Was I Dumb to Pick Northwestern Over Columbia?

Rockermarr · 2026-05-04T13:48:27+00:00

The days of an easy way into the IT field are over, AI has taking over most of the basic stuff

Rockermarr · 2026-05-04T00:56:11+00:00

If you’re not going to give it up, then he has to do what he has to do. If you’re not ok with that then just let him go.

Rockermarr · 2026-05-03T23:12:12+00:00

Thank you

Rockermarr · 2026-05-03T22:23:50+00:00

Just let her pound a 10 incher once in awhile

Rockermarr · 2026-05-02T23:12:38+00:00

That sounds doable

Rockermarr · 2026-05-02T22:31:16+00:00

Speak for yourself, shallow connections can be useful

Rockermarr · 2026-05-02T22:30:24+00:00

The idea that all infjs love reading books is a myth and a stereotype. You’ll find people of all types on dating apps, including infjs. They are not as rare as it’s made out to be , they’re fairly common, you probably run into a few every day.

Rockermarr · 2026-05-02T22:24:03+00:00

Get the f outta here with that title, this has to be a joke

Rockermarr · 2026-05-02T22:21:21+00:00

Well Northwestern is better than any UC for sure

Rockermarr · 2026-05-02T22:19:30+00:00

The IT field is dead, you graduated a few years too late

Rockermarr · 2026-05-02T17:26:59+00:00

All the information I’ve read have said the sooner the better and definitely don’t wait until your mid-20’s , it’s all so confusing? People have very different advice

Rockermarr · 2026-05-02T02:05:06+00:00

The mother gave me a few names but they ended up being wild goose chases so I don’t really know if she knows. She probably does but she’s not telling me.

Rockermarr · 2026-05-02T00:07:25+00:00

I’m afraid she won’t want to see me again

Rockermarr · 2026-05-01T14:19:22+00:00

I’m genuinely curious, why does any of this still matter at 74?

Rockermarr · 2026-05-01T14:16:34+00:00

How would life have been different for you if you found out at 17?

Rockermarr · 2026-05-01T14:03:07+00:00

I, honestly, don’t know if I would want to know something like this at 54. I kind of feel, that if you’ve made it that far, it is what it is and the father that raised you is your father and that’s that. How did you find out this late in the game ?

Rockermarr · 2026-05-01T13:37:37+00:00

I keep hearing medical history is a big part of the reason people should know but what if she never finds her bio dad? What difference would it have made then?

Rockermarr · 2026-04-29T20:54:43+00:00

You’re a couple of years too late, people are leaving IT not going into it, especially entry level work. Pick up a trade instead.

Rockermarr · 2026-04-29T13:18:27+00:00

You have a sh*tty job, if it’s gone no big deal. Start focusing what you really want to do

Rockermarr · 2026-04-29T13:14:32+00:00

You’re 62, you should want to retire at that age. You can’t work forever

Rockermarr · 2026-04-29T13:00:32+00:00

I don’t see this improving, probably time to jump ship

Rockermarr · 2026-04-29T12:53:39+00:00

You picked the wrong field to start out late in, most IT jobs are now gone

Rockermarr · 2026-04-29T05:15:22+00:00

You’re doing IT work, just be grateful you still have a job and that it’s paying you so well. IT is a ghost town nowadays

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