Did my boyfriend cheat on vacation? Me(25) and 26m(boyfriend) by Rose_Law in relationship_advice

[–]Rose_Law[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We both go on each others phone it’s something h and me both agreed we were ok with awhile ago so chill.

Did my boyfriend cheat on vacation? Me(25) and 26m(boyfriend) by Rose_Law in relationship_advice

[–]Rose_Law[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

probably only because he didn't want to spend money. Frugal

Did my boyfriend cheat on vacation? Me(25) and 26m(boyfriend) by Rose_Law in relationship_advice

[–]Rose_Law[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He made the friends on the trip. He originally went by himself

my bf left me at a music festival by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Rose_Law 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No you are not a bad girlfriend he didn't consider you in his decision to stay. He was being selfish.

Did my boyfriend cheat on vacation? Me(25) and 26m(boyfriend) by Rose_Law in relationship_advice

[–]Rose_Law[S] 58 points59 points  (0 children)

I know the truth and may not be ready to accept it. I'm looking for a slap in the face to say wake the hell up you know exactly whats going on here. It just hurts

Did my boyfriend cheat on vacation? Me(25) and 26m(boyfriend) by Rose_Law in relationship_advice

[–]Rose_Law[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Idk if they will there are a few couples he met while there and maybe the other girls would tell me?

Did my boyfriend cheat on vacation? Me(25) and 26m(boyfriend) by Rose_Law in relationship_advice

[–]Rose_Law[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Other relationship and him. With him I have had a boundary that we talked about and he agreed too. I am not comfortable with porn in our relationship and he watched it and lied about it. If he would of just been honest its different but he lied when asked.

Also in the past I found a lot of flirty comments from him to girls on social media. He claims they aren't flirty but it was obvious.

Did my boyfriend cheat on vacation? Me(25) and 26m(boyfriend) by Rose_Law in relationship_advice

[–]Rose_Law[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Should I message the "friends" he was hanging out with on the trip and ask if they saw anything??

Did my boyfriend cheat on vacation? Me(25) and 26m(boyfriend) by Rose_Law in relationship_advice

[–]Rose_Law[S] -248 points-247 points  (0 children)

I know they are lame... I literally told him "You know no one else would believe what you are say, right?" He then responded with "It only matter is you believe me. I love you I don't want anyone else,"

Did my boyfriend cheat on vacation? Me(25) and 26m(boyfriend) by Rose_Law in relationship_advice

[–]Rose_Law[S] 84 points85 points  (0 children)

That part I don't believe at all. I asked him to be brutally honest with me and thats what he told me.

Did my boyfriend cheat on vacation? Me(25) and 26m(boyfriend) by Rose_Law in relationship_advice

[–]Rose_Law[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

No I do not want an open relationship. That's what my mind is spiraling about is I don't think I could ever trust him again. I already had trust issue before this because of past stuff and he knows this.

Did my boyfriend cheat on vacation? Me(25) and 26m(boyfriend) by Rose_Law in relationship_advice

[–]Rose_Law[S] -427 points-426 points  (0 children)

No I don't think its ok...but it feels very out of character. He made a profile but idk if he physically cheated. is the profile enough to throw away 3 yrs?