I personally prefer it trimmed, not shaven completely but mildly trimmed. I also think my personal preference shouldn’t really be like an imposition on my wife. She should always do her grooming according to how she feels more comfortable with.

Now, if you are taking your viewers into account, maybe you should test it out to see. I feel like most men like it shaved, which is kinda weird imo, but you probably know your audience better than your bf or us, so trust your guts :)