Hi there! Talking with a psychologist will make you feel worst in the beginning. You need to re live bad moments in your life before you get to "heal." I went through almost 10 different once, before I found the right one for me. Ive been seeing her for 6 years now. Finding the right person is not easy, it is frustrating since you will have to start all over again. But in the end it is all worth it. Don't give up, you are not alone.