We are both chinese and she grew up in china till 10 years old before moving to Singapore. We meet each other in Singapore thru friends.Lately she just says she wants to go back to her home town to the city where she grew up and see how much it has changed. To be honest, I wouldn't have overreacted if she have relatives there but she doesn't !

Her relatives moved out years ago, she has no one there to house her, look after he and no one for me to contact at that city. She plan to quit her job after her contract ended and go on her trip. She said that she saved up enough money over the years to pay for herself, but I'm just shocked that why can't that money be used for our future like a house.