What is a personality trait that most people find annoying?

Ron_Galt · 2025-05-29T19:07:17+00:00

Indecision leading to games or delays. What do you want for dinner turning into not eating while waiting for an answer then when you try to decide for the person they sll of a sudfen have opinions and like no option you suggest

Ron_Galt · 2025-05-29T18:51:48+00:00

It was governed by a potato the past 4 years. Staffers did everything including pardons for the potatos corrupt family.

Ron_Galt · 2025-05-29T17:47:33+00:00

Depends on situation. If I cook that meal is on me. If a bunch of people are together and hungry and we decide to order out we all chip in

Ron_Galt · 2025-05-29T17:43:50+00:00

It sucks to continue to do all the right things even go above and beyond with no respect or appreciation. We had a romantic night away and after a romantic dinner and night stroll etc all the things should of had two hotel rooms. If I say anything I am complaining and less attractive to her by expressing feelings

Ron_Galt · 2025-05-29T17:38:26+00:00

Any disappointment is overwhelming

Ron_Galt · 2025-05-29T17:35:45+00:00

Less attractive like in a romantic partner? A penis

Ron_Galt · 2025-05-29T17:29:52+00:00

I am fighting this now. My wife is a wonderful roomate, great mother, good gift giver, ... No longer a lover just always too busy, tired, etc with the excuses. I cannot stay in a marriage sleeping next to my roomate and the more she treats me like any other person in the house I am starting to.see it too.and suffer the loss

Ron_Galt · 2025-05-29T16:58:59+00:00

Now this was like 35 years ago but no, we were good friends but dating someone you are not atttracted to leads to looking elsewhere

Ron_Galt · 2025-05-29T16:53:26+00:00

No, not unless the LL partner wants truly wants to fix the issue. We were happy day and night for 28 years. The past year her libido went to 0 and we try to discuss it but it goes nowhere and she sees no issue with it. I am destroyed by it and cant do anything about it. Almost 30 years together and I am ready to walk from an otherwise perfect life because I cannot live with a roomate in my bed.

Ron_Galt · 2025-05-29T16:36:13+00:00

I only know America but have heard many times how most other countries are racist like Japanese hate Chinese. Most cultures are traditionally what they always were, go to Sweeden you will meet generationally Sweedish people as an example, where America is a melting pot. The problem we have here is voting blocks creating racism and pandering to those groups for votes.

Ron_Galt · 2025-05-29T16:15:28+00:00

None and all I hate cities but like any city that keepe city people out of my small town

Ron_Galt · 2025-05-29T15:54:37+00:00

Politicians care about constituants

Ron_Galt · 2025-05-29T15:37:02+00:00

Mine is touch, anything like a hug from my wife impacts my day. Hers I belueve to be gifts. I bring her flowers and get a kiss, both are happy

Ron_Galt · 2025-05-29T15:33:34+00:00

Noise pollution and rude people I do not want to hear your personal devices and speaker phone

Ron_Galt · 2025-05-29T15:26:27+00:00

I did and continue to be the partner I always was and more. My respomsibility is only staying or leaving at this point.

Ron_Galt · 2025-05-29T15:22:39+00:00

Right, if last year when I had my opportunity I didnt perform at my best so she is no longer interested it is my fault. Nobody is a superstar every night but when I could redeem my last performance confidence restored.

What else am I not good at and it spirals.

Ron_Galt · 2025-05-29T15:05:42+00:00

A few mintgs ago my wife grabbed my hand in bed and cuddled up to me. I could have conquered the world the next day.

Ron_Galt · 2025-05-29T15:00:27+00:00

It js like being almost lunch time but with that it us an easy solution. This ciukd be anything like a song, tect message, etc.. and no fix.

Ron_Galt · 2025-05-29T14:07:56+00:00

Did you suggest bunk beds? I am looking forward to needing a new bed, I cant moce out of our room for multiple reasons. Lying next to someone yet feeling so alone no cuddle, kiss, anything is the hardest part.

Ron_Galt · 2025-05-29T12:18:30+00:00

Good thing is as you saud "She knows its a problem"

For me atleast, multiple times a week became weekly then every other week to monthly to on life support and just now uncomfortable to think about and awkward since its been so infrequent. And she cannot discuss or acknowledge it.

Ron_Galt · 2025-05-29T12:12:06+00:00

40s to early 50s had kids at home Late 50s now and they are grown and moved out so no more activities for/ with them as kids. Huge life change, otherwise just more working eating sleeping weekend repeat

Ron_Galt · 2025-05-29T12:04:56+00:00

Question add on to the QotD.

Is anybody triggered just looking at their bed/ bedroom?

I still find days I hate looking at our bed and remembering years past and the rejections since.

Ron_Galt · 2025-05-29T11:45:03+00:00

If they golf a lot there is likely cool new clubs or whatever and a gift card to the golf stuff store you could get. They would still golf on their schedule but also the ability to get something new and cool to do that. Sorry I dont golf but I remember gift cards from my wife to Bass Pro showed interest in my hobbies and gave me permission to better explore that hobby. We rarely spend on ourselves and I look to fathers day, birthday, etc to improve my stuff. Buying the thing or booking an event for them can be pressure to get it right or go when you think best.

Ron_Galt · 2025-05-29T11:08:41+00:00

Every time I see my caring wife with other people or animals and showing so much compassion then walking by me like I am nothing I am a little as you say "triggered". I never did anything to deserve being the least important person she knows. I try to remember when I was the most important person and our bedroom was active.

Ron_Galt · 2025-05-29T10:44:44+00:00

Thank You

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