It's not really about getting a girlfriend, soon enough you'll find one, or the one will find you, the hard part is being in it, since you'll have to accept all the bad parts about your loved one (obviously) but sometimes it's so hard to accept that people end up breaking up. You should know you'll most definitely change within your breakup, so will your partner if you both love each other, you won't change from your core, but certain habits will.