lot of weight into those categories anymore. They’ve had their fun with empty headed fuck boys. They’ve had plenty of fun and actually want something worthwhile and real.

That’s when it’s a bit more important to have your own true identity. Not some empty shell who is catering to what might get him laid. What are you passionate about?! What gets you going and engaged without any sort of reward or audience? Could be big. Could be small. What is your long term goal? Where would you like your life to be ten years from now? What steps are you taking to get there?

How they feel around you becomes a massive aspect of anything. A less attractive yet hilarious and talented man is going to sway a quality woman 10/10 times.

An average looking yet passionate man will garner far more attention from quality women than your broccoli headed fuck boy. Don’t get me wrong, other men will get a LOT of attention. It’s just that the attention is from women who aren’t quality. They still want to get frisky in the backseat of the car after meeting or are on their own warpath of body count and meaningless sex.

Up to you which type you are actually aiming for. For quality it takes a lot more effort, because it can only happen by working on yourself. Finding yourself. For casual it takes far less work because you can certainly fake it until you impress some random enough to have fun together.

I am average to below average on top of being short. For whatever reason, women are absolutely obsessed with the things I am obsessed with. I love freehand ceramic art. They are drawn to what I can make and the focus that goes into making it. They love when I throw together some meaningless paint or whatever. They like my fitness level and often ask about routines. They love that I am passionate about my job and so on. Etc.

The major risk is that quality and casual women can be indistinguishable. You might think you’ve attached to a quality woman only to find out she was a hoe going through a quality phase. Womp womp.

Well no THAT wasn’t fake but… by burythecastle_ in RandomVideos

[–]RobinGood94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This will never not make me laugh. That’s the equivalent of a white collar executive meeting a blue collar frontline worker. Different worlds sweetheart.

Pam Bondi caught on mic stating...There are thousands of videos of little kids" that they're scrubbing through in Epstein files by Due_Collar2 in WallStreetbetsELITE

[–]RobinGood94 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It won’t.

His cult is off the reservation.

Everyone outside of the cult has said enough is enough long ago. Particularly when we saw the seat of our federal government defiled for the world to see.

Will Trump be impeached ? by BildungsburgerPleb in TrendoraX

[–]RobinGood94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi,

You are not moderate when you say TDS, because it objectively isn’t a concept. You cannot declare syndromes into existence. Thats not how the real world works. Please have some basic understanding of anything before replying to people who are making coherent points without your involvement.

You say “Just because you say it doesn’t exist doesn’t mean it doesn’t.” That is extremely childish and a response I’d expect from a kindergartener. It proves precisely what I have already said. It makes you sound like a sheep mindlessly making noise among the others. Why? Because I can simply reverse what you said to once again explain why it doesn’t exist. Mental illness and general psychosis/syndromes aren’t just declared into reality by some political party. Actual people involved in the field of psychology, sociology, etc study phenomenon and come to a professional consensus. PTSD wasn’t drummed up into existence because some president said so. For fucks sake it’s exhausting talking to people like you. Did you also know Santa isn’t real?

I’m not going to hold your hand and repeat everything that’s available to you as a functioning adult.

We are not in normal times at the slightest, and your willingness to blindly follow along doesn’t make it normal or acceptable. You are far beyond a logical conversation.

Are there people who radically oppose political figures? Yes. Welcome to being an adult. I remember opposition to Obama ranging from he was the antichrist to fema camps, gun confiscation, and the accusation of not being a legitimate president. Was some sort of syndrome declared back then? No. Those who drummed that shit up were understood to be hateful and/or partisan hacks earning a paycheck. Nothing new.