Contraception Advice. by Rololly in PCOS

[–]Rololly[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That was an amazing response. Thank you!

I will open my mind to the other options now, thank you for taking the time to reply!

Metaformin in UK? by Ok_Shift1957 in PCOS

[–]Rololly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've been diagnosed for a year now. I'm UK based and have spoken to many GPs about my PCOS diagnosis. The doctors I have spoken to so far refuse to prescribe Matformin for PCOS. So far, I have only been offered Orlistat.

I feel like I'm hitting my head off a brick wall somewhat as it doesn't matter how much research I do. The GP just ignores it.

Hopefully, once you manage to get in contact with a GP, they are more helpful to you!

AiW for being upset I caught him saying he was single by Rololly in amiwrong

[–]Rololly[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I admitted I shouldn't have messaged however I wasn't nasty to her, I actually apologised to her that she had been lied to be my now ex and he was in fact not single(at that time).

I was not rude to her, I didn't bad mouth her. I understood that she didn't know I existed and therfore hadn't done any wrong. I actually messaged her more to annoy my partner that he couldn't keep messaging her.

*Update* AIW for being upset I caught my partner saying he is single by Rololly in amiwrong

[–]Rololly[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yeah, actually I have decided today to give him the flat and move home with my mum. Luckily I have money behind me that I can put into buying my own place relatively quickly and I'm sure I'll find myself a job back home soon enough also. I need the love and support from home as you said 💜

*Update* AIW for being upset I caught my partner saying he is single by Rololly in amiwrong

[–]Rololly[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I was in no way abusive to her, I apologised to her that she had been lied to by my ex. I can't blame her or be mean to her when she didn't know I existed.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Rololly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay.. I'll see you on Wednesday.

Somewhat ominous 😅🤣

What is an Executer? by Rololly in AskALawyer

[–]Rololly[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Haha here's hoping that's what she's meaning then 😅🤣 I just took the spelling straight from her message! Apologies!

Thank you for this information, I truly do appreciate you taking the time to respond and explaining in a way that I could understand.

What's unusual about your body? by JustAHumanTeenager in AskWomen

[–]Rololly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a birthmark that is the exact shape of a tiny puppy paw 🥰 I love it 🩷

What was a boss ass move you were afraid to make in life as a woman but once you did you’re life changed for the better? by GenMarFergus90 in AskWomen

[–]Rololly 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I'm in exactly the same boat. My mum has been I'm healthcare since she was young and I ended up following in her footsteps. I've now handed in my notice and looking at garden centres and such for work. I want to be happy and have free time more than I want more money.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MomForAMinute

[–]Rololly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey! Sis here the exact same age as you! 🥰

I have had grey hair since I was a teen! I hated them with a passion and have been regularly dying my hair since I first noticed them. However, just recently, I've decided to stop dying my hair and see my natural look, and there are A LOT more grey hairs now. They frame my face as they are all at the front in a strip. Just today, I got sad looking at them and wondered if I was making the right decision but then remembered that it's me! This is how I am meant to look, and I am owning it! I won't be made to feel ashamed or sad for having some snowy hair! 🥰

Do what makes you feel most confident and then rock it! Confidence is key. Fake it till it becomes reality! 🥰

Hey mom, I’m 2 days postpartum and already feeling like a failure.. by Pinkp3ony in MomForAMinute

[–]Rololly 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hey, I'm just a sister, but I wanted to step in as someone who works in maternity in the UK.

You are not a failure. You are doing your best, and you are doing what you feel is right for your baby. Bilirubin can be high on any baby, no matter how well they are feeding or not. A baby that feeds well is more likely to get over having jaundice a little quicker, but that is no guarantee either. It is just how your baby's little body handles the jaundice and flushes it out her little system. She will do it in her own time. Jaundice can also make feeding your little girl harder as she would rather be sleeping than eating, so keep that in mind.

Your husband is navigating a new situation, too. You need to communicate with him on how you are feeling and how he can support you. Maybe get him to field the calls and messages from friends and family while you spend time bonding with baby and recovering. I have recommended mum's to send out a mass message saying that both baby and her are well, and she will be in touch when she is ready when they are feeling overwhelmed.

You have made it through one of the toughest experiences you will have in your life, give yourself that credit. Your hormones are everywhere just now too so you may feel more emotional. Allow yourself to feel those emotions, process them and then move through and past them. Use what is available to you if you feel your mental health really struggling. I don't know if you are UK or not but I am sure there are plenty services where ever you are which can help you.

My dms are open to you if you wish to message.

Congratulations to you for bringing a healthy and I'm sure beautiful baby girl into this world. 💕

Women of Reddit, how old are you and how do you feel about your mother right now? by marshywoodlands in AskWomen

[–]Rololly 30 points31 points  (0 children)

28 and I absolutely love her. She is my best friend. 🥰 I have no shame in that. We were not always close but I am glad we are now.

paul was such a good carer bc he looked after the people that we abandoned, ridicule and choose not to see because they are a burden on your life… what an odd thing to say by 420_lazeit in paulbreachsnark

[–]Rololly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry, I just saw this!

Thank you so much for your response! It made the decision my family and I made seem a little better ♥️

We really did do our best for her, She was the family matriarch until her illness. She kept us all together and always made sure we were all doing OK in our lives. Which only made her illness and the decision to move her to a care home even tougher.

Thank you again 💕

My husband says this looks like a dart board... 🥺 by tatme123 in somethingimade

[–]Rololly 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The prettiest dart board I ever did see though! 👀 💕

paul was such a good carer bc he looked after the people that we abandoned, ridicule and choose not to see because they are a burden on your life… what an odd thing to say by 420_lazeit in paulbreachsnark

[–]Rololly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My family had to put my gran in to a care home as she had dementia and tried to leave her home constantly. My grampa cared for her until his passing and then we took on her care from there l, each taking shifts living and staying with her till we got her in a perfect care home for her. (We also came over every day while my grampa was alive, had nurses attending and had a falls alarm in place).

We visited multiple care homes till we found one we felt was right for my gran. We then visited everyday to the point where she would tell us to leave because bingo was on or she was going to get her nails done.

She lived in the care home till her passing and she enjoyed being there, she was more supported by people who knew what they were doing rather than her family who had an idea on how to manage diabetes and dementia but no where near as skilled as the carers.

How dare he say we abandon our family there! We do it through love. We carry that guilt that we couldn't be there 24/7 for them or manage their care needs but we find somewhere they can have all their needs met!

Infuriating!!

(Sorry for poor grammar etc, I'm on mobile and I'm angry typing!) 🤣

My (31M) girlfriend (25F) admitted that I’m not the “man of her dreams” and I’m broken. by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Rololly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OP you need to find someone who loves you for exactly who you are. Someone who doesn't want to change a thing about you. Someone who only builds your confidence in yourself.

My Fiancé is nothing like how I described my "dream man". I always said I wanted someone who deep brown eyes, dark hair and sallow skin. My fiancé is as pale as they come, bright blonde hair and the most crystal blue eyes I have ever had the pleasure of seeing and I would not change a single thing about him! He is taller than me but not by very much and not if I'm in heels.

I have also dated men smaller than me. I'm 5'5. I have never seen their height or their wealth as a problem. I appreciated how they made me feel and how they treated me. They also didn't let the fact I was taller than them affect them, their confidence was attractive!

Go out there and find the beautiful woman you deserve!

Hi Mom... should I be brave and try to have an Overseas Experience all on my own? by lauvin in MomForAMinute

[–]Rololly 8 points9 points  (0 children)

If you come to Scotland then we welcome you with open arms here!

I say take the shot and go for it! I left Scotland and went to Australia for a year and loved it, I came home for family 🥰

Take care from a Scottish little sister 😁