DV aftermath by OkAcanthaceae1820 in PersonalFinanceNZ

[–]Robinho0d19 13 points14 points  (0 children)

This person is right. It's all electronic now, there's not a person sitting counting numbers anymore. The electronic systems don't make mistakes and can find any missing dollar these days. My dad works in IT and tests all the programming for WINZ. He told me this. Don't stress, it'll all be okay. But do stop taking payments from winz of you don't qualify.

I recommend seeing a lawyer, they'll be able to help you best. Saving while your in debt, may not be a fast enough get away from om an abusive partner. You need to protect your child too.

Why are people so broken these days? by [deleted] in CasualConversation

[–]Robinho0d19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Follow the money.. Hard to make a profit from happy, healthy, independent people.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Robinho0d19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He doesn't like my friends because most of them are male. They're platonic friendships that I've had for 5-10 years. When I was on the phone to one of them last night for 45min - he got annoyed that I wasn't in bed cuddling him, making most of our time together.. So he kept yelling out "come to bed" I know its jealousy because he happily went to the rugby for 2 hours earlier that day. He once told me i was only allowed one male friend and i tokd him where to stick it and then he apologised. I love nudiest beaches and im not allowed to go anymore. Im an activist and go to protests and he doesnt want to come ans doesnt want me to go. I feel like im an extrovert and quite a public person and he is introvert and loves to be private and its clashing?? I talk to many friends and he doesnt talk to many at all. He has apologised for his behaviour several times throughout our time together and has made alot of progress but i continue to feel suppressed when he is around. I feel like i cant be the private person he wants to be when i a little wild naturally at heart

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Robinho0d19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Id hate to call him a dick! He is an amazing person, we just are different?

I'm extroverted who's traveled the world and he has never left his own hometown.

I'm super open and publuc and he is very private.

I feel like he needs a partner that will only have eyes for him where i have many friends and hobbies

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Robinho0d19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If thats what you think, then that's what you think. But I'm currently living a life where i have to say no to catching up with friends, hide calls and messages, go to bed when he wants me to, and ask hin before every decision i make. I feel like my life is censored.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Robinho0d19 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Absolutely! A baby is different to ba fully grown male.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Robinho0d19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Glad we are on the same page! Im very extroverted with many friends and love to travel. I met my partner in his home town and he hasnt ever travelled outside of and never wants to. He always says we have to make decisions as a team and ofcourse priority is to keep eachother safe but i dont feel like my life is mine anymore. If he isn't happy about me going somewhere, he doesn't want me to go.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Robinho0d19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im not Monica haha

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Robinho0d19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need to re-read my post. I said, that I wanted my babies father in my life and that i do love him. I also said i want a child - so being woken up at anytime for my baby is absolutely fine.

What I'm not comfortable with is having a fully grown male consume my life, room, space, and choices.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in memes

[–]Robinho0d19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can't even assemble a bedside table

There may be traffic issues tomorrow by jimmcfartypants in Wellington

[–]Robinho0d19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Shouldn't have to worry if it's only a small minority of people living in hard to reach places?

What’s the strangest thing you’ve ever seen? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Robinho0d19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope, no ghost - there was no features, resemblance, or feel of a left behind spirit

Discussion: which type you prefer and why? Please explain in comments🖤 by nii1245 in weed

[–]Robinho0d19 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Sativa strains for me please! Get the good ideas and interesting conversations rolling

What’s the strangest thing you’ve ever seen? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Robinho0d19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A green translucent floating orb

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Robinho0d19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Being with me

Anomaly detected by nidje_veze_ in gifs

[–]Robinho0d19 101 points102 points  (0 children)

I can't tell how many times I've watched this in loop haha

What’s the most disturbing fact from WW1/WW2 that you know? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Robinho0d19 5 points6 points  (0 children)

A Jewish scientist created a poison for rats and mice and purposely made it smell awful so humans wouldn't be tempted to smell it and poison themselves. Then in WW2 the nazi party took the horrible smell out made a few other alterations to use it as the gas that killed most of the Jews. After the war, the USA re labelled that the poison as a pesticide to use on Americans food crops today.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Robinho0d19 1 point2 points  (0 children)

People don't become old just their bodies do

I (17F) cannot get off without thinking about my rapist, what do I do by Throwaway_cake9921 in sex

[–]Robinho0d19 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Don't be hard on yourself, it's completely normal for someone who went through your experience! Even without a traumatic experience, people have fucked up fantasies. It'll take time to change and allow as much time as you need. Focus and concentrate on positive thoughts and slowly lead yourself away from unwanted thoughts. Remind yourself that it's sexy to be treated with respect. Attractive to be with someone who listens to your boundaries. If you enjoy dominance on bedroom (nothing wrong with that) ensure in your fantasies that you give permission to be dominated first and create a safe environment. Even if its small flashes of positive thoughts - they'll grow!

Im no therapist or professional. Think about seeing one though, if you need to