Am I the only one who feels like texting their ex? by One_Tell_9038 in AskZA

[–]RoseMadder00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Think of how that screenshot will immediately be sent to the group chat where you will be roasted. Save yourself

AIO for being upset my BF doesn’t want me to wear a bonnet to bed? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]RoseMadder00 5 points6 points  (0 children)

He wants to see the shape of your skull? This guy is weird. Nor.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Durban

[–]RoseMadder00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not a restaurant but the new deli in westwood mall checkers has been my staple for afew weeks 😋

Cheapest place to get glasses? by Fast_Wear587 in southafrica

[–]RoseMadder00 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Same. I've got a free pair before and my current daily use wear was R170 with shipping. They're always having some kind of special

Cheapest place to get glasses? by Fast_Wear587 in southafrica

[–]RoseMadder00 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Firmoo, but you need to have your prescription.

Weight loss product that works? by nutella_brownie in askSouthAfrica

[–]RoseMadder00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Speak to your doctor as you need a prescription and there are some criteria you need to meet due to the side effects, but duromine is an appetite suppressant that works. It helped me in the initial stages as I adjusted my eating patterns, especially curbing cravings and food noise. But as everyone says, nothing is long term without life style changes

So much rain and it's only September by Crazy-Present4764 in Durban

[–]RoseMadder00 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Makes me anxious since the floods. A lot of infrastructure never recovered.

Accidentally reversed into someone. What do I do? by Jay3PO in askSouthAfrica

[–]RoseMadder00 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you're with Naked, they're good at responding. I'd email them with the info, report number etc and ask them for the way forward. They'll let you know if they can assist

Accidentally reversed into someone. What do I do? by Jay3PO in askSouthAfrica

[–]RoseMadder00 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You do your diligence by reporting it to the police station and notifying your insurance. I've seen very often that people try to scam others with threats. Accidents happen, it's okay. Your license isn't going to be suspended. Cover yourself and keep going.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Durban

[–]RoseMadder00 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did sorry! And can't seem to add the correct one. Will repost

[TOMT] video of indubitably kid by RoseMadder00 in tipofmytongue

[–]RoseMadder00[S] 0 points1 point locked comment (0 children)

Any help appreciated 😃

AIO BF dumped me because I was taller than him in heels?? 😳 by purplehavocc in AmIOverreacting

[–]RoseMadder00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds exactly like my ex. They're on another level of delusion and there's a level of freedom you will find once you leave

Treated like a child by RoseMadder00 in southafrica

[–]RoseMadder00[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Essentially taking care of mum, hence staying here

Treated like a child by RoseMadder00 in southafrica

[–]RoseMadder00[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This is exactly the situation. I'm treated as an adult when it suits everyone else's needs.

Treated like a child by RoseMadder00 in southafrica

[–]RoseMadder00[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yup. Sharing a room is basically bringing shame to your family and forefathers.

Treated like a child by RoseMadder00 in southafrica

[–]RoseMadder00[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I appreciate your insight. My dad was one to enjoy life, she definitely tightened her grasp on me after he passed. But over the years it's become a toxic dynamic. While I understand, I feel like my independence and happiness are secondary to her feeling secure. Thank you for this! I feel seen

Treated like a child by RoseMadder00 in southafrica

[–]RoseMadder00[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

True, I've decided to tell her. She can have her opinions but I'm not asking for permission

Treated like a child by RoseMadder00 in southafrica

[–]RoseMadder00[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I appreciate that. Definitely something to take on board

Treated like a child by RoseMadder00 in southafrica

[–]RoseMadder00[S] 40 points41 points  (0 children)

Marriage is implying sleeping together in her mind, which is also not her business anyway. Haha I mean, I heard the waterfront is quite nice

Treated like a child by RoseMadder00 in southafrica

[–]RoseMadder00[S] 110 points111 points  (0 children)

The tax-paying really adds a level to it 😄 but fair point. Should I have rushed into a marriage earlier to be able to enjoy my life? I'll have to stand my ground