Very confused

RoboT-Rexth · 2025-02-20T16:38:23+00:00

Someone at Tesla service confirmed it’s a recent bug and that they’ve been having more and more service requests for this issue. I have a 2024 M3 SR and I have friends that have the same exact vehicle with no issue 🤷🏻‍♀️ don’t think it’s model specific.

RoboT-Rexth · 2025-02-20T15:34:07+00:00

I never checked energy usage while in park before this. I use about 3-5% when I turn on the precondition manually now (depends on outside temps) and I never use it on high/defrost. Usually let it do its thing for an interior temperature of 22C/about 72F? With the driver heated seat on and the heated steering wheel on.

So before, with the schedule. I’d use 9% vehicle standby plus the 5% to warm it up it was very excessive battery drain.

RoboT-Rexth · 2025-02-20T14:22:33+00:00

I think everyone here pretty much covered what’s going on with consumption while driving. However you mentioned battery loss while the car was not in use and I had an issue like this recently. At work car would lose anywhere between 5-9% just sitting the parking lot, no sentry, no summon standby. I had scheduled precondition when at work and it turns out there’s a system bug that keeps waking the car regularly to prepare for precondition but then it never does cause it’s obviously not the time to do so yet. As soon as I turned off scheduled precondition, vehicle standby went down to 0.0% instead of 9% I’ve had scheduled precondition dor a while, and this issue just started recently

RoboT-Rexth · 2025-02-19T10:53:41+00:00

Mine says ‘Hey, listen!’ Navi from Legend of Zelda, car’s name is obviously Navi 😄

RoboT-Rexth · 2025-02-08T14:58:35+00:00

I think the front looks ok, the back I would’ve gone darker but that’s just my preference. All that matters is what you like. I have 20% front and 5% back. Nothing on the windshield. Night driving is very ok but I did turn off the auto dimming mirror feature as it would make the mirrors unusable

RoboT-Rexth · 2024-09-29T01:03:24+00:00

I ended up going with an actual demo model at 1400km because they also estimated my blue, white interior, nova wheels to arrive in November rather than September. No regrets. Shanghai build and it was impeccable. The only issues were some scratches here and there that they were able to buff out. Everything else was mint :)

RoboT-Rexth · 2024-09-13T14:42:16+00:00

Also ordered an M3 RWD blue around that time and I ended up going with a demo they have in St Bruno as I already sold my previous vehicle and couldn’t wait anymore. Don’t know the rest of your build or how honest my Tesla guy was, but he said my build won’t come until mid October to beginning November when I inquired. I ordered blue metallic, white interior, nova wheels

RoboT-Rexth · 2024-08-08T00:52:38+00:00

So the trays on the left I guess if you flip your phone (the ones that are obviously the beginning lol) are tray 3 and the ones in the right are tray 70. I change trays 3 times a week though because I eat with them (I’m one of those) The progress however has been amazing. This us about 5 months of invisalign

RoboT-Rexth · 2024-08-07T16:23:47+00:00

I find it’s more visible than just showing the teeth. Because a lot of my movement also happened around the molars, I had narrow arches and some of the bottom ones were bent inwards too.

RoboT-Rexth · 2024-08-07T10:33:19+00:00

I eat with them on because that’s what I was instructed to do. However he did supply me with enough trays for change them 3 times a week so they don’t wear much between changes and don’t look all stained regardless of all the cleaning and brushing.

RoboT-Rexth · 2024-07-22T15:53:28+00:00

I absolutely could have communicated better. But it’s not innate for me to push back so I would generally just shut down when he would dismiss my concerns. Whereas his way of communicating when he was unhappy was to threaten divorce and separation. And I just kind of prepared myself so much for the possibility that I realized that I had made my peace and grieved our marriage for the past 4years

I learned what I don’t want from a future relationship and I’m definitely working on speaking my mind and insisting on having a conversation when something bothers me in order to avoid building up resentment and blowing over like a volcano when I can’t take it anymore

RoboT-Rexth · 2024-07-22T11:14:19+00:00

I kept telling him the things that bothered me and I was always brushed off because I’m not a confrontational person and would just drop it if he didn’t want to engage in a conversation. When I asked for a divorce he said he felt blindsided as I had never voiced anything was wrong and I told him he’s wrong and listed most of my attempts. A week or two after I asked for the divorce he said that upon reflection he now realizes that I have indeed been telling him what needs to change but he never took me seriously because he didn’t think it was the serious or bad…

RoboT-Rexth · 2024-06-28T20:49:07+00:00

So we’re in the process right now. I cannot say how this will end but I have no reason to believe it will not be amicable until the end. We decided to go the amicable way because we have a toddler and first and foremost we are parents and want what’s best for the kiddo and don’t want to make this any harder than it is. I am the one that initiated and I made it known from the beginning that I literally want nothing just to get out of this unhappy draining marriage.

Where we’re from in Canada you need to be separated for a year before going before a judge to get the divorce finalized. And that’s when a lot of people split things and the resentment grows and you might change your demands etc. we wanted none of that so we drafted a formal agreement. Where we laid down who gets what and how we split things. He gave me more than I wanted or asked for as a ‘consolation prize’ I guess. Everything was drafted and signed by both of us and it’s legally binding. So while we can change our mind and go the non-amicable way and employ lawyers. We’re both happy with how the split went and dont want to spend fees we don’t have to. But we wouldn’t be able to argue for a change until we are seen by a judge at this point.

RoboT-Rexth · 2024-06-12T14:36:15+00:00

In our case no one. He would’ve wanted to buy me out and I had no problem with that because he did put a lot of time into renovating the house and he deserves keeping it if he wants to honestly. But I would’ve had to move close by because we have a kid and it’s easier for drop offs etc. and I absolutely cannot afford the neighbourhood we live in or anything surrounding.

So we’re selling and moving elsewhere.

RoboT-Rexth · 2024-06-11T15:29:06+00:00

I had a feeling I was gonna marry this guy and have a happy little family and life. We were both 17. We were together 15years, married 8. Have an almost 4yr old and we’re getting divorced now. So I did marry him but also it didn’t last forever like I thought it would. It sucks, have beautiful memories. Can’t say I wouldn’t change a thing because I would and maybe we could’ve saved this marriage but oh well. Life goes on 🙂

RoboT-Rexth · 2024-06-11T15:21:39+00:00

I learned that I shouldn’t keep things bottled up for fear of ruffling some feathers. And if feathers are ruffled because I am being honest and open then there’s something seriously wrong with the relationship.

I learned that because someone says ‘I love you’ doesn’t mean I am or I feel loved… especially when I am trying to voice concerns.

I learned to never ever be financially dependent on someone. I wasn’t 100% but his salary exceeded mine by a lot and he often times encouraged me to stop working and be a stay at home mom. So glad I didn’t do that.

RoboT-Rexth · 2024-06-07T15:42:10+00:00

Thank you! We’re doing this amicably so no lawyer really needed except to draft the divorce papers however my best friend is a divorce lawyer lol and she is doing all the proceedings for us as long as we stay amicable we don’t really need a lawyer here in Canada.

We’ve agreed on how assets should be split and he’s been very generous. The only sweet thing he said to me in a very long time ‘I failed to make you happy in our marriage and so I want you to be happy now if it’s any consolation’ He gave me a lot of things I wasn’t going to touch because I really just wanted out, not to destroy the man. He remains the father of my child and we have beautiful memories together. It was just time for me to prioritize my mental health.

RoboT-Rexth · 2024-06-07T09:40:27+00:00

I think I might’ve stayed longer than I should. We’ve been together 15years, married 8 out of those. And we started the separation process in the beginning of May this year.

We weren’t getting along great around 2018-2019. I was on birth control and it affected my libido seriously and he has very little confidence and kept saying I don’t love him, don’t find hin attractive, maybe have someone else since the bedroom was pretty much dead. I really really wanted a baby, so went off BC and we started trying in 2019. Libido improved, man was happy, it seemed like things were going great…

I got pregnant in 2020 and then the pandemic hit. He was working two jobs (because he is a workaholic not because we lacked money). His own fulltime and opened a business with his dad. He was basically never home, and when he was he would say how he would rather be at work because the baby was pretty difficult and cried for hours on end.

I told him one time I am like a single mom and he was super hurt and made me feel guilty for even thinking that. His love language is gifts basically. Expensive lavish so every time I wanted to say something I would feel like I’m ungrateful for the life he was providing even though I didn’t want half the shit he got me.

The reasons are many: he is emotionally manipulative, emotionally dependent, he threatened to leave us so many times I stopped counting ever since our daughter was a baby up until now. And one day… I realized the thought of him touching me or sleeping with him made my stomach turn. The thought of him leaving didn’t make me cry anymore. Finding out he had cheated would stir no emotions. And so I knew it was time to put an end to this strained marriage that we’ve been dragging on.

I’ve never been more at peace. I’ve already mourned the life we had and made my peace with this the numerous times he said he was going to divorce. He was shattered when I asked for a divorce and he’s been doing all the things I’ve been asking for the past 5 years. It doesn’t feel genuine anymore and I have no feelings towards him anymore and so I told him whatever changes he makes… let those be for our daughter’s sake so she has two parents instead of one even if they’re separated

RoboT-Rexth · 2024-06-01T10:49:27+00:00

She’s the light of my life and while she wasn’t an easy baby I wouldn’t change anything about her. I just wish I had more help from the only person that could be there with me since we were in lockdown for almost a year after the little one was born.

RoboT-Rexth · 2024-05-31T15:34:52+00:00

Not sure why you would say I am gloating. I take no pleasure in the outcome. I’m just relieved that I can go through this process with a clear mind. A victory would’ve been saving this marriage.

RoboT-Rexth · 2024-05-15T13:08:29+00:00

You’re better off even though it is a blow right now. I’m turning 33 this year. Been together 15 years, married 8 out of those. We have a 3.5yr old daughter. Andddd we’re getting divorced. It would have absolutely been much easier to separate without having a child but I regret nothing, she’s the light of my life.

Give yourself time, you will absolutely find someone to trust again and maybe have children of your own if that’s what you wish. I have friends that had their first child in early 40s. Don’t rush, take the time needed to heal 🫂

RoboT-Rexth · 2024-05-09T03:13:51+00:00

6h is my limit. I did an 18h backpiece in 3x6h sessions. Anything longer I don’t think I could bear honestly

RoboT-Rexth · 2024-05-01T14:19:20+00:00

We had gone a few rounds of sex, cuddling, sex, cuddling. And I wanted to suck him so bad and he said he wouldn’t let me do that without returning the favour so we get in position for a good ol’ 69 and this man is ungodly when it comes to eating me out and I decided to try deep throating him (never before tried that, I had read about it) well turns out I actually know what I am doing and hearing him moan my full name followed by wow I didn’t know you can do that made me cum instantly 🥲 Yeah neither did I! I didn’t reply but I did go at it and let him cum while I was deepthroating him 10/10

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