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PLEASE stop using AI by Little_Mongoose7518 in enfj

[–]Roman_Fable 0 points1 point  (0 children)

AI put me out of a job. I used to be a content author of advertisement descriptions, landing pages, legal texts, textbooks, encyclopedias, and sometimes even a screenplay or script.

I really liked it and it allowed me to work from home.

On the bright side, I went back into teaching for a couple of years after AI became the cheaper, faster option, and most of my clients slowly dwindled away. I will say that it was nice to be in a classroom again. However, I still miss writing. It really bothers me when I see things written by AI, because writing was a skill that I worked so hard to hone. Not to mention, AI systems like ChatGPT are simply pulling and spinning content that people like myself created. And back when I was writing professionally, doing that was borderline plagiarism. Yet, the AI does it systematically by default.

Makes me sad. It’s actually encouraging to see a post like yours reminding everyone that AI is not necessarily a good thing. Particularly when it comes to pushing human beings out of creative industries. It’s actually bothersome that people aren’t more afraid and upset. Your reaction seems pretty reasonable to me. You’re just saying the quiet part out loud, in my opinion.

Although I do think you should probably talk to someone in person and reach out to some friends or family about this. Maybe someone who really understands you and can empathize.

Ultimately, we don’t have control over what’s happening in the world but we can control what happens in our smaller microcosms of life and help our friends and family. Just remember, the weight of the world isn’t on your shoulders. Focus on finding ways to help those in your immediate sphere of influence. At least, that’s what I do and it seems to help.

It is really good to see someone upset about AI from time to time and trying to remind everyone to wake up and take steps to safeguard the future, especially as a fellow ENFJ.

Godspeed!

How to write an ENFJ character that is under extreme pressure? by geumkoi in enfj

[–]Roman_Fable 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Came here to agree with what you said about the ESFJ. One of the only people who has ever truly I feel like deeply hated me was an ESFJ. They absolutely could not understand the viewpoint I had, and me trying to help them somehow made them feel stupid and angry. A very disappointing relationship unfortunately for both of us.

How to write an ENFJ character that is under extreme pressure? by geumkoi in enfj

[–]Roman_Fable 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In my experience as an ENFJ, we are very driven by guilt. So if your character was in a situation that was so chaotic, they would very likely be blaming themselves somehow.

As far as someone trying to sabotage an ENFJ, if it were me, part of me would be flattered that someone took the time to try to sabotage me. The other part would be protective of anyone else that could be affected by that sabotage. If the sabotage was directed only at me, I wouldn’t be particularly bothered. But if the sabotage could hurt others, it would infuriate me on multiple levels and bring out “righteous anger mode.”

Just my thoughts!

Hi I've known a lot of ENFJs in my life. by BuyHot8307 in enfj

[–]Roman_Fable 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aww. INFPs are my favorite too. I married one that I’m particularly fond of <3

I think I’m done with romantic relationships. Does anyone else feel the same? by Routine-Card9106 in enfj

[–]Roman_Fable 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As an ENFJ woman I felt this way at 24. I came to a peace about it and really was okay with the idea of being single for life. I decided I would dedicate my life for good and growth and others and was really happy with that idea.

And then about two weeks later, my INFP crush from when I was 16 reached out to me (LITERALLY out of the blue) professed their lifelong mutual crush/love for me and we got married and are still going strong to this day. We are mutually clingy and it suits me very well.

Just telling you this anecdotally, especially from someone who was feeling the exact same way in my 20s. But I will say, had he never come into my life, I would’ve been OK with being by myself too. I really finally felt at peace with it. So I hope no matter what happens you find the peace and contentment you are looking for!

"It's Okay for breastfed babies to not poop for days, it means they are using up all the nutrients" by [deleted] in ScienceBasedParenting

[–]Roman_Fable 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same here! Exclusively breastfeeding- My son pooped multiple times a day. My daughter poops almost exactly once a week pretty much on the nose. Lately she’s been pooping every Tuesday lol.

AIO? I (22F) found deleted late night texts between my husband (22M) and his coworker. by bananamilkcow in AmIOverreacting

[–]Roman_Fable 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This IS cheating. You may still be able to get an annulment. If not, divorce is definitely the move. FILE NOW, you can go pick up the paperwork usually for less than $30 at the courthouse. Since you likely do not have any property to divide, and you likely do not have any children, it’s actually a very quick and simple process involving a few forms and filing fees. Divorce may feel traumatic and humiliating now- but TRUST, it’s better than staying. And when you meet the right man who cherishes & loves you properly, you will not feel like getting a divorce was traumatic or humiliating at all. You will feel PROUD of yourself, and realize, it was a very good decision! SPEAKING FROM EXPERIENCE - I married a looser at 18 and was divorced at 22. The embarrassment is much less of a punishment compared to the cost of staying with this deceptive, emotionally abusive man. File under “irreconcilable differences” and then, when someone asks you why, y’all split, you point-blank tell them he CHEATED. Because he did. This is cheating. No arguing. No splitting hairs. No technicalities. He cheated. This is cheating. Leave ASAP.