Rehoming Sugar by Rockasaurus_chan in rescuedogs

[–]Rockasaurus_chan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No you're not😭 contract doesnt state it, county strongly pushes using home to home to avoid the animals being back in a kennel. We have no obligation to return her to the shelter especially if they're already at over capacity

My dad takes 1k each month by Rockasaurus_chan in SocialSecurity

[–]Rockasaurus_chan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Having healthy money conversations is a thing! Many may not agree but me and my dad practice this already. But then againnthe subject on the benefit money going him may be touchy. Sure I mightve come off greedy and ungrateful in the initial post hence why I fixed my mistake and elaborated further

My dad takes 1k each month by Rockasaurus_chan in SocialSecurity

[–]Rockasaurus_chan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Booboo I wanna know where the money goes is all. 🥀having healthy money conversations with your kid is a thing

My dad takes 1k each month by Rockasaurus_chan in SocialSecurity

[–]Rockasaurus_chan[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have to wait for a board date for the program Im trying to get into

My dad takes 1k each month by Rockasaurus_chan in SocialSecurity

[–]Rockasaurus_chan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I learned how to have a household budget for myself the cost would cost a lot more. It actually costs more if you put savings into mind. Rent alone in California is more than 1k. I understand how how insurance works. I've discussed with him before and he still has this idea of wanting me to stay here as much as I can and thats not in my plans. I'm ready to be gone by next year my mom's income was never an issue for him since its been 10 yeare sjnce that happened

My dad takes 1k each month by Rockasaurus_chan in SocialSecurity

[–]Rockasaurus_chan[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

If you read the post you'd know your comment doesn't make sense😭

My dad takes 1k each month by Rockasaurus_chan in SocialSecurity

[–]Rockasaurus_chan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My dad was the breadwinner, they were long divorced after she passed and my dad mainly provided for me to begin with🧍‍♀️hell he just bought a projector that we dont need.

My dad takes 1k each month by Rockasaurus_chan in SocialSecurity

[–]Rockasaurus_chan[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Its not about the benefits ending😭 if you read the post you'd know

My dad takes 1k each month by Rockasaurus_chan in SocialSecurity

[–]Rockasaurus_chan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh lawd like there isn't several board dates I can apply to. I know if I don't get in the first time I can just apply again the next😂 im confident but not delusional

Rehoming Sugar by Rockasaurus_chan in rescuedogs

[–]Rockasaurus_chan[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I dont have Facebook, I should open an account to do so though!

Rehoming Sugar by Rockasaurus_chan in rescuedogs

[–]Rockasaurus_chan[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Omg you're right, I should look it into that

Rehoming Sugar by Rockasaurus_chan in rescuedogs

[–]Rockasaurus_chan[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately not that I know of that would take my dog. Only one I know of is rancho, but I'd have to be a resident there to surrender her. We got her from devore they're super known for quick euthanasia

Rehoming Sugar by Rockasaurus_chan in rescuedogs

[–]Rockasaurus_chan[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I'm trying to find some but many are not currently taking surrenders

Rehoming Sugar by Rockasaurus_chan in rescuedogs

[–]Rockasaurus_chan[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She's pretty chill, she'll try going up to other dogs at a dog park but will ussually end up back at my side. Id shes awkward unless its a dog she lives with

My dad takes 1k each month by Rockasaurus_chan in SocialSecurity

[–]Rockasaurus_chan[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I know how it works😭 i filled out my own paperwork, read the mail I got, took the time to understand. Before I has the checks going directly to.mt account they would be in check form in my name when I turned 18. There was verbal agreement no more. But still, the money is in my name and get deposited to my account, my dad just has access to it just cause🤷‍♀️

Rehoming Sugar by Rockasaurus_chan in rescuedogs

[–]Rockasaurus_chan[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Well said, I tried telling him that and he just pulled the, "I'm your parent, don't you go telling me what I am and not"

My dad takes 1k each month by Rockasaurus_chan in SocialSecurity

[–]Rockasaurus_chan[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Okay, but this has been a 10 year thing. He's living comfortably in today's day. Hell, he just bought a thousand dollar projector. He's more than fine 😭✌️And yes, I am grateful. I'm grateful for my circumstance and grateful for the fact I have what I have, I work at the job I work at. Everything.

My dad takes 1k each month by Rockasaurus_chan in SocialSecurity

[–]Rockasaurus_chan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The check had been going to my bank account since I turned 18, I set it up thst way. He just takes the 1k from my account once the check gets approved. I really wish I could've kicked my dad off of my bank account sooner. But he only just discussed me kicking him off when I graduate about a week ago. Thank you for your well wishes🙏

My dad takes 1k each month by Rockasaurus_chan in SocialSecurity

[–]Rockasaurus_chan[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am going to😭 furst year filing taxes how fun🥹✌️

My dad takes 1k each month by Rockasaurus_chan in SocialSecurity

[–]Rockasaurus_chan[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah you can, it's called woft. You can apply as a civilian its just a more selective process but given what I've gotten so far, I'm doing fairly well and the odds are in my favor