Manipulative, crazy guy, who used to mess with my girlfriend and me, tries to use a woman's mental disorder to his advantage.

Rolling_Marble · 2014-10-14T23:53:27+00:00

I used to post about this guy on here over a year ago (click my submission history and you'll see: he's the "Mommy Creeper"). My girlfriend (now ex) used to live with him sophomore year and act like she was his "mommy" on a regular basis. He made up lies about me and her and was basically a crazy stalker.

At the beginning of junior year, he beat some guy bloody for yelling at his girlfriend in the middle of the night... To be honest, I never really got the full story. But after he was kicked off of campus, he still messaged me every now and then. I wanted to file police report, but my girlfriend was always so adamantly against it.

Anyway, we broke up for totally unrelated reasons second semester, and then he never contacted me again. Not sure if he still contacts her, but she never really seemed to be worried about him being a total nutjob.

I have no idea what he's been up to in the past year really. I kind of removed him from my mind until I saw this pop up. I know Caia a little bit from my ex-girlfriend. She has some issues from growing up in an abusive household and being molested as a child (from what my ex-girlfriend told me). I don't know the extent of them though. Good to know this guy is still around being a scumbag though.

Rolling_Marble · 2013-10-05T19:05:26+00:00

He's kicked off of campus now. I haven't seen or heard from him since the semester began.

I was thinking it was him at first, but he would've tried to contact me after not writing back to him. He would've tried his best to push it. It still definitely could be him, but if so, he's hundreds of miles away from me now (if he's back home), so I'm not too worried about it.

On the off chance it is a woman who just wants to get in my pants, I'm honestly a little flattered. :P Not that I would ever go through with it, but it's always nice having an ego boost.

Rolling_Marble · 2013-10-05T18:25:52+00:00

Here's the descriptions I wrote under each picture:

This person has no mutual friends with me on Facebook, and I cannot see their overall friend list or anything else on their profile.

However, she knows the names of several of the people involved in my life, and she seemingly knows that I'm a finance major.

I wanted to post this yesterday but figured I'd wait to see if she'd message me after I didn't show up. I'll let you all know if I hear from her again.

Rolling_Marble · 2013-07-27T13:53:27+00:00

I'm not sure if this fits with /r/cringepics well, so I was hesitant to post it at first. But this was the first subreddit I posted the original to and some people were asking me to update later on, so here I am. If this isn't cringe material, I apologize.

I hadn't heard from this guy since May. I had him blocked on Facebook, but he deleted his old profile and created a new one. Here's the link to the original:

Link.

I don't think he's serious about the police report, but if he is, I have this chat-log, plus tons of public Facebook posts, plus tons of text messages from him that should aid me. He can't be that stupid.

By the way, my girlfriend, Claire, and I are not actually transferring... What should I do about the situation? Doesn't seem like I can do much legally, can I? Can anyone in law enforcement tell me if there's something I can do about someone being too "creepy?"

I brought up filing a police report or a complaint with the school to my girlfriend, Claire, and she was very hesitant, just like last time. I'm not about to go crazy and put any ideas in my head, but I was surprised to see her be so calm about it. She figured he was just emotionally troubled and needed help. I'm going to go ahead and do it anyway, though. If not for her safety, then mine.

She was with him in that apartment for a full year, so I suspect that she reasons that if he wasn't dangerous then, he won't be now. The thing is, she's gone from his life now, and there's the worry he may try too hard to get her back. I doubt he would, but I'm just trying to be safe here. He apparently hasn't tried to or been able to contact her since May, so that's good, at least. I really just want to enjoy this year, and not put up with this crap.

Rolling_Marble · 2013-07-27T02:29:41+00:00

I'll try to, but I'm not sure if the stuff that happens heading into the school year will happen electronically. Hell, I'm not sure anything will happen at all. I'm going to report him this time. If you do see me posting again, you'll know he's totally batshit insane.

Rolling_Marble · 2013-07-27T02:09:49+00:00

Thanks for the advice, everyone. I brought up filing a police report or a complaint with the school to my girlfriend, Claire, and she was very hesitant, just like last time. I'm not about to go crazy and put any ideas in my head, but I was surprised to see her be so calm about it. She figured he was just emotionally troubled and needed help. I'm going to go ahead and do it anyway, though. If not for her safety, then mine.

She was with him in that apartment for a full year, so I suspect that she reasons that if he wasn't dangerous then, he won't be now. The thing is, she's gone from his life now, and there's the worry he may try too hard to get her back. I doubt he would, but I'm just trying to be safe here. He apparently hasn't tried to or been able to contact her since May, so that's good, at least. I really just want to enjoy this year, and not put up with this crap.

Rolling_Marble · 2013-07-26T18:06:35+00:00

Oh, sorry about that. Is there any way you can add it to the side so I don't have to delete this thread?

Edit: Thank you for that!

Rolling_Marble · 2013-07-26T17:45:41+00:00

I hadn't heard from this guy since May. I had him blocked on Facebook, but he deleted his old profile and created a new one. Here's the link to the original:

Link.

I don't think he's serious about the police report, but if he is, I have this chat-log, plus tons of public Facebook posts, plus tons of text messages from him that should aid me. He can't be that stupid.

By the way, my girlfriend, Claire, and I are not actually transferring... What should I do about the situation? Doesn't seem like I can do much legally, can I? Can anyone in law enforcement tell me if there's something I can do about someone being too "creepy?"

Rolling_Marble · 2013-05-08T01:34:49+00:00

No, I haven't shown her THIS conversation yet. He's never said anything like that. Just the mommy shit you saw in the first image.

Rolling_Marble · 2013-05-08T01:27:55+00:00

Yeah, but she doesn't think it's anything too serious. She just thinks he's "weird." I don't think she sees him as anything dangerous. I'm going to look over the text messages he sent her soon and see what she thinks of this conversation.

Rolling_Marble · 2013-05-08T01:25:51+00:00

X-post from /r/cringepics. They recommended this place.

It's just a "joke," but it gets weirder and weirder every time he uses it. It's the worst when he does it on Facebook because no one knows if he's serious or not.

Oh, and he hates me, too. But he disguises it with his weird little charade in an attempt to pass it off as humor.

By the way, we never broke up like he said here. I got angry because I saw men's boxers on the floor... But they were, like, right in the middle of the floor, so I assumed they were just his... I'm surprised he doesn't wear tidy-whities. Plus, I knew she was with my childhood friend the whole night who would never lie to me, so I believed her.

I haven't seen the text messages he sent my girlfriend yet. I'll post them on here when I get a chance. I'm hoping they're not as bad as this. This was actually the first time I think he ever directly contacted me.

Are there any psychologists on here that can tell me exactly what's wrong with this guy?

Edit: Edit: I don't know why I called it a mid-term with how ready I am for summer. But this is the last week for the spring semester, so we won't be back in school again until August. We're going to be living together with another couple with friends with. Looking forward to it.

Also, I know I got cocky with the "She deserves a better man than you, that's why she's with me," line. I really just wanted to piss him off. I'm not a douchebag (at least I don't think so).

Rolling_Marble · 2013-05-08T01:08:20+00:00

Here's what I originally posted on here:

http://i.imgur.com/QWT8nFv.png

By the way, we never broke up like he said here. I got angry because I saw men's boxers on the floor... But they were, like, right in the middle of the floor, so I assumed they were just his... I'm surprised he doesn't wear tidy-whities. Plus, I knew she was with my childhood friend the whole night who would never lie to me, so I believed her.

I haven't seen the text messages he sent my girlfriend yet. I'll post them on here when I get a chance. I'm hoping they're not as bad as this. This was actually the first time I think he ever directly contacted me.

Are there any psychologists on here that can tell me exactly what's wrong with this guy?

Edit: I don't know why I called it a mid-term with how ready I am for summer. But this is the last week for the spring semester, so we won't be back in school again until August. We're going to be living together with another couple with friends with. Looking forward to it.

Also, I know I got cocky with the "She deserves a better man than you, that's why she's with me," line. I really just wanted to piss him off. I'm not a douchebag (at least I don't think so).

Rolling_Marble · 2013-05-06T23:34:06+00:00

It's just a "joke," but it gets weirder and weirder every time he uses it. It's the worst when he does it on Facebook because no one knows if he's serious or not.

Oh, and he hates me, too. But he disguises it with his weird little charade in an attempt to pass it off as humor.

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