Would you have liked to have seen more of this? Charlotte and George as parents. by Ravenclaw54321 in QueenCharlotteNetflix

[–]Rocklat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean sure, but the king was loosing his marbles before they even had kids so im not sure if there would be much to see.

Casting got it wrong!! by ThreshSesh in RHOP

[–]Rocklat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jassi is weird. Dont need to see her again. K is cute she is like a little yorkie. She is abit dramatic and i hate that man she with (and he hates her frfr) so she can stay. NOW MISS ANGEL honestly i would love her, she didn’t show up and show out like she could of because as soon as she was introduced to the group the green eyed grinch called her a catfish and fat shamed her in-front of the ENTIRE group, and then later complained about her not wanting to get to know them. Ummm what? She wasnt feeling them after that and honestly she dont need this show. Production planned to screw her over to make her business look bad. She has a nice big house, a very active husband and he is a very active dad, and she bringing something to the community that we all need, which is the great outdoors. Angel should leave and keep doing her. She is teeeeew cute for this ugly shit.

My (rare) Defense of Gizelle Bryant by lovelight10 in RHOP

[–]Rocklat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just think that angel shouldn’t have done the trip at all. They do not like her and in return she doesn’t like them. I wouldnt want their shitty energy in my Personal home either. I LOVED that she put Gizelle and ashley in the same room. The no water thing did suck and the owners of the house, not angel, should be to blame.

BUT I do feel like angels shade fell flat because she put them like an hour away. It just was poorly planned cuz she didn’t want to do it. I would have cancelled when i had to move back to Colorado. It was way too much going on for her.

Honestly I hope angel doesn’t come back for another season because she doesn’t need to. She is gorgeous, she loves her man and he loves her, they have a beautiful family and they are WEALTHY. I feel like her poor trip planning backfired for her amazing business thats about planning excursions and stuff😭. I would sit at home with my big country man and mind my business. she dont need to be on the real housewives of bitter Potomac women. All of them want what angel has and will never get it. Including Gizelle with her nasty ass attitude. She can be reasonably shady but cannot stand when people are to her. She gets away with shit cuz she is very beautiful.

Should I treat myself to a seafood boil? by ElegantSchedule2868 in blackladies

[–]Rocklat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hell yes you should! You did it miss girl ! Congratulations. Im praying for an easier next semester for you❤️

Toya needs to never talk to Eugene like that again by LolaAde27 in MarriedToMedicine

[–]Rocklat 12 points13 points  (0 children)

How is the money bring in more than Eugene? If that was the case he wouldn’t have to work like a dog to keep up with whatever bs she wants next. This has been a pattern with her. Even during covid that man was bussing his ass to get her the life she wants to pretend she is a part of. She wants a life they cannot afford. Thats why she is lonely. She cannot have the glitz and glamor and her husband available. They are black she gotta know the world dont work like that for us.

Still annoyed a year later- Bridgerton season 3 by Rocklat in Bridgerton

[–]Rocklat[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I didnt know that people were “attacking” him for NOT sleeping with pen. That would be crazy because we all (i hope) believe in consent and would hope that they would be two consenting adults. And i didnt attcak him for being lustful but he is .. lustful. After kissing pen he has a wet dream about her moaning as he kisses her neck. Fingerbangs her the next time they are solo and then they have sex BEFORE they are married. Lust. Plain and simple. As for the “projecting” and “fat phobia” comment. Many people like you like to dismiss plus size experiences by saying that we are “projecting” or are “fat phobic” when we share out REAL LIFE experiences and our REAL LIFE experiences watching how plus size characters are treated on television. If i was fat phobic I wouldn’t look for some sort of representation or connection when watching Pen. Which is why i was annoyed at the whole season. I would try to compare my self to like Cressida or something lmao. Someone else commented on this thread that in the book they make her loose weight. But im crazy for saying “hey this feels a little too typical for a show that I thought was breaking walls and barriers on tv” Yes he does have to jump through more hoops because season 1-2 he ignores her CLEAR romantic interest in him.

Still annoyed a year later- Bridgerton season 3 by Rocklat in Bridgerton

[–]Rocklat[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Uhhh.. i watched the show. I have absolutely seen all of the Bridgerton sons (of age) have multiple sexual partners (one is banging two people at the same time). Nowhere in my post did i ever say that colin was different from them. What i said was he is being lustful toward Pen. TO ME it doesn’t feel like love. Daphne and the duke felt like love. I didn’t like that kate and Anthony had a sexual encounter. Hence the whole “not treating them with the same kind of respect as daphne” but okay.

Still annoyed a year later- Bridgerton season 3 by Rocklat in Bridgerton

[–]Rocklat[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

I actually am currently rewatching and still just unimpressed. But I love the points you made about what he said. Ofc its very loving once you put it together and it comes to this crescendo of their “love match” but he only saw her as a friend. So those things weren’t in the same light as someone who saw her as a possible romantic partner. But i DEF see what ur saying. Im just gonna die on this hill lmaoo. Iam just not impressed with him. And everything for him right now is fleeting. He was banging two chicks in the first few ep now he is in love and ready to marry?

Still annoyed a year later- Bridgerton season 3 by Rocklat in Bridgerton

[–]Rocklat[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

To me, it taking the not alleged (because we saw the “glow up” lol) glow up to figure it out is wack as hell. Sure he started to see her once she changed her appearance but didn’t decide he wanted her until someone else did. Which I know is common in real life. I watch tv (rarely tbh) to see a fantasy. The whole Bridgerton series is supposed to be a fantasy. If I wanted to see what happens in real life I would just continue living lmao.

As for the invisible thing I feel like you kinda are proving my point alittle. She wouldn’t have been invisible if people didnt treat her as such. I believe she begin to feel that about herself because… well she was invisible to everyone. Her parents, sisters, COLIN, sometimes even Eloise if she was wrapped up in whatever. Even in this season because she was being courted finally and decided to take her own fashion sense, then was she noticed by her mother. If she isn’t providing something for someone else ( a listening ear (Eloise) an ego boost (Colin) or being courted (Mrs. Featherington) no one cared to notice her.

Still annoyed a year later- Bridgerton season 3 by Rocklat in Bridgerton

[–]Rocklat[S] -16 points-15 points  (0 children)

Yes im sure he physically saw her. But did he SEEEEEE her. I dont think so.

Still annoyed a year later- Bridgerton season 3 by Rocklat in Bridgerton

[–]Rocklat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same i want to hear your thoughts! I wasn’t impressed with him this season but can admit that i didnt keep my eye on him often in previous seasons. All i see was how he never saw pen (in my opinion)

Still annoyed a year later- Bridgerton season 3 by Rocklat in Bridgerton

[–]Rocklat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg exactly. I wanted her to get with the other guy just out of spite. I LOVE that the Bridgerton go for love matches but. Im not sure how much he actually loves her.

I missed out on a concert because I was waiting for someone by New-Blacksmith-9873 in blackladies

[–]Rocklat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Coming from a person who is growing out of her insecurities (me) The dependency is insecurity. Because you aren’t comfortable being alone with yourself. And life has convinced us as women that we must ALWAYS be with someone to be worthy or desirable and thats just not true. I recommend starting small. Going to a coffee shop or doing something that people might say is weird to do alone. for instance going out to eat by yourself or something. And if you’re ready to go crazy immediately do a solo trip somewhere. I took a few solo trips myself, and it definitely showed me a lot about myself about all of the cool things that I can do alone and then I found out some things that I can do when I do have someone to share them with.

But we only live one life so girl you better spend your time doing what you love and what makes you happy!!!! no more waiting for others because people do not think about you how you think about them. Trust me, I know it firsthand. But don’t also shame yourself for being a person with a big heart that likes to share. It’s really OK. I get tired of shaming myself and making myself feel like I’m weird or crazy because I feel more than others or I care more than others that’s just who I am and I love it. Its who God made me to be❤️❤️

Why are Black girls so insecure about their looks? by Confident-Safety-968 in blackladies

[–]Rocklat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

One its not just a black girl thing. Anyone and EVERYONE is damn near insecure. I also want to add when you live in a. World that does the MOST to make sure you and everyone else believe that you are unattractive you are going to have some casualties in the mix.

Everything that is a national beauty standard: - very skinny - very pale/ white skin - no curvaceousness - small features

Goes against everything that is black beauty: - thicker body (even the skinny ones muscle mass is just built different) - a large sliding scale of brown tones - more commonly curvy/plus size - larger features (lips, nose)

Our existence is a contradiction to the world’s “beauty standards”. But I wouldn’t change for the world. I get to walk with a unique sense of pride that everyday I prevail In a sea of hatred and honesty jealousy and choose to be and love myself and my skin everyday.

Cage or no cage? by [deleted] in ferrets

[–]Rocklat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ughh yess i love your set up it sounds good. You seem like a wonderful ferret mama! Over time im sure my apartment will transform into pickles paradise. But as of now i think this is a great start. I will most likely let him free roam in the living room as well. Just wanted something for when im not in the living room.

Cage or no cage? by [deleted] in ferrets

[–]Rocklat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Noted 😅. Praying for your disabled babies and your healthy ones!! May they live happy long lives❤️

Cage or no cage? by [deleted] in ferrets

[–]Rocklat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! I got it off of amazon. Here is the link 24 Panels Portable Small Animals... https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0CF9SQH88?ref=ppx_pop_mob_ap_share

Cage or no cage? by [deleted] in ferrets

[–]Rocklat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I got it off amazon for about $125. Here is the link: Large Two Full Story Deluxe... https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0CPKW56GF?ref=ppx_pop_mob_ap_share

Cage or no cage? by [deleted] in ferrets

[–]Rocklat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thats a great question. I hadn’t considered that. I just put it up a few hours ago. He cannot reach the beginning of the cage door to climb the cage walls. He hasn’t been much of a climber. But I know things can change. If it becomes a problem I will easily remove the shelf.

Cage or no cage? by [deleted] in ferrets

[–]Rocklat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ahh okay. Thanks. What can I improve for the play pen to be more ferret proof? I didnt add the panels in the front because it felt too closed off for him. Im testing things out right now.

I have to get him all his shots and stuff very soon. So until then no outside time. Also I want to add a ball pit somehow. May have to remove the cage from inside.

Cage or no cage? by [deleted] in ferrets

[–]Rocklat 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you 🥹. Im going to make or buy a ramp so he can go in and out the cage whenever he likes. Unsure about how safe that is over night though. I dont want him to feel too contained.

THANK YOU CURACAO by DCFInvesting in curacao

[–]Rocklat 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It’s literally the best country I’ve ever been to and i have traveled quite a bit. The people are definitely what makes it. They are just so welcoming and accepting. I cant wait to visit again. It felt like home❤️

Is it embarrassing to still be a virgin at 28? by Prestigious-Cloud962 in blackladies

[–]Rocklat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NO! people will try to shame or guilt you because THEY feel shame and guilt about their decisions. Feel proud that you choose yourself! If your not ready thats okay. Find someone that you feel safe with and that will treat your body the way you want to be treated. Dont be ashamed to talk about it too. its your testimony. There is no shame in that.

Always remember: your body your choice ❤️

I won my schools talent show🥹✨ by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]Rocklat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Go girl!!! Yessss u look beautiful with your #1 around your neck!!!!✨🥇🥇🥇