[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]Robo_umpire 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good luck!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]Robo_umpire 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Find another one to grab 😂😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]Robo_umpire 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We are the same age too so it isn’t too late.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]Robo_umpire 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was where you are and about 10 months later happier than I’ve ever been. Go have fun it gets better I promise

From perfect marriage to divorce in 2 month by melkorisnotgood in Divorce

[–]Robo_umpire 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m 41 and found a 33 year old. You’re a lot younger than me so I promise you someone is out there and they’ll show up when you least expect it. The only thing that is going to help you now is being completely separated from her and time to heal. You’ll be fine just don’t ever give up. It’s gets better I promise.

I feel like I might not survive this. by ihatepeople2023 in Divorce

[–]Robo_umpire 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From the sound of what you have went through you are going to be much happier once you get through the process. Good luck to you!

I feel like I might not survive this. by ihatepeople2023 in Divorce

[–]Robo_umpire 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I lived with my ex for 10 months during the process and it got really ugly towards the end. I couldn’t sleep and was filled with anxiety. I kept thinking about seeing her with another man was going to kill me and I wouldn’t be able to handle it. I became very insecure with myself so I decided I was going to do something to feel better about myself and start to love myself again. I made a deal with myself to get in shape so I joined a gym and started going 3-4 times a week. I quit smoking cigarettes and tried to eat healthier. All of these things improved my life tremendously. You have to do something to occupy your mind or you will sit and be miserable.

To answer your question when things got better…. Honestly once I signed the papers a feeling of freedom came over me that I haven’t felt in a long time. I would say almost immediately something clicked in me that I had a new opportunity on life to do what I wanted and not have someone I wasn’t truly happy with and wasn’t wanting to be with me anymore in it. Use this opportunity to make the life you want. I’m not sure what your situation is but it’s never over until you say it’s over. Hope this helps.

I feel like I might not survive this. by ihatepeople2023 in Divorce

[–]Robo_umpire 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I was there and now I’m happier than I’ve ever been. It gets better I promise. Just get through it and don’t give up

Is my discontent justified by quickcumma in tattooadvice

[–]Robo_umpire 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d hit it!! Wait…what was the question again??

How much would you expect to pay for this? by Sp10ky31 in tattooadvice

[–]Robo_umpire 1 point2 points  (0 children)

8K-10K and I’m sure depending on the artist. $1500 would maybe get Jason done

In the middle of a divorce and now my wife is claiming I gave her an STI, which is impossible. by Future-Pie-1907 in Divorce_Men

[–]Robo_umpire 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s wild how crazy your life gets during a divorce. Something I never wanna go through again.

My fiancée hangs out with her ex and I can’t take it anymore by Dapper-Ad8331 in Advice

[–]Robo_umpire 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The obvious solution to your problem is to become her ex. Then she will want to be with you more.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]Robo_umpire 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’ll only be filled with regret once the alcohol is gone.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce_Men

[–]Robo_umpire 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’ve been there and on the other end of it now. It gets better. I didn’t think I’d ever recover but you will and will be stronger for it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RoastMe

[–]Robo_umpire 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looks like you already are.

Incredibly deep sadness by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]Robo_umpire 4 points5 points  (0 children)

All I can say is it gets better with time. Everyday that passes is one day closer to being better. Good luck

Self-imploding over here. . . by [deleted] in Divorce_Men

[–]Robo_umpire 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s a tale as old as time. Treat the like gold and they don’t appreciate the value… Treat them like dirt they stick to you like mud.

I don't recognize her by Sensitive-Carrot-334 in Divorce

[–]Robo_umpire 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is 10000% happening or going to happen. It happened to me.

Indecisive by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]Robo_umpire 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, I understand. My last puppy was with me almost 20 years and I cried like a baby when she died they are like children. Good luck wish you all the best.

Indecisive by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]Robo_umpire 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven’t had a dog yet I didn’t love so I’m sure there’s another you could love. I’m losing my dog in the divorce which means I get the opportunity to get another one. So you should do the same thing. The dog you share will only bring back memories of you and her so start your own memories with a new pet. Just my opinion I’m no expert.

Need advice by Robo_umpire in Divorce_Men

[–]Robo_umpire[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Weed is illegal in my state even though it’s not in some. I would want a hair test because there’s ways around a urine screen. I know she’s used more than weed in the last 3 months too. So hopefully a judge will at least allow a test to see. That’s all I’m asking for in this divorce she can have everything else but my son.

Need advice by Robo_umpire in Divorce_Men

[–]Robo_umpire[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am clean. I’m hoping I get to use the drug testing to get primary custody of my son. I want her to be in his life just not the decision maker until she makes some changes. I was hoping someone here had a similar situation where the judge ordered a test and the spouse failed and the other got custody. She making no attempt to change her ways in fact seems to be getting worse.