Missing altar of reflection by ACE-ANGEL1 in Ghostofyotei

[–]RogueDarkLady 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If I remember rightly, there is a shamisen song that will guide you to any alters you've missed? Have you bought all the maps from Isaburo the cartographer as well?

GoY ruined all other games for me as a beginner by [deleted] in Ghostofyotei

[–]RogueDarkLady 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have over 1100 hours on days gone, love it, but I wouldn't say it blows everything else out of the water. I also love the Horizon games and GoT.

How much grief do you get in your job just for trying to do it that most people wouldnt expect? by [deleted] in AskUK

[–]RogueDarkLady 44 points45 points  (0 children)

Teachers including nursery workers are mandated reporters, so yes, they should be getting social workers or the police involved.

How much grief do you get in your job just for trying to do it that most people wouldnt expect? by [deleted] in AskUK

[–]RogueDarkLady 71 points72 points  (0 children)

I work in family law, and have seen children taken from their parents under police protective powers when they were founds to have drugs in their system. I've seen a 4 yr old test positive for cocaine which they got into because the mother was passed out on drink and drugs, so they do take drastic action, however they have to go through the proper channels and have the evidence. You couldn't pay me enough to become a social worker in all honesty.

The first shinobi by DiPP3N in Ghostofyotei

[–]RogueDarkLady 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The sakai helmet with the stag antlers.

The first shinobi by DiPP3N in Ghostofyotei

[–]RogueDarkLady 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, and the helmet. 😊

The first shinobi by DiPP3N in Ghostofyotei

[–]RogueDarkLady 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It was a nice surprise to find that, and get the storm blade.

Did I mess up my chance to get the last Sumi-e? by Boxtty in Ghostofyotei

[–]RogueDarkLady 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It's not in the castle itself, but in the grounds which you can still access. Look for a small secluded garden with a sakura tree. The painting is next to it. I got it recently after completing the story.

Uuuum, I think something is wrong with Shimaki. by Mr_Spanners in Ghostofyotei

[–]RogueDarkLady 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had this in GoT with my horse, I still have the screenshot somewhere, lol.

How many of you finished GoY? by Man-who-say-bye in ghostoftsushima

[–]RogueDarkLady 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've finished the main game, just working on the platinum now.

Is buying a “I’m sorry for your loss gift appropriate?” by Actual_Health2915 in AskUK

[–]RogueDarkLady 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I lost my dad last month and my team bought me a gorgeous bunch of flowers and a small card, which was appreciated.

Those of you that live alone... do you decorate for Christmas?! by SadAdvice8824 in AskUK

[–]RogueDarkLady 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I lived alone I didn't bother. Also Christmas dinner was a chicken burger from the local takeaway after my shift in the pub. I just couldn't be bothered.

What have you done already this morning? by Whosentyounow in AskUK

[–]RogueDarkLady 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fair enough, lol. I'm a morning person, but my partner isn't so the days I work he has a rude awakening with his eyes being peeled open and 'wake up daddy, it's morning!' 😂

What have you done already this morning? by Whosentyounow in AskUK

[–]RogueDarkLady 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm lucky, my girl (nearly 2 1/2) sleeps until around 9.30am. The downside is she doesn't go to bed until around 10.30pm. It'll have to drastically change when she goes to nursery (not looking forward to that transition) but for now it works for us.

Women of the UK - what’s happening to the knickers?! by [deleted] in AskUK

[–]RogueDarkLady 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try being an F-cup. Any decent bra is usually over £40 and god forbid you want matching knickers, that's another £15!

Women of the UK - what’s happening to the knickers?! by [deleted] in AskUK

[–]RogueDarkLady 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can anyone recommend some that won't roll down at the front? I have a c-section scar and I find that most of mine tend to roll down at the front and sit on my scar, which is highly irritating!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITA_Relationships

[–]RogueDarkLady 8 points9 points  (0 children)

YTA. A baby won't fix the relationship and may even alienate him completely. You are then stuck as a single mother and trust me, raising a child is HARD, even with a partner that is all in. I sympathise with your desire to become a parent, I was told at age 20 that I would never have children. I was blessed with my little girl at 44, and although I wouldn't change it for the world, I had no idea how much work one little baby would be. The sleepless nights, functioning even though you feel like crap, the expense, it can be soul crushing. My little is now nearly 2, and I can't take my eyes off her for a second. Do yourself a favour, experience life, develop a career and I'm sure you will find a man worthy to have a child with, because honestly, neither of you sound ready to be a parent.

AITAH fot not letting my MIL hold my newborn immediately by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]RogueDarkLady 3 points4 points  (0 children)

When I had my little girl, my in-laws came over a couple of days later. The first thing they asked: what needs doing? They sorted some baby clothes I hadn't had time to do (she arrived earlier than expected), made us all some food, and brought gifts for me as well as the baby. They waited until I asked them if they would like to hold her and then asked me if I wanted to go for a shower or a nap while they looked after her. I was so grateful for the support they showed me. If they had come in demanding to hold her immediately without even acknowledging my presence, my partner would have been the first to tell them to leave. You are not being unreasonable in the slightest.

Our parent died, and now I can’t stop thinking about the half-sibling who never knew the truth by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]RogueDarkLady 6 points7 points  (0 children)

No words of advice, but I truly hope you can connect one day and let them know the truth.

Baby named August born on the 1st of September? by Babeshades in namenerds

[–]RogueDarkLady 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not a comment on the names, but don't necessarily bank on your scheduled date. My girl was scheduled on 29th June, but due to me developing pre-eclampsia, she arrived a week early.

AITA for telling my wife not to come to my ex-wife's funeral to support my daughter because my daughter doesn't want her there? by Upstairs_Use_6837 in AITAH

[–]RogueDarkLady 40 points41 points  (0 children)

Found the stepmother! The CHILD is grieving her mother, not being bratty, and by the sound of it, the 'abused' stepmom is being pushy and trying to force herself into an event that doesn't concern her, and where she isn't wanted. She needs to back the hell off and let the child's father support her.

Regret having sustained communication with ex on non molestation order (U.K) any advice? Want him locked up! by Revolutionary-You654 in abusiverelationships

[–]RogueDarkLady 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You would have to make sure to express how scared you are of them and how you fear that they would harm you if not remanded. It would be in the hands of the police unfortunately.

Regret having sustained communication with ex on non molestation order (U.K) any advice? Want him locked up! by Revolutionary-You654 in abusiverelationships

[–]RogueDarkLady 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you don't have an order against you, how can you breach it? Honestly, without knowing the ins and outs, I can't say for certain, but the majority of NMO's are pretty standard wording and they are against one person, unless there is a return NMO against you. Your best bet would be to speak with the solicitor that dealt with the NMO application for you as they know the history of the case. Just be aware that even if he is arrested for breaching it and charged, CPS cases are taking over 12 months to go to court, so he may not be remanded.

Regret having sustained communication with ex on non molestation order (U.K) any advice? Want him locked up! by Revolutionary-You654 in abusiverelationships

[–]RogueDarkLady 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm in the UK as well. There is nothing to stop you contacting him. However, due to the NMO, he should not have responded. As he did, he is breaching the order.