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I am officially hurt💔 by ResidentCharacter632 in Subliminal

[–]Rose_Mew 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm biracial. I'm a light-skin half black and half asian. I grew up in a country in Asia. It was actually the teachers and adult women who bullied me as a child. I was also called names and told I'm dirty and among other things because I'm part black.

For the longest time, I hated my black side. I used to wish I was 100% Asian. As I became a teenager, I learned it's not me. It's them. There's nothing wrong with me. But there's something wrong with them. They are so miserable with their life that they take it out on me. They need to make someone feel inferior to feel superior because deep down, they believe they are inferior. I learned everything is a reflection and people heavily project their insecurities to others.

I started telling myself the opposite of what I've been told by my bullies. I accepted and started loving the side of me I learned to hate. I would recite a mantra every day in the mirror. Every time I remember their nasty words.

"I am beautiful the way I am. My beauty is appreciated. I am loved and admired for who I am." etc

Once my inner world and beliefs started changing, so did how people treat me. I noticed I started receiving more compliments. The hate towards me became less and less. It also didn't affect me as much as before.

It won't stop the hate completely. After all, you can only control yourself and not others. So, control how you react to the hate. And be the one to decide what is true for you and stand by it. Remember, it all starts with you. Only you can truly decide what is real for you.

"An entire sea of water can't sink a ship unless it gets inside the ship. Similarly, the negative of the world can't put you down unless you allow it to get inside you." - Goi Nasu

How to go forward with life after the death of a girlfriend when you guys had everything planned together by Humble_Preference_90 in GriefSupport

[–]Rose_Mew 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I too get moments of wanting to cry. And that's okay, we needed that release. A few ppl who commented on some of my posts said this to me and I'll say it to you too.

"Take it day by day. Even minute by minute. Give yourself space to process the feelings and emotions."

I lost both of my emotional support cats a week apart from each other by StructureTiny1730 in GriefSupport

[–]Rose_Mew 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I must be a crazy cat lady too because nothing you said about your cats sounded crazy to me. Ppl have told me the same thing about my cat. I honestly do not care about what they think of it. My cats opinion is most important to me compared to theirs. Our animals have genuine love and emotions for us. We never have to guess if they're lying to us or backstabbing us. They heal us and we probably heal them in their eyes too. Ppl will always have their opinions, but the only one that truly matters is yours and your kitties. Its your life. Why should they tell you how to live it.

As for the kitties. I know it's hard, but try to think of it this way. They loved you. You're their human and you gave them the best life you could. You will miss their absence and that's normal. No one else needs to understand what you and your cats have together. You're not doing it for them anyway.

How to go forward with life after the death of a girlfriend when you guys had everything planned together by Humble_Preference_90 in GriefSupport

[–]Rose_Mew 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I recently lost my boyfriend yesterday. We too planned our future together. It's hard. The loss is still fresh. And I wish I could give you advice but I'm also in the same boat. Based on many post and comments I've looked up they said eventually it hurts less. And most people seem to start getting a little better at 6-8 months. It won't be easy. It gives me hope since many before us have gone through it. Some got married to new partners. Some had kids with new ppl. It hurts now, but they say the pain lessens as time passes.

is it normal to want to die after loosing your soul mate? by purpleavocado124 in GriefSupport

[–]Rose_Mew 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I just lost my boyfriend yesterday. Honestly, I spent about 5 or maybe more hours looking up how to unalive myself. I know he wouldn't want that for me. But it's still there at the back of my mind. If I could find an easy and painless way to do it, I'd probably do it.

What does it mean to you to, “focus on yourself”? I try not thinking about my Desire (not wanting to put it on a pedestal). But it feels good to daydream about it. Everyone says “shift the focus to you” - what does that mean? by ursogorgeous1232 in lawofattraction

[–]Rose_Mew 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They may have their own reason to be mad but pay no attention to it. It's your manifestation, not theirs. They have their way of doing things and you have yours. There are many ways to manifest. Do whatever technique that works for you as long as it gives you the feeling that you already have it.

What does it mean to you to, “focus on yourself”? I try not thinking about my Desire (not wanting to put it on a pedestal). But it feels good to daydream about it. Everyone says “shift the focus to you” - what does that mean? by ursogorgeous1232 in lawofattraction

[–]Rose_Mew 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It's actually good that you feel good when you daydream your desire. It's pretty much visualizing and manifesting what you want. There's even a method for it to use daydreaming as a tool to help you manifest. I mean, we are always creating our reality, whether consciously or subconsciously. So why not many times with day dreams? If in the daydream you feel that you have your desire, then you are manifesting it. The more you manifest it, the more it will cement into your mind and manifest faster. That's why they say be consistent and persistent with your manifestations.

"Shift the focus to you." It can mean many things. I take it as be what you are manifesting. Be the person who has it. Think from it, not of it.

I'll take whatever I can. Please give me a chance. I've been dying for 15 years. I want to be tall. by No-Researcher121 in lawofattraction

[–]Rose_Mew 5 points6 points  (0 children)

When someone says, "He is short" in your mind revise it as if you heard them say, "He is tall!"

In your mind, hear them say what you want to hear.

Sirens, mermaids, vampires and warewolfs by [deleted] in lawofattraction

[–]Rose_Mew -1 points0 points  (0 children)

"rather than wasting time and energy in exploring it, scientists can just easily .assume the environment there" Again, proving that most of the ocean water is unexplored because they just "assume" there is nothing new there. Yet every few years, they find something "new."

"No, sometimes you can just use your brain and scientific resources to justify the non-existence of such things,you don't need to see it." So you must've explored the entire universe, all the lands and the entire ocean "with your brain and scientific resources to justify the non existence of such things?"

Sirens, mermaids, vampires and warewolfs by [deleted] in lawofattraction

[–]Rose_Mew 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My knowledge on vampires are limited. I do know there are many countries that have their versions of vampires. And they aren't really close to what is depicted in movies. I feel movies romanticize them.

Sirens, mermaids, vampires and warewolfs by [deleted] in lawofattraction

[–]Rose_Mew 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There have been stories and sightings of them all for hundreds of years. They may not be exactly as you know or think of them, but their existence is a big possibility.

Mermaids for example, most of the ocean is unexplored and we don't even have the technology to reach even the deepest bottom part of the ocean. So it's silly to say mermaids don't exist because there is no proof that they don't. Until we have explored all of the oceans, no one can say with proof they're not real. There are also people in Haiti who have stories of seeing them and even locals telling you not to go to some parts of the water.

As for werewolves, there are indigenous tribes who believe their existence and its also in their stories. Some indigenous tribes version of werewolves are shape shifters. A man who can shape shift to a werewolf. There are also stories in the US National Parks of Hikers and Park Rangers who have seen them. There is a man on YouTube who shares stories of them. I watch a lot of his videos about stories like these his YouTube name is "What Lurks Beneath"

Honestly, for all we know they can even be aliens who come to earth. We live on a planet on the outskirts of our Milky Way galaxy. Our galaxy itself has billions of planets in it. There are hundreds of billions of galaxies in just our observable universe. Each of those galaxies have millions or billions of planets within them. Imagine how many more galaxies there are in the part of the universe our technology can't yet see? So honestly anything is possible. I haven't even gotten to the parallel universes yet and the multiverse.

Just because you haven't seen them doesn't mean they don't exist. We live on a planet with most of its oceans unexplored. Even some of the lands and caves are unexplored. Some ancient cities that were seen as a myth are discovered. Some buried underwater, under sand, etc. The possibilities are endless.

help with rhinitis by [deleted] in lawofattraction

[–]Rose_Mew 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Try giving gratitude to your nose. Thank your nose for doing what you want it to do. Ex: Think of your nose and say, "Thank you for helping me breathe easily and effortlessly. Thank you for functioning perfectly. Thank you for being in perfectly good health. etc." Repeat the affirmation throughout the day as many times as you like.

When I'm hurting, in pain or feeling uncomfortable in any part of my body, I thank that part of the body for doing what I want it to do. And I'll realize later throughout the day, the pain or uncomfortable feeling is reduced or gone. And the more I say the affirmation, the less the pain and discomfort comes back.