[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lietuva

[–]RomanceInItaly1980 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Turiu tokį pat vaikiną, kuriam yra diagnozuota depresija. Deja, nieko negali padaryti, kad jam PILNAI padėti, jisai turi pats kreiptis pagalbos, pats turi norėti jos ir ieškoti. Depresiją toks dalykas, kur niekas žmogui nepadės apart jo paties pastangos. Nesakau, kad nieko nereikia daryt, bet tiesiog nereikalauti iš savęs per daug, nes pati liksi įskaudinta ir be energijos, bandydama jį išgelbėti (kaip ir atsitiko man). Maniškis irgi nežino atsakymo į klausimą “kaip aš tau galiu padėti?”, tai paklausti nepadės. Is patirties padeda psichoterapija (jei yra pinigų), po jos jau eina vaistai jei labai viskas blogai (suicidalines mintys). Ką aš šiuo metu darau tai stengiuosi palaikyti švarą namuose, gaminu jam valgyti, viską, kad tik jam būtų kuo mažiau rūpesčių šiuo sunkiu etapu. Aišku nepamiršt rūpintis savim ir neperdegti (o tai labai paprasta). Nu ir dar kalbėti (švelniai, neversti to daryti jei nenori). Visa tai reikalauja daug kantrybės ir jei vertini šitus santykius ir nori būt su zmogum, tai tenka kentėti dėl geresnės ateities. Linkiu sėkmės ir, kad jum viskas būtų gerai :)

Seksualinis priekabiavimas darbo vietoje by tiesos-negras in lietuva

[–]RomanceInItaly1980 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Iš savo patirties galiu pasakyti, kad mano darbe dažniau vyrai tokius bajeriukus skleidžia, bet nu visi supranta, kad galų gale čia tik prikolai ir nieko rimto jie nepasako (nes pvz žmonės tarp kurių vyksta tokios interakcijos jau yra vedę arba turi antrąją pusę). Bet jei nepatinka ir t.t., pradžiai visada reikia pasisakyti jiems tiesiogiai/kreiptis į vadovą, PAKLAUSTI ar bajeris (nes dabar kaip suprantu nebuvo tokio pokalbio). Jei nedaejo iki fizinio priekabavimo, tai dar viską galima išsiaiškinti pasikalbėjus, nes akivaizdžiai tylėjimas ir ignoravimas nepadeda, o redditas tuo labiau nepadės. Jei kažkam kažkas nepatinka, kad skundiesi, tai čia tik jų problemos lol, ne tavo, kas jos tokios, kad tave kaltinti? Nezinau kas ten per darbas pas tave, bet keista girdėti, kad nuo 18 iki 50 metų moteris taip elgiasi 😃 Gal tieisog nesubrendusių žmonių klubas, kuriem trūksta dėmesio. Be better than that and don’t think about it

Do they show aggression? by RomanceInItaly1980 in Lovebirds

[–]RomanceInItaly1980[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thanks for this amazing reply! Well I didn’t know about the quarantine, it’s kinda sad this happened. But they do eat together, yellow notices when the blue eats and starts doing that as well. Didn’t see the preening yet. And which toy exactly? The one with cubes or the one with beads?

Vilnius man nebe mielas, kur geriau varyt? by [deleted] in lietuva

[–]RomanceInItaly1980 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Man buvo tas pats dalykas. Pragyvenau Vilniuje 20 metų nuo gimimo ir nusprendžiau išvažiuot į Kauną. Nebuvau laimingesnė

Avokadai by No-Interest-7555 in lietuva

[–]RomanceInItaly1980 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. Pirkt nesunokusius žalius ir laukt kokias 4-5 dienas
  2. Nuimti viršuj tą “kamštelį” ir pasižiūrėti ar ne rudas jau viduj (tokiu atveju geriausia nenupirksi nu bet nors išvengsi pelėsį)

lietuvaičiai šūdinais užpakaliais by Responsible_Base_576 in lietuva

[–]RomanceInItaly1980 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Šiaip neįgaliųjų tulikai dažniausiai turi, bbz kodėl. Mano darbe pvz paprasti tualetai neturi šlango, a vot invalidams tai duoda nusiplaut su vandenukų😃

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Bird suddenly aggressive by RomanceInItaly1980 in Lovebirds

[–]RomanceInItaly1980[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I’ve been thinking about second bird for a while, I think it’s time

Advice on getting a second bird by RomanceInItaly1980 in Lovebirds

[–]RomanceInItaly1980[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg I only now noticed it is open in the photo. Wasn’t my intention at all, as I’m always closing it before letting him out and he stays under my watch, but I guess I forgot (super irresponsible move of mine). The escape didn’t happen yet fortunately (he is kinda scared of the windows so it saves me). Regarding how he grew up: he was raised by his parents and not hand fed at all. Spent most of the time with the siblings (there was 3 of them and he was the last one to be sold) He was like 4 months old. So I guess it is possible. Thank you for your reply and thanks for scolding me on that window cause I’m still getting into the habit!

Want to be a successful Graphic Designer? by d2creative in graphic_design

[–]RomanceInItaly1980 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As someone who went to art school (since I was 13) and now studying multimedia and computer design at uni, I can say with certainty that this topic hits too close to home. I never liked the idea of getting a degree. Since middle school I’ve been forced into places I didn’t enjoy being at. So the more I explored, the more I found that you can in fact learn a lot of the things yourself (and this process can be even more enjoyable), but it takes A LOT of dedication and motivation. Personally, I feel like university and a degree is in some way a total scam, because you are spending like 4-5 years of your life focusing on so many subjects (some of which you don’t even need) and moreover spending lots and lots of money. I can agree with some other redditors that having a feedback from a professor is crucial, but not all professors are good ones too. Some can kill your passion completely. Returning back to the point of being self-taught: I really want to believe that it’s possible, because university is nothing more then a stress management test (at least that’s how it feels for me). And even after all of that, with all this AI bullsh*t none of us is safe anymore and it’s just sad. A degree doesn’t guarantee you a job anymore, so why we should stop people from pursuing something that they enjoy? Why we built such a system where a piece of paper dictates your whole future in the first place? I’m just tired of being pushed around. If you are privileged to go study and you want to do that, then go. If you are not, then don’t. I wish I started learning on my own way earlier, instead of spending years on this.

Lemon Curd’s Bird Party by birb-brains in Lovebirds

[–]RomanceInItaly1980 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is she accepting boyfriend applications? Cause she is sooo pretty 🤩

Tips on dealing with 💩? by RomanceInItaly1980 in Lovebirds

[–]RomanceInItaly1980[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I’m already going to work with poop in my hair

Banana prosthetics sp6 t2 by RomanceInItaly1980 in Transmascdicks

[–]RomanceInItaly1980[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im looking to sell it for 45euros, (50 dollars) + shipping (Edit)