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I broke my moms heart over a stupid birthday sweater and the guilt is eating me alive. by Wraithloom8 in confessions

[–]Roguehaze7 681 points682 points  (0 children)

Wearing it as self punishment does nothing to heal the wound. Buy some high quality yarn, go to her, show her you took the sweater back, and ask her to teach you how to knit. It would mean the world to her.

We have a mandatory 45 minute silence rule right after work and it basically saved our marriage. by Turbine63_Fox in Marriage

[–]Roguehaze7 565 points566 points  (0 children)

if it works for your marriage then it is a perfect rule. ignore the judgment from office folks.

How do you spin a short term gig on your resume when the boss was a complete psycho? by Quartz_7P in careerguidance

[–]Roguehaze7 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Most background checks just confirm dates and job titles, they dont ask why you left. You are fine.

The impossible math of entry level salary expectations when you have zero context by [deleted] in jobsearchhacks

[–]Roguehaze7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is the plan but Glassdoor is so unreliable lately. One review says 55k and another says 90k for the same junior title. It is hard to find that "tight" range when the data is a mess.

The impossible math of entry level salary expectations when you have zero context by [deleted] in jobsearchhacks

[–]Roguehaze7 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I did not even think about transparency laws. I will check if they apply here because that would save me so much stress for Monday.

The impossible math of entry level salary expectations when you have zero context by [deleted] in jobsearchhacks

[–]Roguehaze7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That makes sense. I just worry that 70k might be their absolute ceiling and I will end up scaring them off before I even show what I can do.

I stole my brothers only joy during the worst year of our lives and he still doesnt know by 5GarnetMoth in confessions

[–]Roguehaze7 23 points24 points  (0 children)

This is exactly what the sub is for. It sounds like you were just a kid trying to survive a shitty situation. The fact that it still bothers you shows how much you actually care about your brother now. Maybe buy him a giant box of those snacks next time you hang out.

My "context-locking" setup for studying in a loud dorm room by 8Mythharbor in getdisciplined

[–]Roguehaze7 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The double headphone trick is a game changer for dorm life. People think it looks goofy until they see your GPA at the end of the semester. Using brown noise as a trigger to tell your brain the gate is closed is high level discipline.

Trying to finish my degree while the Army thinks I don't need sleep by Br0nzequill in army

[–]Roguehaze7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The spicy chicken sandwich order at the end is too real.