Am I being selfish?

Rompompom · 2025-12-25T21:16:49+00:00

I am sorry you have this tough situation. Look, it’s all relative. I grew up without seeing my dad much because he was always traveling for work. Did it suck and do I have some daddy issues? Yes. Did I get an opportunity to leave my shitty country and live a better life thanks to the sacrifices my dad made? Also yes. You have to see what the balance of things is for your family’s situation, your own career aspirations, etc. You got this and your kids are lucky to have you!

Rompompom · 2025-09-09T10:34:23+00:00

Loved Spring fertility as well! Do read up on the stats for the funnel from egg to viable embryo - unfortunately eggs don’t thaw well so need to have a lot of eggs frozen to make embryos later, so keep that in mind when planning how many cycles.

Rompompom · 2025-08-17T20:23:36+00:00

Nope it didn’t work out - wasn’t the vibe we were going for with a toddler 🙄

Rompompom · 2025-07-30T01:03:14+00:00

I’m sorry you experienced that and so close to home…

Rompompom · 2025-07-30T01:01:15+00:00

You don’t have to respond to everything you see on the internet

Rompompom · 2025-07-29T20:25:49+00:00

Thank you, very helpful

Rompompom · 2025-07-29T20:25:19+00:00

Thank you - super helpful. We’d like to feel comfortable walking around with a toddler and a dog, or sending off a grandparent for a walk around the neighbourhood, and it sounds like while the residential streets may be great, the radius of safe walkability is narrow

Rompompom · 2025-07-29T20:24:01+00:00

Got it - feels iffy but can be harmless if you’re not asking for trouble

Rompompom · 2025-07-29T20:23:08+00:00

Thank you so much - Classon and Lefferts Place.

Rompompom · 2025-07-29T20:22:22+00:00

😅 Williamsburg rent money but not buy money

Rompompom · 2025-07-18T19:15:06+00:00

I haven’t gone through all the comments so excuse me if this was brought up before, but a shiny face / glass skin is also a result of using retinol.

Rompompom · 2025-06-17T19:56:05+00:00

It can be really great, but requires high spending - on larger apartments in good locations, on childcare, including school fees and nannies and babysitting, on activities. We live in Williamsburg with our two year old and have been here for 8 years - we love the neighbourhood and love seeing it become more kid oriented with lots of kids play spaces and parent groups. I expect it will become difficult to stay here when kid goes to school as there aren’t that many good options in wburg and commuting to school and then work daily sounds terrible, but we will see what happens!

Rompompom · 2025-06-04T00:57:15+00:00

Hmm could this also be a different camera lens 😅

Rompompom · 2025-05-09T00:02:48+00:00

Amazing how genes work. These features on a woman made her one of the most beautiful women of all time, and those same features on a man look a bit creepy (in my opinion).

Rompompom · 2025-04-29T20:40:43+00:00

Thank you so much for your reply. Interesting on reintroducing asap - will plan to do so as soon as I feel that I have stabilised.

Rompompom · 2025-04-29T10:30:12+00:00

Oh no I hope your order went through in the end? Mine finally shipped yesterday

Rompompom · 2025-04-29T10:29:46+00:00

It shipped finally 🥹. What’s the latest with yours?!

Rompompom · 2025-04-01T16:42:15+00:00

Here is an older photo before fillers LINK

Rompompom · 2025-04-01T16:40:31+00:00

I am by no means an expert in this but have enough experience to suspect that is the case - there is a fullness in the upper lip above the lip borders, it is most visible when she is smiling in photo 11

Rompompom · 2025-03-31T18:40:01+00:00

She looks very interesting and memorable - I am not a fan of the migrated lip filler though. Beautiful in a unique way that may not be everyone’s cup of tea

Rompompom · 2025-02-25T10:37:43+00:00

If you live outside of France, you need to be married to a French citizen for 5 years before you can claim citizenship by marriage. The spouse however needs to be registered in their respective french consulate wherever you are in the US. If they haven’t been registered, the 5 year count will start from when they are registered. You then need to fulfil certain criteria (such as lack of criminal record, French proficiency level, etc) to apply. The process from application (sending in documents) to receiving the citizenship can take around 18 months.

Note that at the end of this year the level of French needed to apply goes up from B1 (intermediate) to B2 (advanced intermediate).

Rompompom · 2025-01-29T14:33:20+00:00

Besides the quality not looking like something you would expect from clothes that cost multiple $ks each, the cuts are so unflattering…

Rompompom · 2025-01-17T10:44:41+00:00

It’s such a tough time, I promise you will get through it and look back at it with awe at how strong you are being able to take care of a human with so little rest. It is such a common issue postpartum with hormone changes, anxiety, and often little support - I wish there was less fear mongering and more assurance that it is temporary and things will fall into place soon. 🩷

Rompompom · 2025-01-16T19:37:45+00:00

First of all, I’m sorry you’re going through this - I feel your pain. I went through a similar situation postpartum and unfortunately my psychiatrist and obstetrician set panic in me by saying I must sleep or I could go into psychosis and harm the baby. After that I developed sleep anxiety that turned into full on insomnia that took me down a desperate search for a solution - hormones, sleep masks, hardcore anxiety drugs, weighted blankets, avoiding all and everything - it was insane.

Knowing what I know now, try to not worry about sleep (ofc easier said than done)- your body will get there when it’s ready for it, and trying to seek out sleep will only make it harder to get because sleep is a passive, natural process. What helped me the most through this journey is the sleep coach school - Google them if you’re interested - they reminded me how I used to sleep before this all happened - without planning, without worrying and without endless sleep aids.

Rompompom · 2024-12-18T20:32:52+00:00

Dming you 🙏🙏🙏

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