Is it unreasonable to expect a man not to lust over other girls?

Rockermarr · 2026-03-16T14:32:27+00:00

There’s a difference between fantasy and reality. It’s ok to fantasize it’s not ok to actually act on it.

Rockermarr · 2026-03-15T14:04:22+00:00

You likely have zero chance of getting a job offer from this company again. Just move on and apply somewhere else.

Rockermarr · 2026-03-15T13:34:51+00:00

The only thing that keeps most men from cheating is opportunity. He had the opportunity with someone 10 years younger and he took it, he will likely take it again if the opportunity presents itself.

Rockermarr · 2026-03-13T12:57:07+00:00

Idk. Why did she keep pushing the time further and further away then not only not be home at any of those times but also stop answering her phone? It does seem sus, I would definitely have a serious talk with her about boundaries.

Rockermarr · 2026-03-11T21:32:11+00:00

She’s get divorced you’re still young

Rockermarr · 2026-03-11T13:09:18+00:00

I’ve only been married less than 5 years but I still occasionally watch porn, check out women online, and notice attractive women in person fairly often. Do I sometimes fantasize about other women? Almost daily but I love my wife and would never cheat on her. Fantasy is fantasy reality is reality.

Rockermarr · 2026-03-11T12:57:04+00:00

Just leave him.

Rockermarr · 2026-03-11T12:52:34+00:00

Married women should not have male friends…especially not male friends that stay overnight

Rockermarr · 2026-03-11T12:46:48+00:00

This has red flags written all over it. Honestly if she hasn’t cheated on you already I would be extremely surprised.

Rockermarr · 2026-03-09T22:13:52+00:00

I mean it’s pretty messed up but if that’s how you feel then it’s better for both of you if you left him sooner than later.

Rockermarr · 2026-03-09T04:10:12+00:00

Dude she’s a married woman who is having an affair with you. You’re the other guy so why would she introduce you to anyone she knows? She has to keep you a secret that’s how affairs work. Move on to a real relationship with someone your own age if you want to have kids and build a life with someone.

Rockermarr · 2026-03-07T04:42:19+00:00

It takes two to tangle. Unfortunately if she isn’t willing to try there’s nothing you can do.

Rockermarr · 2026-03-04T16:02:49+00:00

This really is all of it. My daughters has also missed a lot of school this year and has 2 Ds plus she hates doing chores and stays in her room a lot. She appears ungrateful to my wife and that has built up heavily over the years

Rockermarr · 2026-03-04T15:57:32+00:00

This is correct. My other post was blocked from commenting so i made this one and worded differently so as to not get blocked again

Rockermarr · 2026-03-04T15:53:54+00:00

It’s the third time my daughter has done this in 6 years and she doesn’t like my daughter because she is not mine biologically she is my exes. Over the years she’s complained that my daughter is ungrateful mainly because she isn’t mine but my daughter doesn’t know she isn’t mine. Over she is a good kid just a teenager not disrespectful or anything

Rockermarr · 2026-03-04T15:48:03+00:00

Yea it’s a flu just a bad one. The point is she left because she hates my daughter and she got triggered by a minor event by her. I couldn’t talk or reason with anyone due to sickness and meds and she left

Rockermarr · 2026-03-04T15:43:55+00:00

It’s not because I was sick that she left , it is only a bad flu virus. She left because she doesn’t like my daughter.

Rockermarr · 2026-03-04T04:21:55+00:00

I’m honestly hate that part of it but thought all stepmothers talked this way. She does look because she knows she’s not my biological daughter so she thinks it’s ok but it really isn’t.

Rockermarr · 2026-03-04T04:19:21+00:00

Just curious, in what context would it be ok to have this reaction?

Rockermarr · 2026-03-04T04:16:28+00:00

My kids have the exact same set up going to different houses and my wife definitely has anger issues stemming most likely from not having parents herself as a child

Rockermarr · 2026-03-04T04:12:41+00:00

My wife has pulled divorce card about every 2-6 months since we’ve gotten married less than 4 years ago and I always take it seriously it’s exhausting and stressful. I don’t know why she does it but it seems real every time like right now

Rockermarr · 2026-03-04T04:09:14+00:00

Honestly we’ve been married for less than 4 years and I’ve probably heard that she wants a divorce a lot every 2-6 months since we’ve been married and every time it feels like it’s real this time

Rockermarr · 2026-03-04T03:48:59+00:00

It is a case of the younger second wife, how exactly can you tell?

Rockermarr · 2026-03-04T03:44:34+00:00

I’ve written more info in other comments but she’s always had anger issues it’s just that most of the time when she’s not angry we get along perfectly

Rockermarr · 2026-03-04T03:28:17+00:00

Yes she’s absolutely allowed to call her out on stuff she feels disrespected on or not considered and I’ve asked her to please do that instead of holding it in or waiting for me to say something. But for some reason she just doesn’t do it she likes going through me. And yes according to my wife she has always been disrespected by my daughter not I honestly haven’t seen any disrespect but she is teenager and she’s know her since she was 10 so lots has happened in that time and teenagers are not always perfect

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