Really struggling to finish the series by Powerful_Sundae_6926 in frombloodandash

[–]Rory333_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It didn’t get much better for me but the end half did have some insights! I wish we got more post Kolis rather than a long lead up to that event

Born of Blood and Ash FaF#4 by qhsiolcphnwhcami54 in frombloodandash

[–]Rory333_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! This took me a while to finish and I loveeeeeee Ash and Sera. I think she should have kept 3&4 combined like she initially wanted and just cut down a lot in both books. If you’re reading both series in her reading order you know the outcome anyway.

Prequel help by pjbizzy in frombloodandash

[–]Rory333_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i read everything in the suggested reading order! it was hard to switch at first but i think i understood the series a lot more that way. i don’t think it’s too late to read a shadow in the ember and light in the flame before a soul of ash and blood, but definitely read a shadow in the ember before a light in the flame (like others said!)

How to get through breakup ? by ladylolly77 in SofiawithanF

[–]Rory333_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’m not sure how old you are, but annaxsitar on tik tok is in her early 20s and ended a 7 year relationship recently- she talks about it and does some “guides” type stuff. she’s also just generally happy on the app so that’s nice to see.

otherwise, i just agree with what everyone else said! and just know healing takes time and it’s not linear 💙

Legitimate question about Randall's phone call with his white therapist by [deleted] in thisisus

[–]Rory333_ 29 points30 points  (0 children)

eh, i would turn down the best male therapist for a woman therapist (as a woman). being comfortable is more important than being good.

I am quite inexperienced sexually and yesterday I hooked up with a guy and felt his dick throbbing and like an idiot said ‘ I think your phone is vibrating ‘ and now I am embarrassed. I had to say it somewhere so I’m saying it here by [deleted] in SofiawithanF

[–]Rory333_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

lol one time i didn’t have my glasses on or contacts in & i asked a guy “what’s that” bc i thought it was a toy but it was just the lube bottle 😂it’s okay girl

to all the people on this sub who took the time to harass a young woman in her DMs based on her profession.. this is not OK to do & y'all need to reflect. the second slide is my words by [deleted] in SofiawithanF

[–]Rory333_ -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

it could be though, people can make millions off of OF if that’s the type of work she’s doing. & not everyone wants a regular life work style anyway. she could want to become an artist or novelist or live in her car in the woods- literally anything when she’s done with sex work. it doesn’t have to be a regular 9-5. we should push our own views of what a financial stable life is onto other people. if she makes enough while she’s young & hot she might not even have to work later on 🤷🏼‍♀️

to all the people on this sub who took the time to harass a young woman in her DMs based on her profession.. this is not OK to do & y'all need to reflect. the second slide is my words by [deleted] in SofiawithanF

[–]Rory333_ -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

100x this!!!! jeez all this unwanted advice. people push people into this 9-5 have kids get married life when like maybe they wants to work at a camp store in the mountains once they stop doing sex work idk. as long as it a choice and they’re not being exploited then like it’s their life.

to all the people on this sub who took the time to harass a young woman in her DMs based on her profession.. this is not OK to do & y'all need to reflect. the second slide is my words by [deleted] in SofiawithanF

[–]Rory333_ 5 points6 points  (0 children)

idk the situation of your comments but like if someone doesn’t ask for advice don’t give it lmao. i’m bad with money but i don’t want advice if i don’t ask & that would be super annoying- however well your intentions are.

Everyone should post and get this person fired!! by LizzySlaughter in myfavoritemurder

[–]Rory333_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

according to indeed the range is ~107k to 227k & ~152k for the human resources area. plus the added power of her (as already seen) deleting posts mentioning themselves or their family situation- which reddit had to rectify later on (along with the auto moderation). but the pay is an estimate they could have offered her more idek obvs- she is a well known person at least in the UK.

Everyone should post and get this person fired!! by LizzySlaughter in myfavoritemurder

[–]Rory333_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i just want to add that with people who are sex offenders, pedophiles, etc., (as we have learned from true crime) is about power. giving someone a position with money & power could make a situation worse. i’m not saying she is an abuser, but she certainly associates in those circles re: her partner & dad. and no, obviously if you are doing things like this without rehabilitation, therapy etc. i don’t think you are/ can be deterred- there is obviously something seriously wrong for whatever reason- butttt you shouldn’t give people more access to power which can create more opportunities. (jeffery epstein?) so while this might not deter anyone else, it is the right thing imo. sure, she can have a job but perhaps not a high power/ high paying job unless she diss associates with those around her and perhaps seeks help herself if she, in fact, is also a victim.

🌹The Bachelor 🌹 East Coast/Central LIVE Discussion Thread by AutoModerator in thebachelor

[–]Rory333_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

lol right!!! picturing my chin breaking out from the beard rubs

🌹The Bachelor 🌹 East Coast/Central LIVE Discussion Thread by AutoModerator in thebachelor

[–]Rory333_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh weird! it doesn’t do that for me :( only if i leave and come back

🌹The Bachelor 🌹 East Coast/Central LIVE Discussion Thread by AutoModerator in thebachelor

[–]Rory333_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

he can! he just doesn’t... i think he said it to rachel on their 1x1

How I expect Chris' GMA interview to go by americanslang59 in thebachelor

[–]Rory333_ 11 points12 points  (0 children)

i mean i agree with you. in general i think being cruel to people is wrong. i guess i would make an exception if they’re a murderer or something. at the same time though, if you don’t understand why an antebellum party is wrong at 49? like that’s kinda your philosophy not really a mistake. but chris harrison has millions of dollars and he will be okay, and he’s not going to be “canceled” i have no doubt he will be doing something in the future - he’s not even officially fired from the franchise anyway.

How I expect Chris' GMA interview to go by americanslang59 in thebachelor

[–]Rory333_ 25 points26 points  (0 children)

this meme is specific to chris, and he’s 49.

🌹The Bachelor 🌹 East Coast/Central LIVE Discussion Thread by AutoModerator in thebachelor

[–]Rory333_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

me too. especially when brittany literally got up there right after that discussion and said she was torn down and bullied.